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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches. "

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches. "

It all depends on how the flow of the conversation goes. I Don't have a set way that I do not deviate from and the way that the lady chats back to me dictates the levity or seriousness of my response.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches. "

Can't we have both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol"

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

It all depends on how the flow of the conversation goes. I Don't have a set way that I do not deviate from and the way that the lady chats back to me dictates the levity or seriousness of my response. "

I think an ideal for me is my op, but once a mutual rapport is found, then conversations can ebb and flow light to dark much more freely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Can't we have both? "

If it starts gravely, and confidently, and with tinges of tactility, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know. "

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always stay off in a funny but flirty fashion and see where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun"

See I can't associate comedy and horniness at all. I might think you're brilliant, but my pussy won't be wet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always stay off in a funny but flirty fashion and see where it leads. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun

See I can't associate comedy and horniness at all. I might think you're brilliant, but my pussy won't be wet "

Aha the nice guy finishes last

Like I said to go from 0 to 100 can be off putting for some but others it's the best course of action to ensure filthy sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun

See I can't associate comedy and horniness at all. I might think you're brilliant, but my pussy won't be wet

Aha the nice guy finishes last

Like I said to go from 0 to 100 can be off putting for some but others it's the best course of action to ensure filthy sex"

Agreed. Some of us have strong simple urges and no filter, whilst some of us need assertive but gentle coaxing, I know which camp I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun

See I can't associate comedy and horniness at all. I might think you're brilliant, but my pussy won't be wet

Aha the nice guy finishes last

Like I said to go from 0 to 100 can be off putting for some but others it's the best course of action to ensure filthy sex

Agreed. Some of us have strong simple urges and no filter, whilst some of us need assertive but gentle coaxing, I know which camp I'm in "

#teamcoaxing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

Guess it's how you feel on the day?

I like banter always a jokery type

I like to pick the right moment to be a tad less subtle and balls out say I want your p***y lol

If the humour is my humour, I'm all for that as it's fun. But I can't really often get horny for someone if that's their 'default' conversational style. I'm a complicated cow, I know.

Well it definitely works if you click with someone but if the 2nd message from them goes from hi to want to fuck then it kind of spoils the mood and makes them look like a cringe

I like to laugh a woman into bed it's more fun

See I can't associate comedy and horniness at all. I might think you're brilliant, but my pussy won't be wet

Aha the nice guy finishes last

Like I said to go from 0 to 100 can be off putting for some but others it's the best course of action to ensure filthy sex

Agreed. Some of us have strong simple urges and no filter, whilst some of us need assertive but gentle coaxing, I know which camp I'm in "

Aha gentle coaxing, that's one way to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely "

*Drops a breadcrumb tail to my invite m inbox*

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over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood."

Lovecave has now been added to my vocabulary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood."

'To plunder ones lovecave' my p_edictive text really didn't like that word!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood.

Lovecave has now been added to my vocabulary "

(I'll be offe_ed cake again soon).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood.

Lovecave has now been added to my vocabulary

(I'll be offe_ed cake again soon)."

Not before noon Meli. I pay attention, see?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood.

Lovecave has now been added to my vocabulary

(I'll be offe_ed cake again soon).

Not before noon Meli. I pay attention, see? "

I'm impressed. I thought you would have a small span.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood. Which fluctuate wildly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches. "

Did you mean obtuse?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches. "

This is what I prefer too ... small talk bores me, and I'm very attracted to intelligence so a serious out of the norm type message tends to grab my attention. I'm rubbish at flirting anyway but find it 'easier' if I've made an intellectual connection first rather than going head first into banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faf?

How does that grab you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fancy riding my cock/plundering my lovecave message does the trick for me.

Slightly more seriously, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person and my mood.

Lovecave has now been added to my vocabulary

(I'll be offe_ed cake again soon).

Not before noon Meli. I pay attention, see?

I'm impressed. I thought you would have a small span. "

Sorry?... span of what now?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you folk prefer?

I'm always one to prick my ears up at a slightly humble but quite forthright / grave approach, this sort of 'serious' buildup gets me way more excited than any funny, light-hearted, smalltalk-y type approaches.

This is what I prefer too ... small talk bores me, and I'm very attracted to intelligence so a serious out of the norm type message tends to grab my attention. I'm rubbish at flirting anyway but find it 'easier' if I've made an intellectual connection first rather than going head first into banter "

Yep, you're right. Way sexier every time. Serious=horny (mostly - to me)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Faf?

How does that grab you? "

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. Which fluctuate wildly!

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Mine too! But this is my default position. Disclaimer: I am excused from this rule on days when I'm outrageously rampant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show them my bum and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I show them my bum and hope for the best "

I'm sure that is a winning approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Faf?

How does that grab you?

Faf?"

Fancy a fuck?

Oh your new! . I didn't know. Welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Depends on my mood. Which fluctuate wildly!

Mine too! But this is my default position. Disclaimer: I am excused from this rule on days when I'm outrageously rampant! "

What a great state. Every day we can be sad, happy, morose, ecstatic, gloomy, even horny or aroused...

But outrageously rampant is the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not go in all guns blazing sometimes its not worth standing on egg shells.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Faf?

How does that grab you?

Faf?

Fancy a fuck?

Oh your new! . I didn't know. Welcome. "

God I'm so naive! Ha!

Love those ones. I enjoy winding them up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood. Which fluctuate wildly!

Mine too! But this is my default position. Disclaimer: I am excused from this rule on days when I'm outrageously rampant!

What a great state. Every day we can be sad, happy, morose, ecstatic, gloomy, even horny or aroused...

But outrageously rampant is the top "

what can I say - I love a good variation in vocab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not go in all guns blazing sometimes its not worth standing on egg shells.

"

There's intelligent guns blazing and thoughtless guns blazing. If they know the difference, then yes.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Depends on my mood. Which fluctuate wildly!

Mine too! But this is my default position. Disclaimer: I am excused from this rule on days when I'm outrageously rampant!

What a great state. Every day we can be sad, happy, morose, ecstatic, gloomy, even horny or aroused...

But outrageously rampant is the top what can I say - I love a good variation in vocab! "

A lot of fun with wordplay before foreplay if you have a decent vocabulary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not go in all guns blazing sometimes its not worth standing on egg shells.

There's intelligent guns blazing and thoughtless guns blazing. If they know the difference, then yes. "

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