FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do Single Guys receive weekly/monthly/yearly ??

By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Intrigued to know what others are ...

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

2 or 3 a month if I'm lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that are sent to me I would say on average 1 a month

If it's someone I'm friends with and have a regular chat to then maybe 6 or 7 per month

As ever I'd love it to be more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends... sometimes a few in a week, sometimes none

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Messages

wot are them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages

wot are them

Haha good point well made Seeside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if it's General chit-chat from the forums or 'new' people contacting me wanting to meet.

If the former, literally hundreds a month. Not all off seperare people mind, but multiple messages from a select group of friends

If the latter, very rarely indeed.. lucky if it's one a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox hasn't pinged for a few months now

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"2 or 3 a month if I'm lucky

Thats a lot !!

Think i need to involve Domboss in this convo haha . He seems to be the don of fabs...im intrigued lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends,it helps being on forums too.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Depends,it helps being on forums too."

Only really just discovered the forum tbh n enjoying it on here must admit

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Literally none, it's always me who has to make the first move

Wish it was more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends.

From my friends I'm talking to then a few a day.

From new people making contact then several a day but usually just one word messages from guys saying "hi" or "can i suck you"

Actual proper messages from new people... Can't remember the last one

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Depends,it helps being on forums too."

Forums are a good way to get noticed that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many. Some replies. It's the same for most isn't it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few from people in my friends list but new people on here not so many which is a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero ....

None....

Next to nothing....

An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Unsolicited from females about 3 yearly

That's .25 monthly

.05 weekly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero ....

None....

Next to nothing....

An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook "

Deffo

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure

Haha you mean renwing your membership lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good few received a week! Some from newbies, some from oldies. Typically all requesting VWE etc, all cliched but each to their own..

Guess the more active you're the more you're likely to receive

Happy Fabbing chipmunks!!

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By *ndulge4PlayMan
over a year ago

London

Was requested to give my input... i tend to get abut 5-15 a week out of those 2-3 are genuine and my cuppa tea (im fussy) another 2-5 are gunuine just not my flavour and rest are from fakes and and men who seem to not read that your straight!

As a single with minimal veries it is rather diffuclt to build momentum on here.... So the strugle is real for others ans was for me.... (hope that helps Mr Laughs)

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Technically a single guy =P around 10-20 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever if I do it is a TV which I'm not interested in, usually the one who makes first point of contact unfortunately

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Probably average about 3 to 4 per week from New contacts but dozens from existing friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few a week generally. One regular with a lady I've been chatting to for a while, and a few others that are usually the result of forum chatter. It's rare I'll get a woman or couple messaging me out of the blue though, most of the messages I get are replies to forum posts I've made, or messages I've sent.

You've got to give to receive

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Was requested to give my input... i tend to get abut 5-15 a week out of those 2-3 are genuine and my cuppa tea (im fussy) another 2-5 are gunuine just not my flavour and rest are from fakes and and men who seem to not read that your straight!

As a single with minimal veries it is rather diffuclt to build momentum on here.... So the strugle is real for others ans was for me.... (hope that helps Mr Laughs) "

Thank you kind Sir ... puts us blokes to shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero ....

None....

Next to nothing....

An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook "

I bet you don't just have a photo of your cock on Facebook

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Depends,it helps being on forums too."

Shhhhhhh otherwise all the guys will be trying to get in on the action lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how desirable you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discovered the forum last Friday, I've lost 3 days since then, it us graft but the rewards are there!!

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"I discovered the forum last Friday, I've lost 3 days since then, it us graft but the rewards are there!!"

Im more about the laugh n lastminute.com tbh rather than pester n graft . Il always admire a sexy pic but if nothing prevails im off to the pub or out comes a can of beer n footy on . Lol . Im not a desperate chaser . I have a fb that does the job now n again . Being a Dad is my main thing at mo in my life so this just a giggle to which iv met some awesome people n played with stunners id never of had met in a pub or out ect . So im fairly grateful to fabs for giving me chances id never thought would happen

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average 1 - 2 per month new messages but keep in contact regularly with current fab friends.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Zero ....

None....

Next to nothing....

An they call this a (sex) swingers website I've had more sex from Facebook

I bet you don't just have a photo of your cock on Facebook

No several 100 it's free to do so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I discovered the forum last Friday, I've lost 3 days since then, it us graft but the rewards are there!!"

graft

that's an interesting choice of word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not mine OPs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had time Id message everyone on this thread. But I dont sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in terms of rewards I am not talking about getting to sex, if you want the joy of this site , in messages, interaction, then you need to contribute, didn't mean to offend you

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By *ips n NipsWoman
over a year ago

in dreams

Once a year from your mum on Valentine's Day isn't it?

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Checks inbox

Sees tumble

Cries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if you are talking about how many different people contact you? I get quite a few messages a day from friends I chat with often. New potential friends/meets... maybe 2/3 a week

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

OP - you day messages as in the plural of message. Is there such a thing for fellas on fab???

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Its not too bad like.

Few msgs a week with time wasters

And poss 2/3 serious players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without sending an initial message, or posting one of my oh-so-witty comments in a forum, the number is zero.

Otherwise, I get a reasonable response rate. Having said that, I just crafted and sent a nice message to a couple that visited my profile and it was deleted faster than I could check it was in my 'sent' box! Some you win, some you lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once a year from your mum on Valentine's Day isn't it?

About the only thing left that could shock me on Fab would be seeing my mum on here

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I get quite a few per day approx. 25-30. not all messages are welcomed though. on one occasion I received 137 that's been my PB. usually find if I change or add a new pic my inbox goes haywire...typical pic collector fanatics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without sending an initial message, or posting one of my oh-so-witty comments in a forum, the number is zero.

It happens all the time. I find a profile I think I match up really well with, take some time to write a personal message, and it's immediately deleted! Like you say, win some, lose some, these days I find it best to just send and forget. Checking the sent box is a mug's game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get quite a few per day approx. 25-30. not all messages are welcomed though. on one occasion I received 137 that's been my PB. usually find if I change or add a new pic my inbox goes haywire...typical pic collector fanatics."

Blimey, my PB is 4 unread in one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one,over a week

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Messages

wot are them

Haha good point well made Seeside "

It's true thoe

Apart from the odd message from a Forum post I've had 0 meet messages.

Not even for a social

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By *ips n NipsWoman
over a year ago

in dreams

"Once a year from your mum on Valentine's Day isn't it?

About the only thing left that could shock me on Fab would be seeing my mum on here

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Once a year from your mum on Valentine's Day isn't it?

About the only thing left that could shock me on Fab would be seeing my mum on here

Who says she isnt lol

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

Probably 9 or 10 but I'd say 60% are from men offering to suck me off and go!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how many I send out but if I didn't I'd probably receive one or two from other blokes...

It depends how active I am in the forums and stuff too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod it!!!

I'm gunna message everyone just to say hi

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys .."

Guys can I let you in on a secret? There may be 1000 other guys but most messages to women are bullshit...so in my experience it's REALLY easy for nice guys to stand out...you need a decent profile, you read the ladies profile, fit what she's looking for and you send nice intro message that makes an effort but gets to the point...shhh don't tell the others

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

Does looks play a part lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

Worst kept secret ever

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Intrigued to know what others are ..."

taking out chats with my friends on here .

i get so very few offers of sex from other men its pointless even trying to think of how many i think the last time that happened was well before Christmas .

as for complete strangers in the form couples and single women wishing to chat with me that would be 5 or 6 a week .

hope this helps op in your survey .

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?"
I saw hpw and thought "ah, people like me!". About half a dozen a week? It's pretty random TBH, sometimes nothing for a couple of weeks or a dozen in a day.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

Worst kept secret ever

Surprising how many blokes still don't appear to know and have shit profiles and send shit messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much I have been chatting on the forums and if I have put any new pics on.

If I had the filters off, the fab-straight messages would easily outnumber the messages from ladies

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

Does looks play a part lol"

No I need my brain engaging first, unlike many ladies I'm not someone who insists on face pics up front, nor do I have specific height or other requirements. I like nice people who I connect with. Radical idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I blocked everything with a willy, the messages have dropped right down (yaay filters!).

Messages from interested lady persons?... extremely rare but always welcome.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Intrigued to know what others are ...

taking out chats with my friends on here .

i get so very few offers of sex from other men its pointless even trying to think of how many i think the last time that happened was well before Christmas .

as for complete strangers in the form couples and single women wishing to chat with me that would be 5 or 6 a week .

hope this helps op in your survey . "

ps op that 5 or 6 has nothing to do with me sending messages to profiles I'm searching through for the simple reason i don't do that those 5 or 6 messages are people approaching me i never make first contact unless its over a forum post but that is a super rare thing for me to do .

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

Does looks play a part lol

Very rare quality on here hun . Like your views x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Y'all know the OP said SINGLE blokes right?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stone cold?...

About 6/7'ish in an entire month.

3 of those will be the male half of a couple who's had a few on a Friday night and wants a wank watching his wife be fucked.

Usually "Now" "Fuck my Wife now" etc..etc..

2 will be from single fems fooking miles away.

1 / 2 will be from genuine couples, out of those two.. 1 of those couples will be a genuine conversation.

Friends it's usually via whatsapp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Y'all know the OP said SINGLE blokes right?

Fab single?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Y'all know the OP said SINGLE blokes right?

Fab single? "

OP, you want single single or fab single?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Stone cold?...

About 6/7'ish in an entire month.

3 of those will be the male half of a couple who's had a few on a Friday night and wants a wank watching his wife be fucked.

Usually "Now" "Fuck my Wife now" etc..etc..

2 will be from single fems fooking miles away.

1 / 2 will be from genuine couples, out of those two.. 1 of those couples will be a genuine conversation.

Friends it's usually via whatsapp."

I like using whatsapp...it has it's benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens? "

Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens?

Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens?

Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!

Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens?

Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!

Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though!

I don't head North until winter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes more and sometimes none,on average though between 1-3 a month.

Mostly from lasses miles n miles away off the back of posting in here.

Sometimes from local lasses though n sometimes it even ends up getting physical

Physical...that happens?

Sporadically,but just enough to make it all worthwhile!

Still waiting on you coming up to haggis munching land to visit me though!

I don't head North until winter.

Haha

I'll be hibernating in my cave but will happily stir from my slumber for a taste of sweet honey

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

"OP, you want single single or fab single?"
Is that like Fab Straight or straight straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 a month lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"OP, you want single single or fab single?Is that like Fab Straight or straight straight?"

Yes it is

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By *ndulge4PlayMan
over a year ago

London

Well said!!

Ssssshhhh dont let the cat out the bag loooool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?"

Just counted up, and this last month I had 11 females initiate contact. Obviously messages back and forth after that, and messages from existing friends.

I don't send out tonnes of messages and don't really see it as a 'competition' with other guys on here. Just chat away and see who you get on with.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Seems to be a few stats that dont add up from some on here ....

So you get messaged X amount every month by new contacts but you only have a couple of veris and been a member for over a year + ?

Think im way too genuine n honest saying i only get a few every couple months lol

My main success is visiting a club then building contacts . Think iv virtually pissed off everyone in Kent with me messaging them for a spontaneous meet hence why limited messages now lol . Met some who iv actually become good friends with and stay in touch via fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Depending a few a week sometimes 20 a day

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I been on this site for must be going on 18 months or more and I can count on both my hands and feet the total amount of messages I have had in all that time. I go months without any messages.

The only message I get is one every two month from admin thanking me for becoming a fully paid member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages."

Think i need to try that

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

If you are a paid up member, try unsubscribing. More info here... https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/607197

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are a paid up member, try unsubscribing. More info here... https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/607197"

What will that help?

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

If you get loads more views you are likely to get more emails.

No idea why this works though.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Depends how active I've been on the forums, adding pictures and like really, enough to keep the interest alive but nowhere near enough to bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how active I've been on the forums, adding pictures and like really, enough to keep the interest alive but nowhere near enough to bulk delete

Same here ive noticed since ive got more active on the forums i get a few messages more. You really have to be original to stand out ive found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Intrigued to know what others are ..."

Never get any messages from Single women or Couples... I can't really blame them they can choose the cream of the crop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages.

Think i need to try that

You cant accommodate put women off from messaging you straight away, also do a nice face pic up close instead of far away pics

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Loads, just keep updating profile, photos and status. That will get you more messages.

Think i need to try that

You cant accommodate put women off from messaging you straight away, also do a nice face pic up close instead of far away pics "

So your success rate is so good coz you got a close up of your mouth n chin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tumble when I go to my inbox ...dies this count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)"

Stay messages are just a fab myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

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over a year ago

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Quite a lot but then I have quite a few friends I'm always happy to chat to on this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story."

Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.

Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure "

Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.

Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure

Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this

A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.

Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure

Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this

A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother

Sometime we have to walk that fine line, you to, stay safe out there, till the re-org, peace

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over a year ago

"WAIT, WHAT?

We can receive messages?

(Closes the door slowly, leaves and cries)

Stay messages are just a fab myth

Fewwww , thank god, not sure what people are talking about

I'm not but I heard someone received one once ..on here ..from a lady ....he's not been seen since to confirm or deny

We all know these "messages" as decided by Trump is fake news. Imagine what it would feel like to receive one? That guy died from shock apparently, true story.

Wow and on that bombshell all filters on ..no slippery message sneaking in giving me a heart failure

Message filters? Hell no keep those suckers wide open, I need to experience this

A man that lives life the edge ...stay safe brother

Sometime we have to walk that fine line, you to, stay safe out there, till the re-org, peace

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I get quite alot to be fair.

Had about 20 today.

From women who I've (1 met and 2 befriended)

Just chatting and s bit of back and forth.

enjoying the conversation of late.its like a lost art to some on here

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I have averaged 4 messages per week in past month; it's good for me up here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I'm lucky 8f I get 9ne a month but I keep hoping lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unsolicited, but a lot of nice ladies to have conversations with.

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre

Sometimes 4-5 replies to messages a day from new contacts

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Not enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My messages always seem to be from admin banning me from the forums haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends how active I've been on the site, it makes a big difference. They are just from new contacts or those I'm yet to meet as find I tend to stay in touch with those I've already met on kik or WhatsApp.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

437 on months with 31 days

422.9 on months with 30 days

394.7 in february

408.8 february in a leap year

although I may be lying

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"My messages always seem to be from admin banning me from the forums haha "

meet yer twin or from people saying they are waiting for the opportunity to get me banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None in two weeks

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

What do guys get messages to I always thought we just sent them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure

Pahahahaha

My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.

@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.

Love it

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Haha

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

"437 on months with 31 days

422.9 on months with 30 days

394.7 in february

408.8 february in a leap year

although I may be lying"

But how can you get the .9, .7 or .8 of a mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had time Id message everyone on this thread. But I dont sorry!

It's the thought that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero so far, but my outbox equals that so can't really complain as a consequence!

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I get quite a few, probably due to forums and stalking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It ranges from 10-20 a week to over 200 some weeks but then I do run guest lists for events at a couple of different clubs. Also I've been on and off of here for over 7 years so I chat to quite a few different people as well as just getting lots of messages saying please add me to guest list etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys . Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Intrigued to know what others are ..."

Chat and message response are as frequent as finding rocking horse shit..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Depends how gorgeous you are.. or funny charming and generally nice person with personality and great pics

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By *ingfisher83Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

None per year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure

Pahahahaha

My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.

@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.

Love it

Im thinking of going for gold supporter next time that way I'll get a message every month, I'm psyching myself up for that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how gorgeous you are.. or funny charming and generally nice person with personality and great pics

So that's where I've been going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get one every couple of months, it's usually thanking me to help support the site ..... Go figure

Pahahahaha

My site supporter pass ran out. I look forward to getting that message when I pay again.

@Nihilist - I have read a few of your posts and you really are a cheeky bastard.

Love it

Im thinking of going for gold supporter next time that way I'll get a message every month, I'm psyching myself up for that though

Oh you are brave!

I have never considered going for gold because that is just way too much power for one person to have.

Besides getting a message every month is way too much pressure for me and I don't need that in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends! Normally it's the monthly acknowledgement of payment but if I add a photo then 5 or 6 messages from guys who either want to suck my cock or widen my arsehole!

Given I'm not looking for either of these wondrous opportunities of say just the one message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months and no messages. I've had a few replies to my messages but that's it. I shall go back to more conventional methods...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

And I don't even count them. That's a guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few off the bat. Maybe a hand full. I do my messaging to compensate.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

I get loads from vanilla websites...Lol..but on here?????

..jeee feels like being on a desert island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get loads from vanilla websites...Lol..but on here?????

..jeee feels like being on a desert island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think, given the amount of TV/TS views I seem to get, I would probably get more messages if I opened up my filters.

But as one guy above put it, I'm not looking to get my arsehole opened up like Christmas, or suck on some chick dick. Damn me and my hetrosexual nature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here? None. Even my opening messages get no reply.

Other dating sites? None. Even my opening messages get no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsolicited mail 2...

Per year.

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard for single guys here male to female ration is wayyy wrong lol i think ive add 3 messages this year lol

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"437 on months with 31 days

422.9 on months with 30 days

394.7 in february

408.8 february in a leap year

although I may be lying

But how can you get the .9, .7 or .8 of a mess"

Some people don't leave me kisses at the end so that's obviously not a full message hence the .9 etc obviously

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I'm expecting one quite soon

might not reply for a few days if it arrives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get loads from gay/bi guys who I've never seen on the site before, much less spoken to, asking if I want to suck them off...

Maybe ladies would be more inclined to message single guys if so many of the latter did not consider 'hey there bitch...fancy sucking my massive knob?' as the height of sophistication...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard for single guys here male to female ration is wayyy wrong lol i think ive add 3 messages this year lol "

Seriously??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a female point of view....

I have browsed the males a few times.

But it's difficult to know 1. If they're a nutcase or not and 2. If they will actually like you.

I'd say we are more likely to have hang ups about ourselves and not want to disappoint.

So that's why I wouldn't message. But I've been tempted

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By *he Naked HandymanMan
over a year ago

Holcombe

In 6 or 7 years here I can't think of a single occassion where a woman has messsaged me first! Until I blocked them, I got 2 or 3 a month off blokes who cant read. Had a few from couples, but always the male half sending the message.

I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In 6 or 7 years here I can't think of a single occassion where a woman has messsaged me first! Until I blocked them, I got 2 or 3 a month off blokes who cant read. Had a few from couples, but always the male half sending the message.

I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out. "

I'll forward some of mine to you. You can have the pleasure of replying!

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By *he Naked HandymanMan
over a year ago

Holcombe

I recon i get a reply to abiut 1 in 10 new contact messages sent out.

I'll forward some of mine to you. You can have the pleasure of replying!

Lol. I wouldn't want to deprive you!

It's not a moan, just a reply to the question by the OP. I think its about tge same for most men here, let alone an uggly old bloke like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few weekly now I'm online more....but mostly from straight guys wanting gay sex...lol

If I was gay I'd be a whore by now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

This is really good advice from a beautiful woman who wrote the book on meeting sexy women.

Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab.

Now imagine a guy walks up to you with his cock tucked away politely in his pants, offers to buy you a drink and wants to chat with you about all things and not just sex.

Sounds obvious doesn't it? And yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is depressing ??

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

1 every couple of months maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine you were a woman at a bar and at a rate of more than one a minute men walked up to you with their willies hanging out their pants saying "fancy a fuck?" Because thats what its like for a woman on fab."

Careful...too many comments like that and you'll be inundated by knuckle-dragging Neanderthals calling you a 'cucked beta male' who's 'playing the feminist-ally card in an effort to get laid.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3 a day from men!

Average one a week from ladies or couples, asking me to introduce them to the ladies in my pics!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Enough that I am happy...

not as many that I need a PA

Not so few that I pine for company

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over a year ago

Careful...too many comments like that and you'll be inundated by knuckle-dragging Neanderthals calling you a 'cucked beta male' who's 'playing the feminist-ally card in an effort to get laid.'"

I probably will. What they won't know is that I don't have enough free time to meet all the lovely ladies that I've met on this site. Its funny that. Because I'm not chasing for sex. I get to know the fab ladies as people and not as a mechanism for gratification. The result is I get a lot of messages, a lot of meets and yes a lot of sex because that's what will inevitably happen if you are patient enough to establish that connection.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Always curious to know being a single guy hpw many messages single guys get ?

Very rare il get a message if honest maybe 1 every couple months . Il only get a meet if i do the chasing .

Do you think messaging potential meets is you having to 'chase' ?

Yet you expect the ladies to 'chase and message' you.

Interesting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard for single guys here male to female ration is wayyy wrong lol i think ive add 3 messages this year lol

Seriously??

Yep deadly serious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you exclude messages from guys wanting to suck my cock even though I'm straight (or maybe because I'm straight) then fuck all so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 so far in over a year

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I find as a single bloke on here its real graft competing lol against 1000 other guys ..

This is really good advice from a beautiful woman who wrote the book on meeting sexy women.

Now imagine a guy walks up to you with his cock tucked away politely in his pants, offers to buy you a drink and wants to chat with you about all things and not just sex.

Sounds obvious doesn't it? And yet...."

He'll buy her a drink treat her like a lady and she'll fuck off with some mouthy prick cos the first lad was "too nice" sounds like nonsense doesn't it? And yet........

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