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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could someone please give me some advice on how to go about this I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone please give me some advice on how to go about this I'm confused "

What are you hoping to achieve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is your question?

Forums, Fab, Swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun "

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun "

Well how do you normally do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck "

Estella play nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone please give me some advice on how to go about this I'm confused "

I'm confused too. We can be confused together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's just a new situation,I'm not sure my profile is very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun "

keep putting chum in the water, they can smell the blood from literally miles away, that usually helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

Estella play nicely "

I did! I was honest and wished him luck!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

Estella play nicely "

I think Estella's been abducted by aliens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

Estella play nicely

I did! I was honest and wished him luck!!"

You're a beautiful woman give him an opinion on how he might attract such a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

Estella play nicely

I think Estella's been abducted by aliens "

Nah they'd bring her back sharpish when they realised they couldn't handle her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol sorry I sound sad lol

Do you wink

Do you chat

Or do you freind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to attract some people for fun

Can't help there, sorry. Good luck

Estella play nicely

I think Estella's been abducted by aliens

Nah they'd bring her back sharpish when they realised they couldn't handle her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy peasy fs just scout the forums for bitches you like the look or sound of try and collect around 100 or more then send out a message asking them if they want yer Boaby mind attatch yer best dick pic , once the law of averages prevails you'll get yer jam roll simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol sorry I sound sad lol

Do you wink

Do you chat

Or do you freind"

Reply and Quote is your friend on the forum then peeps know who you are responding to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy peasy fs just scout the forums for bitches you like the look or sound of try and collect around 100 or more then send out a message asking them if they want yer Boaby mind attatch yer best dick pic , once the law of averages prevails you'll get yer jam roll simples."

Or........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone please give me some advice on how to go about this I'm confused "

If you were to ask I'd say your pictures and profile need expanding and any expectations need lowering.

But that line about kissing, that's a winner right there.....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's not alway's easy for men on here. Join in the forums more so people can see your personality a bit better,improve on your photo's. You say you're at the end of a long marriage,what does that mean exactly?! Some people will meet married men some won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy peasy fs, just scout the forums for bitches you like the look or sound of, try and collect around 100 or more. Then send them out a generic copy and paste message asking them if they want yer boaby, mind attatch yer best dick pic, once the law of averages prevails you'll get yer jam roll in no time, simples.

That's better, tipsy me is worse than Seeside fs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best do a search for advice, you'll get nothing but sarcasm in your own thread, there's some good advice to be found though, just need to do a little research.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Best do a search for advice, you'll get nothing but sarcasm in your own thread, there's some good advice to be found though, just need to do a little research. "

I don't see where the sarcasm is in my post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best do a search for advice, you'll get nothing but sarcasm in your own thread, there's some good advice to be found though, just need to do a little research.

I don't see where the sarcasm is in my post! "

I was generalising, sorry.

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By *dventurousAlexMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Could someone please give me some advice on how to go about this I'm confused "

Fab is just a place where people meet. The same kind of people that work with you, serve you, employ you.

I think a lot of men rush in here and think every woman is gagging for them and they just have to give the order.

Talk to people as you would if you met them somewhere else, not as if they are here for your pleasure, and if you have something they want then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I think that is excellent advice

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Shag where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my best advice is stick in there. Add photos when you get good ideas from other photos, same with your profile txt. You've wrote something which is a start but as you learn more about what you want and who you are add that as well.

As for winks/messages that all depends on who you want to attract as everyone responds differently. There is no right or wrong way.

Just join in and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"You need patience! "

Who needs shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag where are you? "
I am here now

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Shag where are you? I am here now "

About bloody time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol sorry I sound sad lol

Do you wink

Do you chat

Or do you freind"

If you're asking generally, going by what I read on the forums...

Some people completely ignore winks, others like them so not always easy to know how they'll be received.

Lots of people will not accept a friend request if it's from someone they've never chatted to, and is something you see on quite a few profiles so I don't think that's a good starting point.

Your best bet is a good first message backed up by a decent profile. There are plenty of threads with profile advice if you feel you need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag where are you? I am here now

About bloody time "
That is right, it is

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