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"I'm way way under the radar. I feel totally invisible. " Who said that? Show yourself! | |||
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"It's fair to say women and couples get the bulk of the messages, or so we're led to believe anyway, but are you in the minority, who doesn't get many messages or none at all some days, our couples profile can go a few weeks before we get a message, and messages we send out to couples can go unread for a long time too. So my post is mainly to the women and couples as we know guys getting a message is rare as rocking horse shit on here. Do you get noticed or are you under the radar as they say?" I go pretty un-noticed | |||
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"No messages no looks at me and no likes. Perfect lol" I looked! | |||
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"It depends on whether I want to be under the radar or not. It's easy to do things to get noticed on here but it's just as easy to not do things so you're left alone." I get a fair amount of views but hardly any mail. They want a shag not a coffee. *their loss* | |||
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"Under the radar which suits me fine " Exactly this, I prefer it that way rather than constantly having to read and reply to messages. I don't envy you women on here at all | |||
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"I get messages daily from a small number of people. Every now and then a completely unexpected one turns up - which is nice." This ^^^ | |||
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"It depends on whether I want to be under the radar or not. It's easy to do things to get noticed on here but it's just as easy to not do things so you're left alone." | |||
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"I'm way way under the radar. I feel totally invisible. " Hard to believe, one look at your profile and suddenly my 'radar' is pinging off all over the place | |||
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"It's fair to say women and couples get the bulk of the messages, or so we're led to believe anyway, but are you in the minority, who doesn't get many messages or none at all some days, our couples profile can go a few weeks before we get a message, and messages we send out to couples can go unread for a long time too. So my post is mainly to the women and couples as we know guys getting a message is rare as rocking horse shit on here. Do you get noticed or are you under the radar as they say?" its fair to say I am under the radar these day, but that's just how I like it.. a lot of those who say they have 100's of messages clogging up their inbox usually have extended age ranges and are happy to accept messages off men so they only have themselves to blame tbh.. | |||
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"Well under the radar here. Filte_ed up and I get between 0-5 a day on average. I speak to only one person on a daily basis too " I like being filte_ed up and I'm in stealth mode. If I want you...I'll find you | |||
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"I usually get a fair few messages each day but nothing like the 100s or even 1000s I've seen some women on here refer to. But a) I'm 'old' and b) I don't deliberately draw attention to myself with new daily pics, flirting on the forums or continual (suggestive) status updates which I'm guessing helps get you more mail. So yeah, am pretty much under the radar but I don't mind ... it'd just be more time consuming sorting the minority of worthwhile messages from the crap. If I wasn't happy about the mail I get I guess I'd have to alter my stance to encourage more messages ..." Exactly this, and happy with the way I use fab and the people who I meet, and agree that lots of messages do not equate to lots of nice genuine single sexy men that I would want to meet anyway. | |||
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"Under the radar....... is that like doing limbo ??? Yep im so far under the radar I'm wearing a cloak of invisibility xxxx Suzi " How low can you go? | |||
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"Under the radar....... is that like doing limbo ??? Yep im so far under the radar I'm wearing a cloak of invisibility xxxx Suzi " So that's whose under it with me!! | |||
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"Under the radar which suits me fine " Ohhh now now i don't believe that | |||
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"It's fair to say women and couples get the bulk of the messages, or so we're led to believe anyway, but are you in the minority, who doesn't get many messages or none at all some days, our couples profile can go a few weeks before we get a message, and messages we send out to couples can go unread for a long time too. So my post is mainly to the women and couples as we know guys getting a message is rare as rocking horse shit on here. Do you get noticed or are you under the radar as they say?" I'm so far under the radar there is no radar...... Alternatively it might just be that I'm a bit of ac hunt. | |||
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"Under the radar....... is that like doing limbo ??? Yep im so far under the radar I'm wearing a cloak of invisibility xxxx Suzi So that's whose under it with me!! " Wonde_ed what was poking me in my ass xxxx Suzi | |||
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"The older I get the less I get,which is fine because I don't bloody want it...as much! " I'd like to get you in my radar, but your filters seem to blok your profile | |||
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"It's fair to say women and couples get the bulk of the messages, or so we're led to believe anyway, but are you in the minority, who doesn't get many messages or none at all some days, our couples profile can go a few weeks before we get a message, and messages we send out to couples can go unread for a long time too. So my post is mainly to the women and couples as we know guys getting a message is rare as rocking horse shit on here. Do you get noticed or are you under the radar as they say?" I laughed out loud at work due to rocking horse shit... Got some funny looks | |||
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"My messages trebled after the Tea Party social with the publication of verifications and a photo of a mug!. I got 12 messages in 3 days. I've gone back into hiding so that people don't ask to use my mug. " Your mug so good everyone wants to use it ?...show off | |||
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"No messages no looks at me and no likes. Perfect lol I looked!" Thanks for looking lol | |||
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"Under the radar. It's pretty easy to achieve and still have your message filters open; just don't have highly fabbed pictures and take all your looking for off so you don't appear in local updates. I'm using filters as well just at the moment but that's the east way of doing it if you still don't mind the odd new messager." You should definitely be on everyone's radar.. Happy Fabbing | |||
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"I get maybe between 10 and 20 messages a day but most of them are 'meet now' messages which hold no interest to me. I however fly completely under the radar on the forums as I'm not sure anyone has ever replied to me at any point, even the kiss, chuck, fuck threads i seem to get skipped over lol. I'm not sure whether it's me in particular or maybe tvs, who knows " Those threads are notorious for 'I'll answer the person I want to answer' skipping | |||
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"I get maybe between 10 and 20 messages a day but most of them are 'meet now' messages which hold no interest to me. I however fly completely under the radar on the forums as I'm not sure anyone has ever replied to me at any point, even the kiss, chuck, fuck threads i seem to get skipped over lol. I'm not sure whether it's me in particular or maybe tvs, who knows " Its not personal- don't take it that way xx | |||
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"I get maybe between 10 and 20 messages a day but most of them are 'meet now' messages which hold no interest to me. I however fly completely under the radar on the forums as I'm not sure anyone has ever replied to me at any point, even the kiss, chuck, fuck threads i seem to get skipped over lol. I'm not sure whether it's me in particular or maybe tvs, who knows " . I occasionally make a bet with myself if I spot one of the 'say something about the poster above threads' about how many times I can get skipped. My record on a bo_ed day was 11. So no, it's not personal. Or at least I like to think so! | |||
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"I get maybe between 10 and 20 messages a day but most of them are 'meet now' messages which hold no interest to me. I however fly completely under the radar on the forums as I'm not sure anyone has ever replied to me at any point, even the kiss, chuck, fuck threads i seem to get skipped over lol. I'm not sure whether it's me in particular or maybe tvs, who knows Its not personal- don't take it that way xx" Exactly this. And I never skip the poster above | |||
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"I get maybe between 10 and 20 messages a day but most of them are 'meet now' messages which hold no interest to me. I however fly completely under the radar on the forums as I'm not sure anyone has ever replied to me at any point, even the kiss, chuck, fuck threads i seem to get skipped over lol. I'm not sure whether it's me in particular or maybe tvs, who knows Its not personal- don't take it that way xx Exactly this. And I never skip the poster above " I try not to skip the poster above but my typing skills are so poor that by the time I've posted a reply there's usually a couple more posted before it | |||
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