FabSwingers.com forum: What's your oldest unread message in your inbox?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know the ladies and couples get loads and don't look at all of them but have a quick look and see when your oldest one was sent.

I messaged a women 6 days ago who hasn't read it but been online quite frequently, normally I just delete the sent items but this one I am curious on whether she will eventually read it or just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 days ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll read it later , stop nagging

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I read all mine and reply, even if it's a no as I'm a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even check to see if they've read it to be honest.

But if she hasn't replied after 6 days she ain't going to.

2 options:

Either send it again as she may have missed or move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know there are 100's, at a guess I'd say 2 weeks old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know there are 100's, at a guess I'd say 2 weeks old."

You're not tempted to shock them with a reply?

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I'm a single bloke... I get a message it's read straight away... Usually with a feeling of shock that I received one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get many messages only off my friends list and past meets not new lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest in my inbox is 3 days

Oldest sent is 7 days.

PTU XXX

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Since i get about 1 message a day i manage to get through all mine.....

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

3 weeks, it ain't getting read...

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"3 weeks, it ain't getting read...

That's sent, read mine every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply.

We've only met two couples and one guy that could manage the message system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long has this profile been active?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm a good girl and reply to all messages within 24 hours, regardless of my response. I've emptied my inbox several times today, can't believe I'm still shocked by what lands in there lol. I do reply to some messages more quickly than others though

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

None. I don't get that many and I either reply or delete.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

3 hours, only cos i leave em for angel to deal with.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Unread messages automatically delete after 4 weeks, so my oldest one will be 3 weeks and 6 days old as they are starting to delete themselves again now. I had good intentions this time to deal with them daily but it hasn't worked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know there are 100's, at a guess I'd say 2 weeks old.

You're not tempted to shock them with a reply?"

I have done that previously, it just adds to the confusion as they weren't expecting a reply!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

2 days, I can't see further back than that on my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 days, I can't see further back than that on my phone

Lol, guess I'm not getting a reply then

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I delete them and winks I hate unread mail I do it with emails too! Just a thing I have about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's all read, the oldest one I've sent is 3 weeks old - if that ain't a hint i don't know what is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's anything in my inbox which hasn't been read, It is probably because I'm still running around the room, shouting "Woohoo!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approximately 5 nanoseconds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a personal record this morning - a message waiting when I signed in but the sender had already gone unlos (facepalms). At least it was a nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Approximately 5 nanoseconds!

That said my inbox "pinged" today while at work but deliberately left it to build up the anticipation of the message for a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks ago, still no reply!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I have lots of messages in my inbox that I haven't opened. I don't need to.... If they're very short the entire message appears on my inbox summary anyway, and if they're asking to meet I don't bother replying anymore.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I'm a single bloke... I get a message it's read straight away... Usually with a feeling of shock that I received one

Yes, this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not an egotistical woman, I read my messages

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

All messages read and replied to, can't say the same for messages sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea ive 300 odd unread

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"no idea ive 300 odd unread"
so read them

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Went through all ours this morning.

None unread or not dealt with atm

Jo xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Very very rarely get mail so no unread here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because a message is showing as unread it doesn't actually mean the recipient hasn't read it as there is an option to mark messages as unread fter you have opened them.

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