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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't care what pics are on someone's profile, nor do I care what they put in their profile.

I look at it, read it and if I feel I'm what they're looking for I contact them. If they don't reply, I don't contact them again, because obviously I'm not who they're looking for.

I don't criticise and I don't presume to know how somebody should present their profile to others. A lot do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like some pics and o dislike others.

Some are good, some are bad photos.

It doesn't make me dislike the person though, if I dislike their way of presenting themselves in their pictures. That could still be and attraction to them.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't care what others do with their profiles and I don't listen to what others like. If someone likes my pics then we have one thing in common. A good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I don't care what others do with their profiles and I don't listen to what others like. If someone likes my pics then we have one thing in common. A good start. "
your pics r stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope each to their own I say! I might not enjoy all the pics I see but I respect that not everyone likes mine either!

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope each to their own I say! I might not enjoy all the pics I see but I respect that not everyone likes mine either!"
I certainly like,

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol"

Hope he got every angle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste? "

Usually if they send a rant message or post a rant reply then it's because they feel they're being left out and not having the option to choose or turn you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste? "

Do you reply to messages from people with no photos?

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I try to be arty with my pic's.

Cock pics are to obvious and easy to do. I have got a couple in private pics but not many.

I just like playing with my camera and sharing my results.

Hopefully somebody likes at least one but I won't lose sleep if no one does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol"

Went Overboard. Should have stuck to 42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste? "

About time you took some tit pics and shared them with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol

Went Overboard. Should have stuck to 42. "

Noooooo not that number!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol"

I saw one with 106 once

Not all of us like the same things,each to their own .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people need something to look down their noses at makes 'em feel that much more elevated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people need something to look down their noses at makes 'em feel that much more elevated "

Yes true I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol

I saw one with 106 once

Not all of us like the same things,each to their own .

Miss"

And after 106 you still weren't turned on?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste?

About time you took some tit pics and shared them with us "

Just because I don't share them doesn't mean I don't have them

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion."

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible."

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people need something to look down their noses at makes 'em feel that much more elevated

Yes true I do "

you should be the most elevated person here! anyhow, shouldn't you be busy rehearsing easter or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either."

course you need a whinge now and again, your northern! we aint happy if we're not miserable like

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either.

course you need a whinge now and again, your northern! we aint happy if we're not miserable like "

it's this bloody weather i'm telling ya.

rain and wind, wind and rain. clouds, cloud and clouds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either.

course you need a whinge now and again, your northern! we aint happy if we're not miserable like

it's this bloody weather i'm telling ya.

rain and wind, wind and rain. clouds, cloud and clouds. "

what with the weather and the priceof stuff these days!! it's enough to keep you in misery for years! happy days

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either.

course you need a whinge now and again, your northern! we aint happy if we're not miserable like

it's this bloody weather i'm telling ya.

rain and wind, wind and rain. clouds, cloud and clouds.

what with the weather and the priceof stuff these days!! it's enough to keep you in misery for years! happy days "

yes, and my knees hurt also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible.

i need a whinge every now and then, or used to. now i just tune pics out and expect ugly looking willies or something shit in messages.

bum holes...swear they're the only pics that make me think 'ew' now if sent to me, and one day they probably won't bother me either.

course you need a whinge now and again, your northern! we aint happy if we're not miserable like

it's this bloody weather i'm telling ya.

rain and wind, wind and rain. clouds, cloud and clouds.

what with the weather and the priceof stuff these days!! it's enough to keep you in misery for years! happy days "

Aye it's grim oooop North.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol

I saw one with 106 once

Not all of us like the same things,each to their own .

Miss

And after 106 you still weren't turned on? "

Erm no. 1 is sufficient. Much rather see a torso, shoulders and bum. Just my preference.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen a profile with 43... cock pics... each to their own but they put me off lol

I saw one with 106 once

Not all of us like the same things,each to their own .

Miss

And after 106 you still weren't turned on?

Erm no. 1 is sufficient. Much rather see a torso, shoulders and bum. Just my preference."

Torsos and bums, I can do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really that bothered about the style of pics, people can do what they like.

Many moons ago when I was actively meeting I would have many pictures . I have never asked for advice over them, have never tried to appeal to the masses and absolutely do not do requests. The biggest gripe others had with us were that there were no public pics of Mr Iconic, and of course there is never going to be. I never make excuses as to why. Whether we were 'passed by' by those couples who demanded pics of the two of us publicly was certainly of no concern to us.

People should just do their own thing and not be influenced by others. There is no-one that wonderful on here that you have to compromise your own choices.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Is this an actual problem or just a ranty thread?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And I have run out of ideas for new ones' I can't even think of any new props to buy and try

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I'm completely baffled!! Profiles are "personal", I choose not to have pics for several reasons, the main one being I fall into the cheating category. However for those who have pics surely the content is your personal choice. If I don't like someone's pics, I don't feel the need to rant about it when I'm sent them, I just move on. Do certain styles of pics prevent certain groups getting meets? I'd say probably not because we all have different visual tastes. Therefore unless a member has requested profile advise, do we really have the right to criticise their choice of pics just because they're not to our taste?

Do you reply to messages from people with no photos?"

Yes I do I'm not a hypocrite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I have run out of ideas for new ones' I can't even think of any new props to buy and try "

I haven't done many for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's a difference between choosing your own pics (and liking them) and sending them to someone else and thinking they will like them also.

so yeah you can complain about the shit being sent to your inbox while not actually giving a shit what the sender does with their own profile.

my opinion.

A very valid point. Although I am still more likely to ignore than complain. Their choices aren't hurting me, if they send them then it's also because I have my filters open so they can. Not everyone who messages will be compatible."

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