FabSwingers.com forum: Turn offs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What puts you off somebody in a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shyness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleaziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleaziness"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are very self cent_ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky I suppose. Nastiness and arrogant behaviour is always off putting, that would turn everything sour for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath

Unkempt appearance

Awful perfume

gobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gobby"

No I like this in a woman.

I quite like a gobshite.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Poor hygiene. Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath, lack of hygiene.

Lacking humour.

Those who spend all their time on their blinkin phone.

Those who show any signs of disrespect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a confident man so if he was shy and quiet at a social with Me I would be put off .I like good conversation and feel the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person. "

Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.

If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap shoes

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

When they talk about ex's .... its really not necessary .

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Not using a coaster and using the wrong fork.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The guy who fell asleep while I was givig him a blow job put me off a bit

so did the woman who said she was compromising. Its a good job I'm not sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of shit

Dirty fingernails

Rude manners

No sense of humour

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.

Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.

If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind."

Yeah, I'm normally quite good at meets (2 not great to date!) but shit happens and they were dull as fuck and not keen enough to even attempt to make proper conversation. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not using a coaster and using the wrong fork."

How can you use the wrong fork?..a fork is a fork?..

Who could possibly get that wrong?...

You're meeting weirdo's.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

When they've lied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they talk about ex's .... its really not necessary ."

Or other women they are

Meeting/have met.

Really makes you feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.

Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.

If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind.

Yeah, I'm normally quite good at meets (2 not great to date!) but shit happens and they were dull as fuck and not keen enough to even attempt to make proper conversation. Oh well.

ah.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Bad teeth,cockiness or bad attitude

Long dirty nails

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of ability to mentally engage me.

Coarse and rude, unnecessary.

Trying to make me think like they are doing me a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy who fell asleep while I was givig him a blow job put me off a bit

so did the woman who said she was compromising. Its a good job I'm not sensitive.

Had he been drinking ?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swearing for no reason.

If every 2nd word is fuck then I will be very unlikely to want to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The guy who fell asleep while I was givig him a blow job put me off a bit

so did the woman who said she was compromising. Its a good job I'm not sensitive.

Had he been drinking ?"

Not enough to have that effect. He did fall asleep as various intervals during our encounter I think he just found me very boring, but due to the nature of the situation it can't have been because I was talking too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much makeup

Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public

Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute

Too touchy feely

Crying when theve d*unk too much

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

People stuck up their own arses x

Bad breath n BO x there's no need lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of a full set of teeth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good range then lol, I dislike poor hygiene, chavvyness if that's a word lol. I love confidence even arrogance! Real manly working hands and someone who makes me giggle x

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

people who think they are doing you a favor by meeting you. xxx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Shitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleaziness"

1st lad I met from here was pure sleazy bastard.he was pure disgust.it's a woder I met anyone else

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Shyness."

Block me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene, thats just rude!

Overly hairy, I don't mind natural, but I don't want to sleep with a wookie.

Probably though, most important, no spark. I don't know what it is, I just know when it's not there.

Oh, and too bossy.

Wait, that's four....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crying when theve d*unk too much"

Yeah, I hate it when guys do that

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Bad breath

Unkempt appearance

Awful perfume ****

gobby"

**** do you specify your prefer_ed list?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shitting

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you've had someone do that on a meet ?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Not using a coaster and using the wrong fork.

How can you use the wrong fork?..a fork is a fork?..

Who could possibly get that wrong?...

You're meeting weirdo's.

There are different forks as there different types of knife

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

hard to eat your chips with a garden fork. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they talk about ex's .... its really not necessary ."

Especially if all they do is slag off their exes

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It's been mentioned a few tines, but I'm 100% with those who've said the person thinks they're doing you've favour. Dude, changing a lightbulb for me is doing me a favour.... offering sex (probably crap sex at that) really is not.

Dirty nails - instantly think of infection it could cause

Breath, obviously

Showing no interest in me as a person

Arrogance.

Being rude to a waitress/staff member in the place we are at

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It's been mentioned a few tines, but I'm 100% with those who've said the person thinks they're doing you've favour. Dude, changing a lightbulb for me is doing me a favour.... offering sex (probably crap sex at that) really is not.

Dirty nails - instantly think of infection it could cause

Breath, obviously

Showing no interest in me as a person

Arrogance.

Being rude to a waitress/staff member in the place we are at

*you a favour

Shoulda proof read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they talk about ex's .... its really not necessary .

Especially if all they do is slag off their exes

Yes, I hate that! I'd much rather someone speak favourably about their ex, if it ever comes up!

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Lack of chemistry / spark.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Too much makeup

Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public

Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute

Too touchy feely

Crying when theve d*unk too much"

Damn have you seen me at a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far I haven't had a meet go badly (as far as I know... they may have been too nice to say otherwise) so I can't say

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Shyness."

How shy are you talking?

I am pretty shy in person, takes me a while to make eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much makeup

Dressed in clothes a street walker wouldn't wear in public

Expecting the guy to pay without ever offering to contribute

Too touchy feely

Crying when theve d*unk too much

Damn have you seen me at a meet? "

You mean youve forgotten ours? Im wounded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath and folk who don't know how to respect someone's personal space.

PTU xxx

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Little interest or effort in getting to know me. A lack of any sort of spark in the person.

Both of these things put me off in messages let alone a meet.

If those 2 things were lacking in messaging the meet wouldn't happen....in my mind."

Someone full of their own self importance, Don't get me wrong I do like to listen to peoples life stories as I find you get to know the real person rather then what she has written on her profile and I prefer to please a woman and get off on the fact that she is/has really enjoyed herself but she has to show some interest in me,

I know a lot of people just like to have sex then part company but for me to really enjoy the moment we have to have that connection, Be able to laugh at each other or just lay next to each other chatting about random stuff while the sexual tension builds up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There needs to be a connection.

Things that put me off :-

Bad breath

Bad manners

Lack of conversation

Sometimes it's just a feeling that it's not working out

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

Sorry

Oh you!

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Bad breath, lack of hygiene.

Lacking humour.

Those who spend all their time on their blinkin phone.

Those who show any signs of disrespect."

Apart from meets, there is nothing worse than someone continually checking their phone while talking to you . Even had this with a new employee recently. He might not make it to be an old employee...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

Sorry

Oh you!"

Me? No

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Hairy ears"

Makes note to wear ear muffs

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Poor hygiene. Its not hard to wash properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers

Bad hygiene

Boastful

Rugby supporters

Tory supporter

Ukip supporter

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

That's mine too. I had to explain to a bloke once that not respecting my refusal to go to bed with him that minute didn't fill me with confidence that he would respect me saying no to anything once we got to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When no means 'not now but keep trying' to them

You remind me of a goodramgate drinker? Like the Snickleway Inn ?

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