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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ? "

Show her this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ? "

With an ultimatum of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ? "

"Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to have a threesome with another guy sometime?"

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

"Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to have a threesome with another guy sometime?""

That seems like a sensible place to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you like men too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

"Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to have a threesome with another guy sometime?"

That seems like a sensible place to start."

It really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It sounds easy!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ? "

Lots do, lots don't.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ? "

i don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

50/50 chance then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ? "

Why,are you fed up of the relationship?

Excellent way of ending it!

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By *rp861Man
over a year ago

Notts

Watch wolf of wall street together. In the scene when theyre doing mmf in the office over the desk say "does that look like fun to you?" Any film with mmf would work, thats the only one i could think of right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50 chance then lol "

I'm sure that if someone is your girlfriend then you know what they enjoy sexually.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Does she know you're on fab?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ? "

Another thread perhaps, I don't by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her or build it into a fantasy when you're both playing. See if she's shocked or it turns her on? Lots of things I've fantasised about i might never do, but some I would. So plant the seed (just metaphorically of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ?

i don't."

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Do you think most women fantasise over having 2 men ?

i don't.

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only you got that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

Why,are you fed up of the relationship?

Excellent way of ending it! "

Wanting an mmf doesn't mean he's fed up of his relationship

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

Why,are you fed up of the relationship?

Excellent way of ending it! "
don't know if missi7d a comment but are you saying couples who swing are sick of there relationship?op the best way for me (the guy )was to have a lil laugh about it next time yous go to bed after a night out.the alchohol would help keep it light harted and a bit of fun and then move it on to roleplay together and take it from there (dildo as the other guys cock etc).the thing is though it's a fine line between helping the one you love realise her fantasies and being and dick by trying to impose your fantasies on her.if she dosent go for it mabye wait a year or something untill you have been together longer.dont cheat on someone you care about as that's just shaddy and lazy.hope that helps you out a bit mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what the situation is atm - does she know youre on here- have you ever mentioned your wants/likes to her - has she ever shown any interest in anything other than what you do - easy for us to throw ideas at you but without knowing more its difficult to reply with anything of any use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ? "

From behind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

Why,are you fed up of the relationship?

Excellent way of ending it! don't know if missi7d a comment but are you saying couples who swing are sick of there relationship?op the best way for me (the guy )was to have a lil laugh about it next time yous go to bed after a night out.the alchohol would help keep it light harted and a bit of fun and then move it on to roleplay together and take it from there (dildo as the other guys cock etc).the thing is though it's a fine line between helping the one you love realise her fantasies and being and dick by trying to impose your fantasies on her.if she dosent go for it mabye wait a year or something untill you have been together longer.dont cheat on someone you care about as that's just shaddy and lazy.hope that helps you out a bit mate."

No, i wasn't implying that at all

Perhaps, as we're on a swingers site, it could be we have a more open minded view of things that people who aren't would never consider doing?

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I want a mmf with my gf how do I approach the subject ?

Why,are you fed up of the relationship?

Excellent way of ending it! don't know if missi7d a comment but are you saying couples who swing are sick of there relationship?op the best way for me (the guy )was to have a lil laugh about it next time yous go to bed after a night out.the alchohol would help keep it light harted and a bit of fun and then move it on to roleplay together and take it from there (dildo as the other guys cock etc).the thing is though it's a fine line between helping the one you love realise her fantasies and being and dick by trying to impose your fantasies on her.if she dosent go for it mabye wait a year or something untill you have been together longer.dont cheat on someone you care about as that's just shaddy and lazy.hope that helps you out a bit mate.

No, i wasn't implying that at all

Perhaps, as we're on a swingers site, it could be we have a more open minded view of things that people who aren't would never consider doing? "
ah ok yea i get you.text on the internet can seem different sometimes

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Try watching porn of it together. Might not know what you're into till you see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We do watch it and she was opening up to me when she's had a drink then that's it forgot the next day !

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We do watch it and she was opening up to me when she's had a drink then that's it forgot the next day ! "

You could try introducing toys to simulate a mmf while you watch porn next time.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ask her when you are both sobre and see what she says.If shes not up for it ,then you will know and you can either carry on meeting others as you already are or be honest with her.

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We do watch it and she was opening up to me when she's had a drink then that's it forgot the next day ! "

Shame you dont mention having a gf in your profile. Might help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I mentioned it people may think I'm a fake on fab and have no gf !!

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