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Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "But surely that's the point,,,, you're not meant to get it ,,,,,  | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all  | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "Why are you even bothered? | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
Why are you even bothered?"I just don't get y sumone wood arsk about sumthing then wen thay get the replay to the question thay don't reed it. Seems a bit pointless asking in the 1st place. | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police "No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness. I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling. | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling. "Well no its not that. Im just not good at spelling cos im dyslexic. As I explan in my profile. Yes I do have a alto spell but it dont allways work. | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling. "A spell checker is easily accessible on phone or pc. I understand you have issues but some people wouldn't bother checking your profile. | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling.
A spell checker is easily accessible on phone or pc.
I understand you have issues but some people wouldn't bother checking your profile. "Do you no how hard it is to use spell checker wen you carnt spell propley in the 1st place. It gives you 4 or 5 words all sounding alke but all spelt difrount with difrount meenings How is that helpfall if you carnt spell it in the 1st place ? | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "It's possible that they have had a lot of messages and missed your reply. Or it could be that they have gone off fab as they've been called away. | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling.
A spell checker is easily accessible on phone or pc.
I understand you have issues but some people wouldn't bother checking your profile.
Do you no how hard it is to use spell checker wen you carnt spell propley in the 1st place.
It gives you 4 or 5 words all sounding alke but all spelt difrount with difrount meenings
How is that helpfall if you carnt spell it in the 1st place ?" | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
It's possible that they have had a lot of messages and missed your reply.
Or it could be that they have gone off fab as they've been called away.
"Mabey. but its been about 24 hours now and thay have been on line since I sent it. Mabey thay did just miss it. | |||
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"I don't know op. Have patience, they might of got a 100 replies to the copy and pasted question they sent out to everyone. "I never thort of that | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all "Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab! | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police "Take no notice! | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all
Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab!"Wow thank you. That's so nice  | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all
Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab!"Well said! | |||
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"I don't know op. Have patience, they might of got a 100 replies to the copy and pasted question they sent out to everyone.
I never thort of that "Ignore the spelling police by the way. I could have ranted about this morning. But that's my point about not being able to change people. You can't spell any better than you can. They can't read something unless it's spelt perfectly for them. . | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
Take no notice!"Its a bit late for that  | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all
Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab!
Wow thank you.
That's so nice "Never a problem hun! Mrs xxx | |||
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"I just had this, but when I went to reply I'd been blocked "That's just as odd...... Realey y bother sending a question in the 1st place ? | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
Take no notice!
Its a bit late for that "Seriously, I wouldn't pay any mind to these sorts of comments from people. Just keep doing what you're doing buddy. | |||
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"I just had this, but when I went to reply I'd been blocked
That's just as odd......
Realey y bother sending a question in the 1st place ?"Depends on the question? Was it a personal one just for you? It was it a generic one that they could have sent to anyone? I have had the latter in the past and just ignore them now or certainly don't worry if they reply or not | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
Take no notice!
Its a bit late for that
Seriously, I wouldn't pay any mind to these sorts of comments from people. Just keep doing what you're doing buddy. "I do. that's y I think thay keep complaining | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
Why are you even bothered?
I just don't get y sumone wood arsk about sumthing then wen thay get the replay to the question thay don't reed it.
Seems a bit pointless asking in the 1st place."Maybe they're humouring you/themselves. Maybe they're bored. | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
Why are you even bothered?
I just don't get y sumone wood arsk about sumthing then wen thay get the replay to the question thay don't reed it.
Seems a bit pointless asking in the 1st place."
Yeah seems daft,but hey ho. Did you give a short answer,they don't have to open it if it's just a couple of word's do they they can see it! They may not have liked your reply so left it there. | |||
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"I just had this, but when I went to reply I'd been blocked
That's just as odd......
Realey y bother sending a question in the 1st place ?
Depends on the question? Was it a personal one just for you? It was it a generic one that they could have sent to anyone? I have had the latter in the past and just ignore them now or certainly don't worry if they reply or not"Well it wos a odd question to start with..... In short .... Had I had any strange messages from admin ? I sed.... no I havount had any. sorrey. It's still unred now | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "Maybe they're not a fan of Magnum Pi! ** ref to your tom selek like profile pic  ** | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling. " | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
Maybe they're not a fan of Magnum Pi!
** ref to your tom selek like profile pic ** "Yaa.....ok | |||
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"All the time. I assume it's someone killing time until their preferred Fabber comes along." You mite be on to sumthing Thar | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. " Good advice! | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all "not like you to be an arse like that. | |||
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"I don't know op. Have patience, they might of got a 100 replies to the copy and pasted question they sent out to everyone.
I never thort of that "My phone is almost permanently logged on OP, don't mean we are sitting here on the end of it. ;-) S | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all
Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab!" | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. " Good idea, but when Seeside first appeared on the forums I thought "WTF?" & promptly went & spent two mins reading his profile, why that more difficult than posting abuse for some I do not know? S | |||
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"Seeside I've not been on here long ,but what I will say is this ...spell how you spell because it comes over just fine And you've been one of the most honest and friendly guys I've come across on here Keep it up mate Love and respect " this. | |||
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"Seeside I've not been on here long ,but what I will say is this ...spell how you spell because it comes over just fine And you've been one of the most honest and friendly guys I've come across on here Keep it up mate Love and respect "I agree | |||
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Shame same can't be said for some others in here. | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. Good idea, but when Seeside first appeared on the forums I thought "WTF?" & promptly went & spent two mins reading his profile, why that more difficult than posting abuse for some I do not know? S" My profiles changed a lot since then | |||
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"Seeside I've not been on here long ,but what I will say is this ...spell how you spell because it comes over just fine And you've been one of the most honest and friendly guys I've come across on here Keep it up mate Love and respect "Thanks | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all "I don't think it's intentional x | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
Why are you even bothered?"Why did you bother to reply on this thread | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling. "Poor spelling due to dyslexia is a far better weakness than the personality traits you are showing yourself to have. | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all
Please take the time to read the OPs profile. It states quite clearly on there that he has both dyslexia and aspergers both of which are recognised medical conditions which can affect how things are said and worded. We think he is a very brave guy to be on here posting on forums due to these conditions, he deserves respect for doing so. Seeside is a well respected forumite on Fab!"Well said. Jack. | |||
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"I think they've maybe read your reply without opening it then maybe been busy or its been lost in amongst other messages. I wouldn't worry about it though, people who do want to talk will make the effort and theyre the ones you should be bothered about x" | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "Maybe they've reconsidered since they sent the mail? | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. " Or you could not judge a book by its cover | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. Or you could not judge a book by its cover "Yes. However, ladies and couples on here don't usually go to the trouble to read a profile for every message they receive. I admit I went off half-cocked and this is certainly not like me...so I was wondering whether others did so as well. If ever there was a world of judging a book by its cover,then Fab is it. The fora are slightly different and usually peeps on here do take time. But in the small wide world of Fab,that is not necessarily a reasonable expectation for a single male to have. Yes,I feel like a nob for my initial post, but can't help but wonder if this is not a factor in the perception of many of those who receive message's from Seeside. I will bow out there, apologetically  | |||
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"Hear we go agen...... Spelling police
No, not spelling police. But if you can't be arsed to write a word,sentence, or whole message...then it hints towards disinterest or laziness.
I am, of course, making a sweeping judgement here and assume you used similar spelling.
A spell checker is easily accessible on phone or pc.
I understand you have issues but some people wouldn't bother checking your profile. "Spelling police are anal. As long as you got the meaning of what the OP wrote, then take a chill pill. | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it "You will never understand other members and messages on here. Many have too much drama in their lives, I think we're supposed to notice and be concerned. | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
If you answer with that type of "prose", then it is hardly surprising they don't bother to reply. You can't be bothered to spell "Why" after all "Shut up. | |||
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"It is true that I didn't read the OP's profile before I made my initial posts. However, this is true of many on here and that can affect response rate. I would suggest that this is one of the few instances where a pasted initial message may be the answer. This may help direct members to his profile and avoid any further wrong conclusions. Or you could not judge a book by its cover
Yes. However, ladies and couples on here don't usually go to the trouble to read a profile for every message they receive.
I admit I went off half-cocked and this is certainly not like me...so I was wondering whether others did so as well.
If ever there was a world of judging a book by its cover,then Fab is it.
The fora are slightly different and usually peeps on here do take time. But in the small wide world of Fab,that is not necessarily a reasonable expectation for a single male to have.
Yes,I feel like a nob for my initial post, but can't help but wonder if this is not a factor in the perception of many of those who receive message's from Seeside.
I will bow out there, apologetically
"I have no idear wot apologetically meens but im gessing it meens sorrey. So accepted. As for me messaging since you seem to want to no. I don't send opening messages I just reply. Manley cos my aspergers plays up wen i try to send a opening message. So anyone messaging me shood have red my profile anyway. | |||
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"Has anyone had sumone message them asking you sumthing then wen you reply its left unred
Y ask in the 1st place if your not going to reed the arnsar
I just don't get it
It's possible that they have had a lot of messages and missed your reply.
Or it could be that they have gone off fab as they've been called away.
Mabey. but its been about 24 hours now and thay have been on line since I sent it.
Mabey thay did just miss it."You could always give them a wink. It may jog their memory that you have replied. | |||
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"I just had this, but when I went to reply I'd been blocked
That's just as odd......
Realey y bother sending a question in the 1st place ?
Depends on the question? Was it a personal one just for you? It was it a generic one that they could have sent to anyone? I have had the latter in the past and just ignore them now or certainly don't worry if they reply or not
Well it wos a odd question to start with.....
In short .... Had I had any strange messages from admin ?
I sed.... no I havount had any. sorrey.
It's still unred now "If they are getting messages from admin could they be on some sort of ban? or maybe they have used up the message allowance if not a site supporter? | |||
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"I just had this, but when I went to reply I'd been blocked
That's just as odd......
Realey y bother sending a question in the 1st place ?
Depends on the question? Was it a personal one just for you? It was it a generic one that they could have sent to anyone? I have had the latter in the past and just ignore them now or certainly don't worry if they reply or not
Well it wos a odd question to start with.....
In short .... Had I had any strange messages from admin ?
I sed.... no I havount had any. sorrey.
It's still unred now "They sent you a message asking you a question and you replied with your answer, Maybe they read the message and didn't think it was worth sending you another one, I wouldn't worry about it | |||
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