FabSwingers.com forum: Have you led a sheltered life?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did it make things difficult later on

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and now making up for it -

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

Yes. And no it didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

If some of the stuff I read on here is true then fuck yes but I'm happy with my lot so no it hasn't.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

No school of hard knocks and come out a winner obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very and now im having the time of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think generally most people in the Western world especially the UK, have,compared to some parts of the world led a sheltered life. This obviously doesn't include those subject to abuse or exploitation by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and making up for it now.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Yes

And no, it just means the discovery stage can be enjoyed so much more when I have the intelligence to appreciate it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Depends what ones means by sheltered. Sexually I did for a long time.

If we're talking about living in one place all your life and having no adventures, then no I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends what ones means by sheltered. Sexually I did for a long time.

If we're talking about living in one place all your life and having no adventures, then no I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life was insane from birth

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Yes, on somethings but trying to make up for it now

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Have I led a sheltered life?

In the world of Fab "O yes" very sheltered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and I'm relatively happy with that to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sexually. I met an older man when I was 16. He taught me well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sexually. I met an older man when I was 16. He taught me well

Is that why youve always like older guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sexually. I met an older man when I was 16. He taught me well

Is that why youve always like older guys ? "

Yeah I guess so. I like confidence, older guys tend to have that without being cocky.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Sexually possibly, at least until my teens

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I wish I had

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I had a very sheltered childhood. I didn't hear swearing until I started school and then it was only "shit"

My mum wouldn't allow us to learn to play cards, we weren't allowed comics like Beano (but we read them at other people's houses lol), I didn't come across the word fuck until I was about 11...that all changed when I left home for college at 18

Did it hold me back? Possibly but I'm not sure in what way.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Errrm, so this is a Sex Site?

Ooh, I wish I'd known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye an a still dae

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually I did, circumstances dictated that I didn't have a sex life till my late 20s

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Yes.

At times wish I haddount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define 'sheltered'. I grew up in the countryside so wasn't very streetwise, but that has never held me back. I had a horribly abusive home life though, which still casts a shadow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. It's had no impact on my adult life. I first had sex with the guy I married. .. And since him I've been grown up enough to choose my partners wisely so I've never had to suffer crap meaningless sex. I think I've benefited immensely from having a sheltered life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Near crippling shyness and insecurity in teenage years certainly means on here that I struggle when trying to be myself and put myself forward when sending a message to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,had fairly sheltered childhood,grew up in house with manners,respect and general desire to do the right thing,all of which i tend to find largely missing from much of life these days from work to the standards displayed on the roads,perhaps a dreamer.....

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Yes,not sure it did me any good

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By *atteriesnotIncludedMan
over a year ago

Buxton

"Yes very and now im having the time of my life

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Same here....its great now though

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Yes mainly, met mr and he didn't. Soon adjusted!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"yes and now making up for it - "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents kept a lot from us and it made it difficult for me to stand up for myself, later in life. I didn't and still don't know how to argue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My parents kept a lot from us and it made it difficult for me to stand up for myself, later in life. I didn't and still don't know how to argue."

Or maybe that's just how I am, because all my siblings seem to do ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ish and sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like alot of swingers seem to have had a sheltered life judging by the comments on this thread.

These seem to range from upringing, shyness, stale relationships/marriages etc etc .

So now they are feeling liberated and wish to experience things that they hadn't experienced before and have found a new zest for it.

I wonder if thats why those who have havent had a sheltered life or been in stale relationships etc and who have had good sexual relations throughout their life seem to be less hyped or excited about sex.

They don't seem to hold sex as such a high priority in their life like the ones who have had led a more sheltered life.

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