FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else hate been single

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nights are the worse when you just want to get home from work and spend time with somone

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

On occasions i do, but generally im happy being single

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Certainly do, 2 years tomorrow.

Cant seem to find anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes ...but then I think ,no one to answer to ,no one making a noise when I want peace ,no moaning my musics shit (it's not

)...so no not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a concerted effort after Xmas to date again as got lonely over the festive period.

I started seeing a girl and I've not long called it a day as hated having to consider/answer to someone else when planning my life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But I'd hate more to be alone with the wrong person.

I've got a rich interior landscape and can just about entertain myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

can't see me ever having another relationship either,mainly due to the fact I have very specific criteria for any future partners and I'm not sure if a lass who ticks all my boxes even exists

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

yes and no. miss the going back into bed in the middle of the night and the other person hugs whilst still half asleep kind of thing.

don't miss feeling lonely with someone else around, having to think about what to say or not to say... you get the point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy single at the moment.

I tend to go for volatile/strong high maintenence types.

It's ok, then they move in with me and it all goes to shit, because I spend the whole time wishing I was single and had my house back.

that's the honest truth of me dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add to say I wouldn't date anyone off here though.

I'd prefer to meet her outside of here and bring them on.

My last Ex wasn't that interested although she did briefly entertain the idea.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Nope, I've been single for over 30 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Offer of moving in removed by poster at 27/03/17 22:39:19]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being single at all. Lonely and horny. I think I am probably too picky ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Offer of moving in removed by poster at 27/03/17 22:39:19]"

ahaha..I'd drive you batshit believe me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all.

Im equally happy with or without being in a relationship.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Wish I was bloody single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful what you wish for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I was bloody single

If your kids are older then ger rid of him then ?

Lifes too short to be with someone who doesnt make you happy

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Being single has it pluses and negatives

Plus side is I can do what ever I want when I want the won't effect anyone but me.

Negative not having intimate moments and possibilities of lots of sex on tap

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Nights are the worse when you just want to get home from work and spend time with somone"

Some times yes. Just find a lady in a similar situation to hangout.

Take away and DVD night in works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love the single life

go out when i want

house always tidy

no longer have to tidy up her crap

dont have to waste 20mins a week of my life asking her if shes ok

Im as happy as larry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I like doing my own thing. I don't miss compromising or checking with anyone. I buy what I want, go out when I want. Dates are available if u want them. Had a few flings but nothing serious.

Personally I think the day to day mundane kills the passion. The cleaning, the bills, the boring stuff.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

People sound like they have had some awful relationships here. With the right one, it being fun and loving is no effort at all

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Wish I was bloody single

If your kids are older then ger rid of him then ?

Lifes too short to be with someone who doesnt make you happy

Kids aren't older, separate rooms so we're edging closer to the split!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I was bloody single

It's relative. I would certainly rather be single than married to my ex any more. I miss the closeness of sexual contact....not with him though lol.....# need a good man xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the day, but generally I like being single..... been practising for 7 years now so I'm getting quite good at it

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Nights are the worse when you just want to get home from work and spend time with somone"

Nope loving being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Offer of moving in removed by poster at 27/03/17 22:39:19]

ahaha..I'd fuck you batshit believe me.

Ooooh!

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I was single for 6 years and it didn't bother me but now I have someone I don't want to lose her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I was bloody single

If your kids are older then ger rid of him then ?

Lifes too short to be with someone who doesnt make you happy

you are so right!!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

From my perspective, also Yes and No.

I've always thought I'd always have someone in my life as I grew older, and certainly by the time I got to 50.

Now at almost 62, I'm still following that somewhat elusive dream but now feeling I've missed my chance of settling down with someone.

For all my skills in business, especially in Customer and Public handling & Sales, in some aspects of my Social Life, I'm still so tongue tied and shy as I was when in my teens! That impacts at times when I do feel so alone, but I have got used to it and just get on with life. Hard, especially at Xmas, Valentines Day & other traditional "Couple" times, plus my Birthday when I don't get cards except from two friends of mine. No not even brother sends me a card.

But on the other hand, I've been alone so long, would I fit in around someone in my life and would they fit in around me and the style of living I've got used to??

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

No cause I can come and go as I please and have no one to answer to

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

The more I think about things the more Im certain that in an ideal world I'd love a hotwife/cuckold relationship ... all the benefits of a relationship with enough kinkiness to keep it alive always

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"From my perspective, also Yes and No.

I've always thought I'd always have someone in my life as I grew older, and certainly by the time I got to 50.

Now at almost 62, I'm still following that somewhat elusive dream but now feeling I've missed my chance of settling down with someone.

But on the other hand, I've been alone so long, would I fit in around someone in my life and would they fit in around me and the style of living I've got used to??"

I'm very used to being alone and wonder if I could adapt to someone else but I'd like to think if it was meant to be it'd be easy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently starfishing in my bed while I read this

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"From my perspective, also Yes and No.

I've always thought I'd always have someone in my life as I grew older, and certainly by the time I got to 50.

Now at almost 62, I'm still following that somewhat elusive dream but now feeling I've missed my chance of settling down with someone.

But on the other hand, I've been alone so long, would I fit in around someone in my life and would they fit in around me and the style of living I've got used to??

I'm very used to being alone and wonder if I could adapt to someone else but I'd like to think if it was meant to be it'd be easy enough

If its meant to be, its easy enough for sure. I was single for seven years and when we got together, nothing was more natural

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Currently starfishing in my bed while I read this

Me too ...OH is working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently starfishing in my bed while I read this

#euphemism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry I don't. I actually really enjoy it, but I'm also aware I'm a bit of a weirdo

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By *avid0894Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Do get lonely a lot. There are times where I'm hoping to wake up next to someone snuggling into me and keeping me warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

Whilst I do enjoy my own company, I adore cuddles and intimacy.

Cooking for one from scratch is a joyless task but I like to eat healthily.

It's the silly stuff I miss, like going for walks, sharing your thoughts with someone who's opinion you value, holding hands; that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty happy being single but am rather lucky that I have a very regular fwb too, so am kinda part of a couple but we don't answer to eachother and can still do as we please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im pretty happy being single...and after recently spending the first whole night ever with my FB of 4 years, practically clutching the side of the bed so as not to get pushed off,wide awake all night, listening to snoring like a steam train,bless 'im, reminded me of the benefits of singledom!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I used to be happy being single. Right now, not so much. Although I wouldn't want to compromise myself to be with someone, just be nice to share experiences.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Sometimes I certainly miss swinging as part of a couple would be nice to find that dynamic of relationship again once the times right

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Wish I was bloody single

It's relative. I would certainly rather be single than married to my ex any more. I miss the closeness of sexual contact....not with him though lol.....# need a good man xxx"

Plenty in these parts

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"People sound like they have had some awful relationships here. With the right one, it being fun and loving is no effort at all"

Exactly!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I am pretty happy being single but am rather lucky that I have a very regular fwb too, so am kinda part of a couple but we don't answer to eachother and can still do as we please

I do find it weird that people have relationships where there is so much resentment about answering to each other and not being able to do as you please ... maybe we are just chilled about everything, but neither of us feel that ....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"im pretty happy being single...and after recently spending the first whole night ever with my FB of 4 years, practically clutching the side of the bed so as not to get pushed off,wide awake all night, listening to snoring like a steam train,bless 'im, reminded me of the benefits of singledom!"

Haha yeah there is that!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Haha yeah there is that!

Awake all night = being a parent. I still wake up if my kids turn over in the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and no.

Whilst I do enjoy my own company, I adore cuddles and intimacy.

Cooking for one from scratch is a joyless task but I like to eat healthily.

It's the silly stuff I miss, like going for walks, sharing your thoughts with someone who's opinion you value, holding hands; that sort of thing

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This.

(I don't want to live in someone's back pocket 24/7; just someone to spend special moments with. And hugs. And still have my autonomy.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After spending a long time with the wrong person I'm happy to be single. Being single is so much better than being in a relationship with someone that isn't right for you.

I have my friends and family that matter. I will finally be able to return to uni and do my pgce without answering to him - he didn't want me to go. My finances are starting to build up (although taking much longer than I'd hoped). But most importantly of all, after years of him destroying it, my confidence is slowly but surely growing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After spending a long time with the wrong person I'm happy to be single. Being single is so much better than being in a relationship with someone that isn't right for you.

So pleased to hear your confidence is getting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After spending a long time with the wrong person I'm happy to be single. Being single is so much better than being in a relationship with someone that isn't right for you.

Wishing you all the best. Especially with the PGCE - I've got teachers in the family, so I know what a tough job it is. Hope your confidence continues to build!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Yes and no.

Whilst I do enjoy my own company, I adore cuddles and intimacy.

Cooking for one from scratch is a joyless task but I like to eat healthily.

It's the silly stuff I miss, like going for walks, sharing your thoughts with someone who's opinion you value, holding hands; that sort of thing

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This.

(I don't want to live in someone's back pocket 24/7; just someone to spend special moments with. And hugs. And still have my autonomy.)"

Does everyone in a relationship live in the back pocket 24/7?

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By *assybitchWoman
over a year ago

around the world

I miss sleepy morning sex..a hard cock up my back to arouse me from sleep slumber...everything else noooo!!!

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By *hreesumguysCouple
over a year ago

leicester

"Yes and no.

Whilst I do enjoy my own company, I adore cuddles and intimacy.

Cooking for one from scratch is a joyless task but I like to eat healthily.

It's the silly stuff I miss, like going for walks, sharing your thoughts with someone who's opinion you value, holding hands; that sort of thing

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This.

(I don't want to live in someone's back pocket 24/7; just someone to spend special moments with. And hugs. And still have my autonomy.)

Does everyone in a relationship live in the back pocket 24/7?"

I here ya ????

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I used to hate it but I guess I've got used to it so it's no big deal anymore. If I met somebody fine if not its also fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss having cuddles, and having someone to just chat to whenever as well as the obvious stuff but I've become used to my own company after all these years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually love being single. I wouldn't necessarily rule out future relationships but I am enjoying my freedom too much at the moment.

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

I enjoy the single life but miss the nice things such as waking up and falling to sleep with that person.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I miss sleepy morning sex..a hard cock up my back to arouse me from sleep slumber...everything else noooo!!!

I'm too grumpy in a morning to ever miss that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single and I like my own company. I can do what I want when I want it. I spend most of my time in the gym and meal prepping, the gym is my social club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy the single life but miss the nice things such as waking up and falling to sleep with that person. "

Hello

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

"I actually love being single. I wouldn't necessarily rule out future relationships but I am enjoying my freedom too much at the moment."

Not all that freedom when your tied up though.

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Hello cougar, how are we tonight?

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

"I enjoy the single life but miss the nice things such as waking up and falling to sleep with that person.

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy the single life but miss the nice things such as waking up and falling to sleep with that person.

Hello

I guess I'm not single tonight then

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

My beautiful Cougar have you had a good evening xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My beautiful Cougar have you had a good evening xx"

Yes thank you. I will have a better evening if I could snog your face off now

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Only when third wheeling. Otherwise it isn't so bad, can get depressing at times though I suppsoe man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yes and no. miss the going back into bed in the middle of the night and the other person hugs whilst still half asleep kind of thing.

don't miss feeling lonely with someone else around, having to think about what to say or not to say... you get the point..."

Yeah the nights are the worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

30 years dont u get lonley

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah that what i miss the most just spending time with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna be 'single' for a while then introduce my man to my real life

need to get rid of some baggage first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes and no.

Whilst I do enjoy my own company, I adore cuddles and intimacy.

Cooking for one from scratch is a joyless task but I like to eat healthily.

It's the silly stuff I miss, like going for walks, sharing your thoughts with someone who's opinion you value, holding hands; that sort of thing

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Now than sounds nice

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By *dventurousAlexMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

At times when I've been single for a while, but then six months is about how long i can take being in a relationship before I want freedom.

Maybe it's the wrong people or the wrong time, but I think the grass is always greener in every perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After spending a long time with the wrong person I'm happy to be single. Being single is so much better than being in a relationship with someone that isn't right for you.

Thats brilliant hope all goes well at uni

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some qualities of a relationship are missed but I don't hate not having them as I'm really loving single life. Lots more me time works very nicely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoy the single life but miss the nice things such as waking up and falling to sleep with that person. "

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I miss cuddles and holding hands I guess oh and not having to wear a condom but I can't remember the last time I thought oh I wish I had a partner but if/when I do have a relationship i still won't be answering to him, I'll still be going out when I want and spending my money how I see fit.

If your partner is taking your freedom away it's not a relationship.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

There's certain thing's I love about being single,but then there's lot's more I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single but there are certain things that I miss, cuddling and holding hands.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

There are times I feel lucky to be single. However for the most part I'd give anything to find my happy ever after. Ive been single nearly 9 years now. Its incredibly lonely at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I relish my single life freedom. I'm perfectly content these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happily single. 4 years now.

I learned to accept and be happy single. Now single or relationship I'd be happy either path my life steers in. Being satisfied with your own company is the only way you can ever be ready for the right relationship really. If you're unhappy single, don't expect that a relationship will fill the hole. You'll have a different set of problems.

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single all my life so I don't know what it's like to be in a relationship. Happily single though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ready to commit myself to one hottie for the rest of my life yet. So I do love being single right now. Obviously it's not sustainable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Add to say I wouldn't date anyone off here though.

I'd prefer to meet her outside of here and bring them on.

My last Ex wasn't that interested although she did briefly entertain the idea."

I probably would date someone from here because you know you like similar things sexually and I would think I'm more likely to get on with someone from here who wants to experiment and has a high sex drive. Not saying I wouldn't turn down anyone not on fabs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Add to say I wouldn't date anyone off here though.

I'd prefer to meet her outside of here and bring them on.

My last Ex wasn't that interested although she did briefly entertain the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single for so long now that I'm not sure I want to live with anyone again.

I'd love a relationship where we live in separate houses and "date"

I want all of the sex, romance and fun but none of the mundane please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't like the way I became single, but have been for 20 years and that's just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been single for so long now that I'm not sure I want to live with anyone again.

I'd love a relationship where we live in separate houses and "date"

I want all of the sex, romance and fun but none of the mundane please

I hear ya. To keep the passion alive and not ending up in pjs in the evening or daytime.

I dont want to live with anyone I dont think but to spend Naughty weekends away and making an effort everytime we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I miss cuddles and holding hands I guess oh and not having to wear a condom but I can't remember the last time I thought oh I wish I had a partner but if/when I do have a relationship i still won't be answering to him, I'll still be going out when I want and spending my money how I see fit.

If your partner is taking your freedom away it's not a relationship. "

This.xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I love it

can't see me ever having another relationship either,mainly due to the fact I have very specific criteria for any future partners and I'm not sure if a lass who ticks all my boxes even exists

I have a friend like you: twenty years I've known him, never had a girlfriend as he has a "fantasy list" even down to what side of the river she must live on!

Cute and funny in your thirties, he's now approaching sixty...never married, have kids etc because he wouldn't compromise. Oh well...Each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my frame of mind

If I'm in good spirits it doesn't bother me

If I'm because of a stressful day at work or the kids are playing me up etc then I can feel lonely as Ive no one to cuddle me and say " everything is okay "

Other times when I'm at work and listening to the girls complaining about their partners, I just think thank god I'm single, so for me it's yes and no about feeling lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I love it.

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over a year ago

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

Genuinely quite sad to read that.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Has its benefits at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id live a partner for keeps, bit guys generally my age are damaged goods and won't date again, never mind commit!

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over a year ago

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

Genuinely quite sad to read that. "

Why are you sad? I'm not. Life is for fricken' living, not waiting for a partner so you can start living?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've been single for so long now that I'm not sure I want to live with anyone again.

I'd love a relationship where we live in separate houses and "date"

Ooh I can think of nothing worse lol, to be committed, and still not 'with' that person!

I always remember part of my natal chart said "The first of the earth signs, Venus in Taurus is very physical. You are sensually inclined......Satisfaction is important to you, and your lover's physical presence is demanded!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we live in separate houses and "date"

I want all of the sex, romance and fun but none of the mundane please

^ this this this this this this this this....... ^^^ this

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over a year ago

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

Genuinely quite sad to read that.

Why are you sad? I'm not. Life is for fricken' living, not waiting for a partner so you can start living? "

You go to gigs alone...that fucking sucks.

But if you're happy too then ..that's you.

but to me I read that and think "well that sucks".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent over half of my life with one man. I wouldn't invest that much time and energy into someone again.

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over a year ago

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

Genuinely quite sad to read that.

Why are you sad? I'm not. Life is for fricken' living, not waiting for a partner so you can start living?

You go to gigs alone...that fucking sucks.

But if you're happy too then ..that's you.

but to me I read that and think "well that sucks"."

The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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my narcissistic ex has decided to pop back into my life like nothing happened. reminds me exactly why i like being single.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Don't sit at home. Get out. Do stuff. Get hobbies. Fill your life with good things and don't be scared to do stuff on your own. I go out to gigs alone, don't care. Smile. X

Genuinely quite sad to read that.

Why are you sad? I'm not. Life is for fricken' living, not waiting for a partner so you can start living?

You go to gigs alone...that fucking sucks.

But if you're happy too then ..that's you.

but to me I read that and think "well that sucks"."

I read that and thought good on ya! I wouldn't go alone and that sucks!

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By *inakiss64Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

Used to hate it but love it now, feel free to do what and when I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite enjoying being single. I've met some great people I wouldn't have been able to when I was with my ex, but it does have some cons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but being single has benefits too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...

The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it. "

Oooh I like that x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it.

Oooh I like that x

Not sure I entirely agree though,some thing's are out of our control aren't they,which make's it hard to stay positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it.

Oooh I like that x

Not sure I entirely agree though,some thing's are out of our control aren't they,which make's it hard to stay positive

You can't control suddenly waking up with a severe disability or something drastic happening, but you're always in control of your attitude.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

I would love to be in a relationship, so much love to give. However, I am living my life and building my future assuming that I will be single forever and Be ok with that. If it happens, then great.

Feel free to set me up!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it.

Oooh I like that x

Not sure I entirely agree though,some thing's are out of our control aren't they,which make's it hard to stay positive

You can't control suddenly waking up with a severe disability or something drastic happening, but you're always in control of your attitude. "

Hmmm I'm not sure we alway's are,well I'm not anyway talking from a recent event. I wanted to stay calm and collected,I failed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes ...but then I think ,no one to answer to ,no one making a noise when I want peace ,no moaning my musics shit (it's not

)...so no not really "

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over a year ago

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The world you experience is a direct reflection of your attitude towards it.

Oooh I like that x

Not sure I entirely agree though,some thing's are out of our control aren't they,which make's it hard to stay positive

You can't control suddenly waking up with a severe disability or something drastic happening, but you're always in control of your attitude.

Hmmm I'm not sure we alway's are,well I'm not anyway talking from a recent event. I wanted to stay calm and collected,I failed..."
lifes a learning process for all of us, I think. To me, I feel like to achieve more contentment and thus more people drawn to me, a satisfaction with what you have has been necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Come to the conclusion that I'm just not meant to be in a relationship.

Miss the odd cuddle every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on my own for so long would be weird to be in a relationship x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hmmm I'm not sure we alway's are,well I'm not anyway talking from a recent event. I wanted to stay calm and collected,I failed...lifes a learning process for all of us, I think. To me, I feel like to achieve more contentment and thus more people drawn to me, a satisfaction with what you have has been necessary. "

Yes I understand what you're saying,but certain events/people test us at time's don't they making that contentment hard to achieve. Anyway I'm waffling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope didn't mind being single, very liberating when I finished a long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single has its benefits and so does being in a relationship I've done both and getting very used to being single not sure I would like to be in a relationship now

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