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Knowing what you do now, if you had a conversation with the person that you were a decade ago...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you say?

I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I'd top myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say?

I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. "

You can have one now too if you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd top myself."

Are you ok? ((hugs))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id tell myself to go with my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign the document, no I'd say enjoy yourself while your young, you get old to quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What would you say?

I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug.

You can have one now too if you like? "

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself to not to walk down the aisle ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell myself to run.. Quicker than I did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't listen to myself as I was d*unk a lot 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't..... to give advice like that would change who I am and what I have learned from the experiences both good and bad.

I kinda like who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a) that I would not be king of my field in 3 years time but rather would feel far dumber

b) you're becoming increasingly introverted - think of those around you

c) respond, don't react. Remember, words have consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd scream "no you're not getting the motorbike".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself that the next ten years are going to be fucking awesome, cos they were and still are!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself that things do get better,you're much tougher than you think you are,and the people that you think you can trust are the ones that will hurt you the most

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban


"I'd top myself.

Are you ok? ((hugs))"

I'm fine. But the me am I now and the who I was then would not get on. If the who I was then knew the future the sense of failure would have been too much. Good drugs help me cope with it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id tell myself not to take the girl i was just about to marry for granted. And tell her she was beautiful more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont buy that house !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invest heavily in Apple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd top myself.

Are you ok? ((hugs))

I'm fine. But the me am I now and the who I was then would not get on. If the who I was then knew the future the sense of failure would have been too much. Good drugs help me cope with it now."

Nods, sorry to hear it's tough. Feel for you -- lots of love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invest heavily in Apple. "

Surely it'd be to trust a girl when she says "brace!" ....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Get out now this marriage will be the end of you.

Swinging is consensual not what my husband wants to see!

Yes I got out shortly after.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"What would you say?

I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. "

I'D tell myself that the next ten years are going to be as good as the ten years before I've had a great 20 year rum

long may it continue

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban


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Nods, sorry to hear it's tough. Feel for you -- lots of love xx"

Thanks but it stops feeling tough, after a while it's just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invest heavily in Apple.

Surely it'd be to trust a girl when she says "brace!" .... "

Naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31 year old me would have been told to not move house. Our tiny mortgage would have been paid off by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put money on Leicester to win the league in 2016

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Do not settle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be creative, spend time developing your own products and services rather than for others. Network more and widen your circle of influence. Be everything you can be, and don't take the path of least resistance. Don't take love foregranted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be so hung up on finding the "one", focus on your career first.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

Don't eat those fries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread lovely!

I'd tell myself to follow things through, listen to my parents, they do actually know what's best and to love myself more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nods, sorry to hear it's tough. Feel for you -- lots of love xx

Thanks but it stops feeling tough, after a while it's just the way it is. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invest heavily in Apple.

Surely it'd be to trust a girl when she says "brace!" ....

Naw"

I will break you eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll work out in the end. There IS light at the end of the tunnel...and it's NOT the train heading straight towards you.

Buy the fucking boat!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace yourself! you're in for a rough ride. It'll come good in the end though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scores from certain football games, start driving earlier and not to settle for the bitch who only thinks of herself and causes your mental issues

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Get that garden sorted now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do. "

Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then.

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

caistor

Don't change a thing, head down work hard,you reap what you sow.

Life's fucking awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.

Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of bought my house out right when had the cash instead of getting a mortgage, my only one real regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it now, you know you need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say, stop trying to be what others want you to be and just be who you want to be,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself ...she just wants you to rebuild her while she destroys you...love is a two way street

I'd also tell myself to be my own best friend not my own enemy

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar


"What would you say?

I'd tell myself to speak out and be brave. I'd give myself a hug too. 17/18 year old me would've really needed a hug. "
good thread! I would say to myself, nothing really matters!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.

Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then.

"

You HAVE to admit I'm a smoothie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would have to tell myself to be braver - more sure of myself and that life will get better -

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would of told myself to search for my sister and not to be so critical of myself

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Child = good but watch out for the total nosedive in sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone. "

Thats would have been good advice for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say "Hang in there, it does get better in the end". Obviously, I did hang in, but a little reassurance would have helped immensely.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Don't move big blue boxes without checking them first.... It will get better

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Listen to your mother.

She is correct about all things and when you realise this it'll be too late and then you'll regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't quit your job to follow a pipe dream. Save. Hard. Invest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I would tell myself to look for Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave him now. Not in 5 yrs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To stop wasting my life on a man that doesn't love and respect me. And that I'm strong enough to survive alone. "

This for me too!

And that I'm capable...do the training courses you're offered, take the qualifications and reap the rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of told myself ..you did a good job there ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yvaine, in answer to your OP -- I'd tell myself to stop thinking and do.

Well stop thinking about doing me & do it then.

You HAVE to admit I'm a smoothie "

Definitely fruity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd tell myself to not to walk down the aisle ...."

This and say NO!!

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By *ediceTV/TS
over a year ago

Wrexham

dood...You are *SO* fucked!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Depends on which me I am talking to.

13 don't mess with airpistols, do well in the exams and an officer's job in the navy awaits.

Older me.

Get out of your shell, stop being the shy guy, try and enjoy things instead of overanalysing things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you man when I was a teenager or in my early twenties ,, a little more than ten years ago lol

Your not as ugly , stupid , clumsy as you think you are .

Take some time to think about yourself , try not to please others so much and it all works out in the end bud

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Leave him now for God's sake!

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

I'd kick my own ass and try to rapidly reeducate the teenage me for certain!!

Make some of the same choices for sure, but maybe change a tiny thing or two

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Live each day like its your last!..each day's a gift and not a given right..

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"Live each day like its your last!..each day's a gift and not a given right.."

...I was reckless in my younger days!..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Invest heavily in Apple. "

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I wouldn't buy my house. Id have started martial arts earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself to take the red pill and not the blue pill.

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