FabSwingers.com forum: Do you warn

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you see a friend on here or a fellow forunite has been added to the friends list of someone who has proved themselves as a time waster or a windup merchant, should you warn them?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just because they wasted my time doesn't mean they would waste someone else's.

By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

depends on the peoples view of time wasting . for some it would be not agreeing to meet after talking a short time or not agreeing to go on cam or callon phone . others its would be if person had to call off a meet due to any reason ,others only if they never turned up and never contacted with any exsplaination. agin with the person being "untrust worthy" thats very subjective too . so have to be awear your tolerences could be different to others .

i would tell a friend regarding an indervidual that faied to turn up to a meet and gave no exsplaination at all. also if there was something the indervidual was blatently lieing and dishonest about . id give my friend the information to make an informed descion .what choice they make from that is down to them as an adult to decide what is right for them .

i had a case where a guy was blatently lieing about messages that he had sent ,and became abusive when i sent him the copy of the message thread (gotta love being a site member !) .a woman i know was on his friends list so after blocking and reporting him i sent her a polite message with copy of the conversation so she can make her own choice . as it was she said she had reservations already and was happy i had given her the information . if this happened again i would definatly do the same again as id hope a friend would be looking out for me .

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see a friend on here or a fellow forunite has been added to the friends list of someone who has proved themselves as a time waster or a windup merchant, should you warn them?"

nope

big enough to be on here

big enough to make their own decisions