FabSwingers.com forum: couple profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

roughly 1/3 of pics are of the male in our profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i didnt say all of them i was meaning 95%

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"i didnt say all of them i was meaning 95%

lol i knew that as you stated "most"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's only me on ours coz Kate's shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps its because the female is often the 'selling point'... i dont really know was just a guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a couple profile should have same number of pics of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that athought

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

Too many damn profile police these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both"

i dont think so, think its up to the individuals within the couple, one half might be more shy than the other half. if there is at least one picture and they are verified by others then all other pictures are a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why is it on a couple profile the main profile pic is of a women and not the couple

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Because thats the way we took them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right about the male/female picture mix with couples.

All I can put it down to is you get far more MMF meets than FFM meets.

You have to admit though woman's bodies ar far nicer to look at even for most women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man "

Cos if my photo was on there we'd never get any meets.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

why is a woman who has "NO COUPLES" in caps in her profile so intrested in why/how couples pick thier photo's?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we have a pic of my husband but he dont like his pic being taken but aleast it stills shows what he looks like and i dont think hes into doing poses !lol

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

you forgot to add "maybe they know if peeps see a pic of him then they wont get a meet" ??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You are right about the male/female picture mix with couples.

All I can put it down to is you get far more MMF meets than FFM meets.

You have to admit though woman's bodies ar far nicer to look at even for most women

Actually, I much prefer looking at men, but I get your point.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

you forgot to add "maybe they know if peeps see a pic of him then they wont get a meet" ??

I assume that at some point there will be sharing of the guy pics before the meet.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"why is a woman who has "NO COUPLES" in caps in her profile so intrested in why/how couples pick thier photo's?"

just noticed that,

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Happy is just as uggly from any angle, so were doing people a favour, only showing him once :P

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

"why is a woman who has "NO COUPLES" in caps in her profile so intrested in why/how couples pick thier photo's?

just noticed that,

yes butttt she has met a couple on her veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

other hafe got pic but for friend only.the way we want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

Too many damn profile police these days.

What woman does'nt care what guy is on her..

if your looking for a straight couple are pics of the female going turn both of you on???

I like pics of potential couples not just of an attached woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos Mr Easyshare is "plug ugly", we'd have NO chance of generating any interest if we put his pics on show.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

Too many damn profile police these days.

What woman does'nt care what guy is on her..

if your looking for a straight couple are pics of the female going turn both of you on???

I like pics of potential couples not just of an attached woman!

I know this is a novel idea but why not ask them for one?

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

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"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

you forgot to add "maybe they know if peeps see a pic of him then they wont get a meet" ??

I assume that at some point there will be sharing of the guy pics before the meet."

often having asked more than once - oh and then they can only send by email not via here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

you forgot to add "maybe they know if peeps see a pic of him then they wont get a meet" ??

I assume that at some point there will be sharing of the guy pics before the meet.

often having asked more than once - oh and then they can only send by email not via here

Yeah I'll give you that. It does seem odd that it is such a palaver to get one photo, but if they want to meet others and all it takes is uploading one pic, surely its worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I guess the secret is to just meet couples who have pics of both people!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have three pics on show, 1 is of mr.

99% of private/friends pics will be of me as not much point of taking even more of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

Too many damn profile police these days.

What woman does'nt care what guy is on her..

if your looking for a straight couple are pics of the female going turn both of you on???

I like pics of potential couples not just of an attached woman!

I know this is a novel idea but why not ask them for one?"

should'nt always have to contact while browsing?? one person don't make a couple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is a woman who has "NO COUPLES" in caps in her profile so intrested in why/how couples pick thier photo's?"

What has her profile got to do with her question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both"

Whose profile is it, mine or yours?

All of the pics on our profile are of me, that is because we meet single guys and to be honest with you they don't want to see pics of the OH.

We do play with couples and in this instant we send clear face pics of the two of us and a cock shot if required, the other woman will want to see what the goods are.

My OH is not remotely interested in having pics taken, therefore he will not pose for titillating photograghs, as he says, he'll do it on the night.

I think some people think they can demand we show on our profiles what they want to see. Well news for those people, they can't.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Is there a rule book that says a couples profile has to have photos of both the male and female?

If you come across a profile that you like the look & sound of and it doesn't show the guy....then you either email and ask to be sent one (which let's face it, takes 2 seconds) or you can ignore and move along to the next profile.

People are free to choose what THEY want to put on THEIR profile.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We only have 1 body shot of Mr on ours and he is in one of the action photos and the rest are of me.

That's simply because Mr doesn't like his photo being taken and is the one normally taking them.

If that puts some people off contacting us, then so be it....

We have equal face photos of us both in our private gallery and always send them when contacting others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both

Whose profile is it, mine or yours?

All of the pics on our profile are of me, that is because we meet single guys and to be honest with you they don't want to see pics of the OH.

We do play with couples and in this instant we send clear face pics of the two of us and a cock shot if required, the other woman will want to see what the goods are.

My OH is not remotely interested in having pics taken, therefore he will not pose for titillating photograghs, as he says, he'll do it on the night.

I think some people think they can demand we show on our profiles what they want to see. Well news for those people, they can't. "

Well said!

I do love it when folk on here question what OTHER members have on profiles that do NOT belong to THEM ffs!

To those having a whinge/gripe/moan about the way other people present themselves on this site... you seriously need to get out more! If you have lost interest in a profile due to lack of/too many pics then possibly block those who have the audacity to use the site in a way that you don't deem right... then move on to the couple/single that have pleased you with providing the right pics 50/50 split between male/female where appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure any profile 'should' have anything. Maybe the guy pics are friends only. Maybe thats how they want it. Maybe they get too much unwanted attention otherwise.

Too many damn profile police these days.

What woman does'nt care what guy is on her..

if your looking for a straight couple are pics of the female going turn both of you on???

I like pics of potential couples not just of an attached woman!

I know this is a novel idea but why not ask them for one?

should'nt always have to contact while browsing?? one person don't make a couple!!"

Exactly, so if your a couple looking for a couple (no matter if the women are bi or not) there should still be a pic of the male half.

The best thing to do is only contact those who have pics of both on profile instead of just pics of the woman.

Saves yourselves a lot of time and also embarrassment saying "Thanks but no thanks", when they finally send you a pic of a guy you don't fancy.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man "

Why is it that people who display 'No Couples' in their own profile.....have ANY interest in couples profiles and what they have on them?

Move on....nothing to see here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

Why is it that people who display 'No Couples' in their own profile.....have ANY interest in couples profiles"

If we put our wedding pic on here it may help

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

Why is it that people who display 'No Couples' in their own profile.....have ANY interest in couples profiles

If we put our wedding pic on here it may help

dont be silly, then it would be outta date, unless your only recently married of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

Why is it that people who display 'No Couples' in their own profile.....have ANY interest in couples profiles

If we put our wedding pic on here it may help

dont be silly, then it would be outta date, unless your only recently married of course

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Yep, very recently... 9 years ago

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

Why is it that people who display 'No Couples' in their own profile.....have ANY interest in couples profiles

If we put our wedding pic on here it may help

dont be silly, then it would be outta date, unless your only recently married of course

Yep, very recently... 9 years ago

ack sure thats fine then

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

We find it's a difficult one really. There are lots of different poses you can do for a womans pics, but when it comes to taking pics of *Him* we run out of ideas!

We'd ask for help from a visitor this weekend, except it doesn't really matter for us anymore since we're not playing for a while....

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really annoys me about this is the statements made - couple SHOULD put pics up!

When a couple or single guy show an interest in us and its reciprocated, then we will go out of our way to be as accommodating as we possibly can. We will answer any questions they have about our sexual practice, likes, dislikes etc, we will send them clear face pics and cock pic and pics of us together to verify there are two of us. We will listen and agree to any information they have, or pics they will show us - if theres only pics of a female on that couples profile, im in the same position arent I.

My OH wont pose, its not his thing. He also wont have pictures of himself for those people who have absolutely no interest in meeting up, but just what to be nosy on what Mr Iconic looks like. If you show a genuine interest to meet and we want to meet, we will do what we can to make it happen, and if after pics its a no then so be it. If its just a case of nosy buggers on the forum just wanting to see what someones other half looks like, then no he doesnt want to play those games, and thats his perogative. So stop with the "should" malarky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man "

Cause they wanna get meets lol

If i had a couples profile i wouldnt want my pics scarin peeps off xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man

Cause they wanna get meets lol

If i had a couples profile i wouldnt want my pics scarin peeps off xx

to late for that we already seen them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both"

here is the law!!

Couples take heed, if you ave not updated your pics by the 29th July you will no longer be allowed to meet anyone off fab ever!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it most couple profiles have more pictures of womem than the man "

Because the female for is beautiful and men appreciate that, and the wont let the lady near their expensive Nikon

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both

here is the law!!

Couples take heed, if you ave not updated your pics by the 29th July you will no longer be allowed to meet anyone off fab ever!!!!!

damn need to start collectin pics then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both"

Offt, why does it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a couple profile should have same number of pics of both

Offt, why does it bother you?

I dont mean it pointedly,surprised nobody else has asked this already, interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really annoys me about this is the statements made - couple SHOULD put pics up!

Absolutely understand point of view and thanks for a sensible answer..

my bf doesn't do the posing thing either.. not really, but is also aware that if we are hoping to meet a genuine couple.. chances are she will want to know what he looks like, ie: body type, looks, and if he does anything for her visually! people SHOULD do whatever they wish.. it's only my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posts like these really make me cringe - why oh why oh why does it matter if the couple doesn't have equal amounts of pics of the guy on their profile? No one is entitled to tell anyone what they should and shouldn't do - that's just downright rude!! Profile Police perhaps SHOULD think about how badly posts like these reflect on them before they start dictating to people!

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