FabSwingers.com forum: Your own gender

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, we get numerous posts on a daily basis from women having a go at men and even a few from men having a go at women.

So,

What criticisms of YOUR OWN GENDER, have you too say ?

Male half here so ill give my tuppence worth on men.

1. White knights, everywhere.

2. Desperation.

3. Lack of effort and still expecting results.

4. The notion the numerous cock pics are what women wanna see.

5. So called straight guys willing to suck cock to get a meet.

Ill prob add more as they occur to me.

THIS IS NOT A HAVE A GO AT SINGLE GUYS THREAD !!!

obviously not all guys are like this, but a large percentage are.

Interested in what the ladies have to say about ladies though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you wholeheartedly about guys also, theres always one idiot who is willing to get the rest of us tarred with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah guys criticising other guys to make themselves look better .. place is full of them!

(Come on chaps - remember the Bro' code - we need to stick together, a gender UNITED!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with you wholeheartedly about guys also, theres always one idiot who is willing to get the rest of us tarred with the same brush"

I often sit back and watch whether in chatrooms or in forums and i literally cringe !!

Guys are their own worst enemies on here.

Everyone knows the "fancy a fuck" guy is a bit silly and wont get any luck.

In my opinion white knights are the real enemy to good guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn those hot sexy women who post hot sexy photos that get all the hot sexy mens attention!! Keep your clothes on ladies so we all stand a chance

*please note this is tongue in cheek. I actually quite like seeing classy teasing photos despite being straight. Does that make me 'fab straight'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah guys criticising other guys to make themselves look better .. place is full of them!

(Come on chaps - remember the Bro' code - we need to stick together, a gender UNITED!!

Thats not really the point of tbe thread though.

Its each gender to look at themselves.

All for the bro code but its practically non existent on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah guys criticising other guys to make themselves look better .. place is full of them!

(Come on chaps - remember the Bro' code - we need to stick together, a gender UNITED!!

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who complain about getting messages off men, yet they don't set their filters

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I am sick of the constant single guy attacks!!

The NSA profile but a shopping list for a husband!

The, I get too many messages but I have a million pics on my profile that will attract every horny guy on the site!!

I have more but I'm playing nicely lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women who complain about getting messages off men, yet they don't set their filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am sick of the constant single guy attacks!!

The NSA profile but a shopping list for a husband!

The, I get too many messages but I have a million pics on my profile that will attract every horny guy on the site!!

I have more but I'm playing nicely lol

Haha love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah guys criticising other guys to make themselves look better .. place is full of them!

(Come on chaps - remember the Bro' code - we need to stick together, a gender UNITED!!

Oops read it wrong 1st time, ignore my 1st quote on your post

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Women who tout for fabs on their pics, and are uploading new ones every single day, or even just regurgitating old ones

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Damn those hot sexy women who post hot sexy photos that get all the hot sexy mens attention!! Keep your clothes on ladies so we all stand a chance

*please note this is tongue in cheek. I actually quite like seeing classy teasing photos despite being straight. Does that make me 'fab straight'?

Let is know if it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lamp-post pissing mainly.

To be fair the men on here piss me off more than the women. And i usually like men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guys who message wanting to suck my cock really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, piss me off now. Mainly because they see bi and assume that's what I'm after. Then they be all ew ew ew ew ew ew ew at the thought of slipping it in me.

The other one that really makes me rage is dominant men thinking because it says words like 'sub' 'passive' 'bottom' on my profile they can down talk me, lecture me on what they are going to do to me, regardless of what I tell them I'm up for. Some have even told me I will do stuff I don't want to because I'm sub and they are in charge.

I wonder if they ever meet anyone with that attitude? And not knowing what a light system or safe word is.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

This just shows there are fools of all genders and relationship status.

Also loads of great people of all genders and relationship status.

Let's focus on the great people and having fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you wholeheartedly about guys also, theres always one idiot who is willing to get the rest of us tarred with the same brush

I often sit back and watch whether in chatrooms or in forums and i literally cringe !!

Guys are their own worst enemies on here.

Everyone knows the "fancy a fuck" guy is a bit silly and wont get any luck.

In my opinion white knights are the real enemy to good guys."
On here you get allsorts its like pick and mix and you pick what is right for you . No ones the same and I like that about this site .

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Not necessarily a criticism of us guys but there are more than a couple at clubs who lack either the confidence or social abilities to approach and chat to women which does sometimes lead to certain behaviour deemed inappropriate or crude. They're not really bad people, just maybe lacking in confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you wholeheartedly about guys also, theres always one idiot who is willing to get the rest of us tarred with the same brush"

Only ONE?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lamp-post pissing mainly.

To be fair the men on here piss me off more than the women. And i usually like men."

Theres quite a lot of that happening on here and it's not just the guys!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a white knight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The - which photos do you like to see - aka look at mine aren't I awesome .

Moaning about single guys and /or couples and their profiles, just block and move on

Overuse of the word classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who tout for fabs on their pics, and are uploading new ones every single day, or even just regurgitating old ones

I hate that too....oh wait..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The not setting filters and then moaning about the messages.

Being part of a couple, flirting and leading single guys on and saying, oh sorry, can't message you, my husband won't like it, or I can't meet you on my own, yet the flirting has come across as being able to do that! Feel sorry for guys at this point!

Being snarky if someone flirts with anyone else!

Jealousy and being very obvious about it and then messaging males to tell them off for flirting with others on the forums.

I can think of more, but I'll just sound bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who are bi/bi curious but only want you to play with them and get nothing in return its like oh thanks for the orgasm your now dismissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of men make little to no effort when messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a white knight? "

a man ( female versions are available) who blows smoke up a womans arse in the hope of getting somewhere with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you wholeheartedly about guys also, theres always one idiot who is willing to get the rest of us tarred with the same brush"

Good example of the tiresome 'us' and 'them' mentality. We are all individuals and nobody else's profile will have the slightest influence on your own personal success.

The people who are looking for single guys, are savvy enough to sort the wheat from the chaff. Give them some credit.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Women who tout for fabs on their pics, and are uploading new ones every single day, or even just regurgitating old ones

I hate that too....oh wait..

I do it too on occasion, I mean every single day

oh and the ones where it's just pics from the same angle every time, I have one like that local to me, the men seem to like it though, must be easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a white knight?

a man ( female versions are available) who blows smoke up a womans arse in the hope of getting somewhere with her"

Oh a captain save a ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who are bi/bi curious but only want you to play with them and get nothing in return its like oh thanks for the orgasm your now dismissed

pillow princesses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who are bi/bi curious but only want you to play with them and get nothing in return its like oh thanks for the orgasm your now dismissed

pillow princesses

Is that the term? Well i shall be staying well clear from now on lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Lamp-post pissing mainly.

To be fair the men on here piss me off more than the women. And i usually like men."

I'm guilty of lamppost pissing but it's with consent, I realise it's annoying on threads so try not to do it too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmm.... own gender critique huh?

A tendency to allow the wrong head to do the thinking maybe? (Okay, so definitely then)

Actually, other than that, I find that all the genders of fab exhibit the same good and bad traits to an extent. It's just that there are so many fellas that it tends to get plastered as men only faults.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Most of the Op list

At clubs though it's guys in couples who have a hot partner, so have let themselves go and make no effort at all.

It's like a culture of well she is fit so why do I need to do anything as I can shag other guys wives so they can shag mine.

Noticing the above is what got my arse in the gym working out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, we get numerous posts on a daily basis from women having a go at men and even a few from men having a go at women.

So,

What criticisms of YOUR OWN GENDER, have you too say ?

Male half here so ill give my tuppence worth on men.

1. White knights, everywhere.

2. Desperation.

3. Lack of effort and still expecting results.

4. The notion the numerous cock pics are what women wanna see.

5. So called straight guys willing to suck cock to get a meet.

Ill prob add more as they occur to me.

THIS IS NOT A HAVE A GO AT SINGLE GUYS THREAD !!!

obviously not all guys are like this, but a large percentage are.

Interested in what the ladies have to say about ladies though

Covered my criticisms

, PC white knights and also people who just follow people around clubs annoying people, fucking hell. Top of my list.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

A lot of men trying with fake profiles trying to get a fuck with a woman even though the Irish Sea is between them xx

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"A lot of men trying with fake profiles trying to get a fuck with a woman even though the Irish Sea is between them xx

Pmsl

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Ummmm.... own gender critique huh?

A tendency to allow the wrong head to do the thinking maybe? (Okay, so definitely then)

Totally agree with this

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah guys criticising other guys to make themselves look better .. place is full of them!

(Come on chaps - remember the Bro' code - we need to stick together, a gender UNITED!!

I hate that shit.. I guess some people get jealous when others do well, happens in all aspects of life..

Good luck lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men that agree and defend the women on everything they post regardless of the subject/topic in the hope it gains then favour and a fuck.

I find these white knights/arseholer types utter Bellends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men that agree and defend the women on everything they post regardless of the subject/topic in the hope it gains then favour and a fuck.

I find these white knights/arseholer types utter Bellends

Also the "stop spoiling it for us genuine guys" type

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"A lot of men trying with fake profiles trying to get a fuck with a woman even though the Irish Sea is between them xx

Had a lady fly over that sea for a meet. It was for the weekend though...and she was over to watch the Rugby. But I kid myself it was my charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men that agree and defend the women on everything they post regardless of the subject/topic in the hope it gains then favour and a fuck.

I find these white knights/arseholer types utter Bellends

Also the "stop spoiling it for us genuine guys" type

Exactly

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"What is a white knight? "

Definitely not you pmsl

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Good call op loving this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good call op loving this thread

Its an insight

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Good call op loving this thread

Its an insight

And has remained civilised so far, a minor miracle and it's not even Easter yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are stuck up bitches who think they shit rainbows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are stuck up bitches who think they shit rainbows "

You trying to tell me I don't?? I'm shattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are stuck up bitches who think they shit rainbows

You trying to tell me I don't?? I'm shattered "

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Women are stuck up bitches who think they shit rainbows "

There's one I was holding back on, but now you come to mention it ..........

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

All you great bodied guys with massive juicy looking Cocks that have all the ladies swooning and dripping with your perfect bodies and tight arses.

As above white knights and "genuine" nice guys. With fuck all banter just narcissistic look at how great I am posts.

On a positive note.

All you great bodied guys with massive juicy looking Cocks that have all the ladies swooning and dripping with your perfect bodies and tight arses.

Who get the Mrs horny when she perves and I get the benefit

As above white knights and "genuine" nice guys. With fuck all banter just narcissistic look at how great I am posts.

Who make us actual genuine guys look good and normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a woman who plays with Women but they make me tear my hair out! My three pet hates:

Women want to be woo'd or romanced for 6 weeks before a meet drive me crackers. I spoke to a great sexy lady for ages but it moved very swiftly from sexy planning to bitching about her kids and husband. When she asked me for a curry recipe for her husband's tea I have up. I don't come here as an agony aunt or bff. Its a sex site. If I wanted to date I'd be on pof.

What is funny is women acting towards other women in the same way they treat single guys. If both want wooing and for the other to be grateful for their attention it just ends in some sort of Mexican standoff.

Women who act as if they are doing me a HUGE favour by meeting me. Vaginas are no special currency I have one too! I think there are so many single guys that it's easy for a girl to develop an inflated ego.

We are all here to find a sexy connection. Respect yourself and go after what you need but I won't beg for you, run round in circles or jump through hoops. I'm a woman not a poodle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who lamp post piss

Also women with such negative profiles, long lists of demands and SHOUTY CAPS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a woman who plays with Women but they make me tear my hair out! My three pet hates:

We are all here to find a sexy connection. Respect yourself and go after what you need but I won't beg for you, run round in circles or jump through hoops. I'm a woman not a poodle.

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who are bi/bi curious but only want you to play with them and get nothing in return its like oh thanks for the orgasm your now dismissed

Pillow princess's !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who are bi/bi curious but only want you to play with them and get nothing in return its like oh thanks for the orgasm your now dismissed

Pillow princess's ! "

women (and men and couples) who respond to one comment on a thread and it's perfectly obvious they didn't read the rest of the thread

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

'White knights' gets thrown around way too easily. I've been called a 'white knight' for agreeing with female forumites whose profiles I've never looked at, who I've never spoken to or have any plans to speak to.

It gets a bit silly.

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