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Clothing Colour Choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tonight I saw a lady walking home from the gym, she was wearing a bright pink top and leggings, and she looked pretty fit. It occurred to me that if she was wearing a dull colour, I may not have even looked at her, and I'm sure she wouldn't have looked as appealing, despite her body being no different. I realise this sounds a bit silly and makes me sound shallow and basic, but it got me thinking!

Ladies, do you think about the colours you wear in terms of the effect they may have on the opposite sex (or whoever you might wish to attract)? Or is this not in your thought process when you go shopping or get dressed?

Gents, do you feel the same? Do some colours attract your attention and/or make the ladies look more appealing to you?

Genuinely interested to hear if this is a thing or I'm just an oddball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable. "

this

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It might cross my mind that certain colours of underwear have particular effects on others, but even then, I wouldn't wear something if it wasn't in my comfort zone.

Outerwear, I wear what I want (and this nearly always ends up being dark colours) and don't think about the effect the colour or style might have on anyone else.

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I bought a new shirt yesterday that I wouldn't normally have dreamed of wearing but thought I'd try it on, I wore it last night and got lots of really good comments....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don't give it a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable. "

As she pulls oot her 22inch strap on fs.

Runs and hides under the bed*

#thefear

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I take quite a few factors in to account when I get dressed. I'm not ashamed to admit that I like admiring glances from men but I don't specifically dress to attract them. I wear quite a lot of colour because I enjoy it, Mr N likes it and I like to look a bit different. This has the added effect of attracting mens (and often womens) eyes but as I say it isn't my main intention.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i mostly wear dull colours like grey, blue, white, black. i don't like to stand out when out really and still get noticed.

my tattoos and hair are my coloured bits of my outfits. my hair is the only stuff usually on show though coz if my tattoos are out loads of people will just talk to me about them and it's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable.

As she pulls oot her 22inch strap on fs.

Runs and hides under the bed*

#thefear "

Methinks the laddy doth protest too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear cooler colours - lots of blue, grey and purple - because they suit my colouring. I don't wear them for anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are tons of fashion disasters walking around out there

But if you are comfortable in what your wearing carry on

It took me a longtime to develop my own fashion sense. My mother was still buying my clothes into my teens

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable. "

That's me, I stick to dark colour s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the answers. I had a feeling most people would say they dress for themselves, and not others, I hope it didn't come across that I was suggesting women should dress to please men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the answers. I had a feeling most people would say they dress for themselves, and not others, I hope it didn't come across that I was suggesting women should dress to please men. "

No, it read as a genuine question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wear bright colours, today I have orange trousers on, but I have always been that way. I might buy a certain item of clothing in a style mr likes but the colour choices are mine.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable.

this"

+1

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the answers. I had a feeling most people would say they dress for themselves, and not others, I hope it didn't come across that I was suggesting women should dress to please men. "

Not to me it didn't.

I think a lot of men assume that women dress to please them. I think a lot of women enjoy looking attractive. The two aren't necessarily the same though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a honeymonster outfit most days when out and about, gets lots of attention.

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By *uscious_lips30Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

My wardrobe is full of bright coloured clothes which are co-ordinated with my shoes and handbags. It's not very often that I wear all black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on my mood. At the risk of sounding vain, I have to admit that I occasionally like being noticed (doesn't happen very often since reaching mid 30's) but I'll dress in clothes that I think make me look good, not what I think others would like. The majority of the time I don't want attention so will wear comfy stuff in more subdued colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dress for me and wear what makes me feel confident and comfortable. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will continue to wear black until they come up with a darker colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly wear dull colours; I don't like drawing attention to myself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I dress for myself, inevitably ignoring special demands for specific items or looks. But as have our behaviour reinforced by feedback and results, others' positivity probably must influence me.

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