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NSA and Jealousy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When NSA turns into jealousy because feelings get involved. What do you do next?

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run OP But if you have the guts chat about how you feel together and sort it out .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Stalk them obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move onto your next victim

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Find them on all social media and follow it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk. . Maybe just maybe they feel the same? If not, you have the choice of either; risk getting very hurt by continuing or try and walk away. Not an easy situation though, you have my empathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send the photos of his tiny pecker to everyone you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send the photos of his tiny pecker to everyone you know "

Don't think they were talking about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find them on all social media and follow it all.

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Hahaha are you talking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Get a job where they work

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Find them on all social media and follow it all.

Hahaha are you talking from experience "

Yes, yes I am.

I'm watching someone right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a thread so everyone knows they're no good in the sack 'if I cant have them I'll make sure no one else wants them'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe give them feedback. May help them move on .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Send knickers to their house

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find them on all social media and follow it all.

Hahaha are you talking from experience

Yes, yes I am.

I'm watching someone right now."

I think most men would love being watched by you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Find them on all social media and follow it all.

Hahaha are you talking from experience

Yes, yes I am.

I'm watching someone right now.

I think most men would love being watched by you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness block and move on to avoid any more drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adults talk, it's the only way you will both be on the same page, you never know the feelings could be mutual....good luck.xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to how that person is feeling and talk it out

Kinky

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ok, don't listen to my advice.

Normal people would talk.

They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.

Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you jealous of them or they you?

Either way, be an adult about it and be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you have no feelings just say how it is... So they are not left living in hope .

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Move onto TVs, we don't catch feelings =P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pen a song about the heartbreak and be a pop star - seems to work for Adele! Hahaha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Talk"

Yup. Calmly, like an adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep verifying them to scare off the competition.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more"

See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more

See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this "

No not inevitable. Some I have deeper feelings for, some I do not - it depends on the person and the dynamic between you IME.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your response. You're quite right and it is a hard one but I'm not into breaking hearts and on the same hand already stated that I'm only here for nsa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck "

That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk"

Try to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you have a massive wobble and bin 'em.

Them's me moves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the response guys. I always try to talk it out as I think that's the best way to deal with it. I've had it before where my nsa friends with benefits start to fall for me and it gets complicated and I'm not into breaking hearts. Might be inevitable for friends with benefits to start feeling more

See you've been here before ,stop being so dam good to them in bed brother and it'll save you this "

Didn't wanna blow my own trumpet but I did have a couple partners say they fell in love with the D.lol. I can't start giving out sloppy D though. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck

That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "

Then don't do fuckbuddy arrangements. To me it's disingenuous to play at relationships and then act surprised when people get emotionally involved. Fuck and go.

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By *tanley KMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Stalk them obviously. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck

That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "

Then my only answer to this my man ...is don't keep em round so long ...nip it in the bud so to speak ....your a smart guy ,you know when the signs are there that their falling ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, don't listen to my advice.

Normal people would talk.

They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.

Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter "

Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok, don't listen to my advice.

Normal people would talk.

They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.

Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter

Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L. "

I'll intercept the postie tomorrow. I quite liked those knickers anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck

That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "

LOL, "I love myself" springs to mind. Do not make the woman feel so special then!!!!!! Met a few guys like you over the years.

You must of shown some signs for the ladies to fall for you, seems like a game for some men, get her to fall, and then back off........just fuck and go, and stop leading women on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The banter on these forums are too much at times... lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threaten to send dirty photo's of them to work and family unless they promise never to leave you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"When NSA turns into jealousy because feelings get involved. What do you do next?"

Our NSA turned into feelings but no jealousy here because if you feel it, you know that nothing they do with anyone else even comes close

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Talk it over or move on ...if the deal was no feelings and you both clearly talked about this at the start ...then talk now ......everything depends on how hurt you want to get or how much you want to hurt the other party ...either way good luck

That's exactly what was stated but you know what's it's like when the sea gets better and the conversation gets a bit deeper. It may sound shallow but I know I don't want to settle down with anyone as yet but over the years I've had f*ck buddies falling for me and it gets frustrating if I'm honest. "

You fell for this old trick. How to get rid of a young tuck buddy and make sure he doesn't stalk you .... tell him you have feelings for him. You wont see him for dust, problem solved ....

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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fuck them off. they'll give you a load of shit then ignore you while they try and fuck the rest of the site to make themselves feel better.

control freaks i reckon. try to control you but can't control themselves.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury


"fuck them off. they'll give you a load of shit then ignore you while they try and fuck the rest of the site to make themselves feel better.

control freaks i reckon. try to control you but can't control themselves."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, don't listen to my advice.

Normal people would talk.

They might want to sail of into the sunset with you.

Or you know, you could start cutting out letters from magazines and send a letter

Yeah. Can you stop doing all of that. You are making the dog nervous from rustling in the bushes. Oh and can you stop taking the milk off the door step. Mr L.

I'll intercept the postie tomorrow. I quite liked those knickers anyway "

Thanks for the knickers by the way. The fan belt had gone in the motor!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bang on with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When NSA turns into jealousy because feelings get involved. What do you do next?"

Scrabble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send the photos of his tiny pecker to everyone you know "

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"When NSA turns into jealousy because feelings get involved. What do you do next?"

Depends which way round I guess.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously you have a massive wobble and bin 'em.

Them's me moves. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You bunch of cold hard bastards!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't meet the nsa partner, potentially ever again. Find others and remain focused on why you are here. Apologise for any upset and srt things straight with them, if regulars.

Question if you're right for nsa presently too. Maybe take a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you initiate the split run for the hills and block them on everything, including eBay. If you've been dumped then declare your love by painting it in huge letters on a bedsheet, king-size works best, and hang it from a bridge overlooking the m6. Must be northbound though.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Send the photos of his tiny pecker to everyone you know "

https://youtu.be/XWMpnxMLZ_E

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