FabSwingers.com forum: Do you play bi, advice.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For a while now I've replied to couples for mmf bi play even though I don't advertise I am bicurious. I have done oral and fondling etc. E.g. Love sucking a cock after it's been in a pussy.

So advice requested is, does it put couples off who advertise as straight if a lad puts bi/bicurious on their profile?

And if you are a bi/bicurious couple or with M bi does the straight status stop you replying to a M straight profile?

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can't speak as a couple, as I'm single but there have been many comments here over time discussing sexual orientation. There are distinct types of people with strong views on it.

A lot of couples who like bi mm play dislike straight men who pretend to be bi, as a con to get sex with the female - but won't entertain mm play. This group will remain suspicious for potential liars.

Other couples who are straight but don't want to play with guys who are bi or curious. They feel duped by such guys stating they're straight.

There are others but those types won't welcome you very favourably, if at all.

To circumvent reluctance from the bi interested couples, you could consider changing the profile label or visiting clubs on bi nights. You'd potentially increase your contacts and friends, including some fab users. A verification from a mm meet you might have may also help.

The cost of altering your description is that you may decrease the number of straight people open to playing with you. If you explore your curious side and discontinue play, you're at liberty to use whichever label suits you.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in our experience, I'm NOT making a sweeping generalisation, but bi-curious will only play suck/wank, not all the way we look for experienced fully Bi guys who are up for full play.

We ignore all straight guys and most Bi curious.