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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

so i was listening to the radio on the drive home they were talking about men not being up for dancing as a general rule and why that is .

the expert comes how with its because mens biggest fear is being judged not by woman but other men

my first thought was BS what's your thoughts on mens fear is it the judgement of our fellow men we fear the most when it comes to looking uncool on the dance floor .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever danced in front of the mirror at home

And even i think i look like an Ahole doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried a dance once, the fingers pointed in my direction...along with the uncontrollable laughter, suggests that I ain't that good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have the same fear of being judged by the other women and the men whilst dancing. But we are helpless to stop ourselves moving to the music.

There's nothing better than seeing guys just losing control to the music on a dance floor and totally enjoying it x

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've only ever danced in front of the mirror at home

And even i think i look like an Ahole doing it"

i can't dance for toffee ether but i will still give it ago normally to embarrass any female friends who are out with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So handson what's your thoughts on this first?

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I tried a dance once, the fingers pointed in my direction...along with the uncontrollable laughter, suggests that I ain't that good at it. "

i can empty a dance floor faster than a turd in a swimming pool that's how good my dancing is

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have no fear and actually quite enjoy getting up for a dance, even though there are those that will snigger behind their hands and use those two little words "Dad" and "dancing" in the same sentence to describe it. I just enjoy getting lost in the music although there are times usually when I'm sober that I do get a little self-conscious, but if it's a song I like I tend to fight that back.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Women have the same fear of being judged by the other women and the men whilst dancing. But we are helpless to stop ourselves moving to the music.

There's nothing better than seeing guys just losing control to the music on a dance floor and totally enjoying it x"

does than include doing the robot

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

I couldn't care what people think, I go for a good dance whenever I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so i was listening to the radio on the drive home they were talking about men not being up for dancing as a general rule and why that is .

the expert comes how with its because mens biggest fear is being judged not by woman but other men

my first thought was BS what's your thoughts on mens fear is it the judgement of our fellow men we fear the most when it comes to looking uncool on the dance floor .

"

I couldn't care less what anyone else thinks when I feel like a boogie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care what people think, I go for a good dance whenever I want "

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I don't dance simply because I don't enjoy it. I love music which I prefer to listen to but have no interest in dance music which I find tedious.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So handson what's your thoughts on this first? "

I'm a terrible dancer sexy but i do love embarrassing my dance partner with my very bad dancing as for what other guys think i don't care I'm normally to busy embarrassing my dance partner to notice

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like watching men dance.

I like dancing with men

I also dance like an absolute twat and I'm sure people laugh and judge me...But I don't care.

Who cares, go with it and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont xare what ppl think

i just get on the floor and dance...cant beat a bit of shawoddywaddy and kajagogoo!im down with the kids..ive got ants in my pants and i gotta dance!

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I have no fear and actually quite enjoy getting up for a dance, even though there are those that will snigger behind their hands and use those two little words "Dad" and "dancing" in the same sentence to describe it. I just enjoy getting lost in the music although there are times usually when I'm sober that I do get a little self-conscious, but if it's a song I like I tend to fight that back."

I'm always sober so yes I'm self conscious when dancing but like I've said already if I'm doing it to embarrass my dance partner i can really get into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dancing and don't care who sees me. I also have it on my to do list to learn some proper ballroom and Latin too. I'll get round to it eventually.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I like watching men dance.

I like dancing with men

I also dance like an absolute twat and I'm sure people laugh and judge me...But I don't care.

Who cares, go with it and enjoy yourself "

i have to agree honey i thought the expert was talking out of his arse that's why i posted the question on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dancing I do it everyday music up loud shake my arse

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I like watching men dance.

I like dancing with men

I also dance like an absolute twat and I'm sure people laugh and judge me...But I don't care.

Who cares, go with it and enjoy yourself

i have to agree honey i thought the expert was talking out of his arse that's why i posted the question on here "

My dancing hasn't failed me yet.

Someone on this thread has seen my moves

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I love dancing I do it everyday music up loud shake my arse "

oh your very good at shaking your arse all right

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I like watching men dance.

I like dancing with men

I also dance like an absolute twat and I'm sure people laugh and judge me...But I don't care.

Who cares, go with it and enjoy yourself

i have to agree honey i thought the expert was talking out of his arse that's why i posted the question on here

My dancing hasn't failed me yet.

Someone on this thread has seen my moves "

what and he lived to tell the tail your slipping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have the same fear of being judged by the other women and the men whilst dancing.

There's nothing better than seeing guys just losing control to the music on a dance floor and totally enjoying it x"

Glad to hear others saying this. I used to not dance at all really, as I can be quite shy in crowds... definite lack of confidence stopped me!

The times I have danced, I've had women comment on how good I was and some have swooned a little!

Therefore, now I try not to be afraid and think of the gorgeous women I might be able to impress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dance because the music is usually shit.

Get in a mosh pit and the shapes soon get busted

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together? "

i can head bang very well

well i could in my twenties and thirties i also sing along very very badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together?

i can head bang very well

well i could in my twenties and thirties i also sing along very very badly "

Get into the moshpit now!

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"so i was listening to the radio on the drive home they were talking about men not being up for dancing as a general rule and why that is .

the expert comes how with its because mens biggest fear is being judged not by woman but other men

my first thought was BS what's your thoughts on mens fear is it the judgement of our fellow men we fear the most when it comes to looking uncool on the dance floor .

"

John Travolta aint got shit on me, I'll out sing, out dance any man because I'm a real man

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"so i was listening to the radio on the drive home they were talking about men not being up for dancing as a general rule and why that is .

the expert comes how with its because mens biggest fear is being judged not by woman but other men

my first thought was BS what's your thoughts on mens fear is it the judgement of our fellow men we fear the most when it comes to looking uncool on the dance floor .

"

Being made to dance is my idea of hell! Nothing comes more unnaturally to me. I absolutely hate the thought of being judged by others be it male or female so I'd say it's pretty true for me.

Mr P.I

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By *aul020269Man
over a year ago

bidford on Avon

The words Bambi on ice cum to mind such an embarrassment oh ah oh ah ah YMCA think drink makes me John travolta more like chuckle brothers

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love watching guys dance, I do think a lot of them just think they look like idiots though.

My problem is when I'm dancing I can just go from bopping along to a full on zumba routine in an instant which can be a bit

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By *laymateMJMan
over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

My opinion is just crack on and enjoy it. If you do then there's no doubt your having more fun than those that judge!

I don't care what anyone says, the running man will always be cool!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I like watching men dance.

I like dancing with men

I also dance like an absolute twat and I'm sure people laugh and judge me...But I don't care.

Who cares, go with it and enjoy yourself

i have to agree honey i thought the expert was talking out of his arse that's why i posted the question on here

My dancing hasn't failed me yet.

Someone on this thread has seen my moves

what and he lived to tell the tail your slipping "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me. "

In your lederhosen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70's and 80's I used to dance a lot do the clubs every weekend loved it

Am always dancing around the house much to my sons embarrassment and when we have the odd family doo.

I gave up worrying about what other people thaught years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dancing get up and cut a rug all the time when I'm out

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Uncoordinated metalhead.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together?

i can head bang very well

well i could in my twenties and thirties i also sing along very very badly

Get into the moshpit now! "

you joining me in your rock chick out fit

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"so i was listening to the radio on the drive home they were talking about men not being up for dancing as a general rule and why that is .

the expert comes how with its because mens biggest fear is being judged not by woman but other men

my first thought was BS what's your thoughts on mens fear is it the judgement of our fellow men we fear the most when it comes to looking uncool on the dance floor .

John Travolta aint got shit on me, I'll out sing, out dance any man because I'm a real man "

you have got a lot to live up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together?

i can head bang very well

well i could in my twenties and thirties i also sing along very very badly

Get into the moshpit now!

you joining me in your rock chick out fit "

No we'll get into moshpit completely naked

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I love watching guys dance, I do think a lot of them just think they look like idiots though.

My problem is when I'm dancing I can just go from bopping along to a full on zumba routine in an instant which can be a bit "

i have got to see that because i am a sod who will embarrass you by trying to copy your moves very badly

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

More than happy to make a twat of myself on the dance floor.....judge away anyone watching I say......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love watching guys dance, I do think a lot of them just think they look like idiots though.

My problem is when I'm dancing I can just go from bopping along to a full on zumba routine in an instant which can be a bit "

Haha I love this. Can just imagine the breaking into zumba!

Doll x

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Will you dance with me, John? Or shall we just headbang together?

i can head bang very well

well i could in my twenties and thirties i also sing along very very badly

Get into the moshpit now!

you joining me in your rock chick out fit

No we'll get into moshpit completely naked "

oh will we now I'm more than up for a bit of that are you sure you can keep up with head banging

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I love watching guys dance, I do think a lot of them just think they look like idiots though.

My problem is when I'm dancing I can just go from bopping along to a full on zumba routine in an instant which can be a bit

i have got to see that because i am a sod who will embarrass you by trying to copy your moves very badly "

That is what I want to happen every time! Does it? Does it heck. Christmas party last year I ended up having the dance floor to myself

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I love watching guys dance, I do think a lot of them just think they look like idiots though.

My problem is when I'm dancing I can just go from bopping along to a full on zumba routine in an instant which can be a bit

i have got to see that because i am a sod who will embarrass you by trying to copy your moves very badly

That is what I want to happen every time! Does it? Does it heck. Christmas party last year I ended up having the dance floor to myself "

that normally happens to me because I'm the last man standing as i don't drink

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love dancing and seem to have a talent for the moves. Am told its my hip movements and beat to the music

Such nice ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont dance because I can't. If I did dance, I'd be in fear of being mocked.

However, the no-pants dance... Thats my specialty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

In your lederhosen? "

No this was eid in Birmingham not a beer festival in Germany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

In your lederhosen?

No this was eid in Birmingham not a beer festival in Germany "

You can't dance to 'All About The Bass' in lederhosen. It's just wrong

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

In your lederhosen?

No this was eid in Birmingham not a beer festival in Germany "

You don't have to be in Germany to wear your Lederhosen

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

In your lederhosen?

No this was eid in Birmingham not a beer festival in Germany

You can't dance to 'All About The Bass' in lederhosen. It's just wrong "

oh I have images now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love seeing a man dancing and enjoying himself. I was always the first on the dance floor. Life's too short to worry about other people's opinions.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Most fellas would need a few beers before they go on the dance floor xx

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I love seeing a man dancing and enjoying himself. I was always the first on the dance floor. Life's too short to worry about other people's opinions. "

i love dancing i do it to embarrass others not myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been know to get down and dance in the street, but I'm not a shy person nor do I care what any other human being wants to think of me.

In your lederhosen?

No this was eid in Birmingham not a beer festival in Germany

You can't dance to 'All About The Bass' in lederhosen. It's just wrong

oh I have images now "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dance deliberately to embarrass others, although I may have embarrassed my son a couple of times at weddings. I may have embarrassed a partner slightly by going for it but tend to tone down the moves if they don't respond in kind.

However with one young lady we pulled off the whole routine to You're the One that I want

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

throw on a bit of motown or northern soul add a couple of pints and i dont care i just get out there and let the music get to my feet

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I wouldn't dance deliberately to embarrass others, although I may have embarrassed my son a couple of times at weddings. I may have embarrassed a partner slightly by going for it but tend to tone down the moves if they don't respond in kind.

However with one young lady we pulled off the whole routine to You're the One that I want "

the truth is I'm so bad I'm going to embarrass anyone dancing with me

so i ham it up as I'm enjoying watching them roll the eyes laugh and squirm with embarrassment over my dapper moves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it , don't think what others think .enjoy and have fun. Too many people worry about what others think .Good music good company why not dance .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't dance deliberately to embarrass others, although I may have embarrassed my son a couple of times at weddings. I may have embarrassed a partner slightly by going for it but tend to tone down the moves if they don't respond in kind.

However with one young lady we pulled off the whole routine to You're the One that I want

the truth is I'm so bad I'm going to embarrass anyone dancing with me

so i ham it up as I'm enjoying watching them roll the eyes laugh and squirm with embarrassment over my dapper moves "

Fair enough. I'm probably not any good either but I spare their blushes unless they are mutually agreeable to making a spectacle of themselves. As for eye rolling I couldn't give a monkey's if I'm not dancing with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't dance deliberately to embarrass others, although I may have embarrassed my son a couple of times at weddings. I may have embarrassed a partner slightly by going for it but tend to tone down the moves if they don't respond in kind.

However with one young lady we pulled off the whole routine to You're the One that I want

the truth is I'm so bad I'm going to embarrass anyone dancing with me

so i ham it up as I'm enjoying watching them roll the eyes laugh and squirm with embarrassment over my dapper moves

Fair enough. I'm probably not any good either but I spare their blushes unless they are mutually agreeable to making a spectacle of themselves. As for eye rolling I couldn't give a monkey's if I'm not dancing with them. "

There was an exception at a party when I started dancing seductively with a good male friend who'd not seen me in a situation where dancing was possible. I definitely embarrassed him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give any type of dance go ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male pole dancer is good to watch .I tried belly dancing that was great fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women dont care how cool you look when you dance! All we want (well, me anyway lol) Is a guy who will get up and have fun! Forget being self conscious x

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Women dont care how cool you look when you dance! All we want (well, me anyway lol) Is a guy who will get up and have fun! Forget being self conscious x"

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately when the dancing shoes were handed out they didn't even have two left feet for me..

Imagine this Micheal Barrymore, John Cleese and Mr Bean role the three together and in terms of both dancing (and running) that's what I imagine I look like.

If you do however want a dance with me, I will ask you to sign an agreement which means that I can not be sued for any broken feet (limbs), bruises I may cause directly or indirectly, if you require stitches to repair your sides after they split from Laughing. honestly it's not a good look.

If you hadn't worked it out it is him posting, Cookie is rather sexy dancing I notice lots of people watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I resemble a stick insect having an epileptic fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have the same fear of being judged by the other women and the men whilst dancing. But we are helpless to stop ourselves moving to the music.

There's nothing better than seeing guys just losing control to the music on a dance floor and totally enjoying it x

does than include doing the robot "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dance because I'm shit at it. No woman in their right mind would approach me if they seen that!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I love to have a boogie given the chance and if the man I am with like a boogie too then even better, I just think who gives a fuck as long as you are both enjoyin yourselves

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah I love a good dance. I've been to gigs where I've been dancing on my own near the front and everyone else is stood with their arms folded.

Fuck 'em!

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my best friend's wedding, her Uncle got up and started really going for it. He looked an idiot, but I'll tell you what, he gave zero fucks and everyone respected him for it!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I am never going to dance again. These guilty feet have got no rhythm.

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By *andsonjohn OP   Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I am never going to dance again. These guilty feet have got no rhythm. "

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