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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Don't you just hate it when someone replies to not getting what they want with a poor me comment. I've had it twice with the same person in two days. Last night I fell for it and started justifying myself but when I had that feeling in the pit of my stomach raising the red flag I then thought fuck off and ignored the other messages.

This morning the poor me comments started again over something else so I just said stop it. And what I hate more than poor me comments is when they turn it around and say i was just joking, if you took it seriously it says more about you. Twat.

What's your response to poor me syndrome or when someone turns it around when you call them on it?

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Don't you just hate it when someone replies to not getting what they want with a poor me comment. I've had it twice with the same person in two days. Last night I fell for it and started justifying myself but when I had that feeling in the pit of my stomach raising the red flag I then thought fuck off and ignored the other messages.

This morning the poor me comments started again over something else so I just said stop it. And what I hate more than poor me comments is when they turn it around and say i was just joking, if you took it seriously it says more about you. Twat.

What's your response to poor me syndrome or when someone turns it around when you call them on it?

"

Haha they clearly need to get a grip and give they're head a wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ignore them and think to myself 'what a prize twonk'

If I'm in a goodnight mood I may occasionally suggest they help themselves by not going for the sympath vote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never gets that far- I must be jaded/cynical!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I tend to ignore them and think to myself 'what a prize twonk'

If I'm in a goodnight mood I may occasionally suggest they help themselves by not going for the sympath vote. "

I did but that's when they turned it around

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By *ere2pleaseYouMan
over a year ago

witney

The more attention they get...the more poor they feel

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

are they on fab ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to ignore them and think to myself 'what a prize twonk'

If I'm in a goodnight mood I may occasionally suggest they help themselves by not going for the sympath vote.

I did but that's when they turned it around "

*A good mood* obviously. I blame my fat fingers

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"are they on fab ...?"

Is that relevant?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I tend to ignore them and think to myself 'what a prize twonk'

If I'm in a goodnight mood I may occasionally suggest they help themselves by not going for the sympath vote.

I did but that's when they turned it around

*A good mood* obviously. I blame my fat fingers "

I knew what you meant. And I blamed autocorrect - it seems to have a life of its own since my last iOS upgrade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them a gold medal and congratulate them for winning the pity Olympics

Offer them some cheese to go with their whine as well.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Give them a gold medal and congratulate them for winning the pity Olympics

Offer them some cheese to go with their whine as well."

Hahahaha love it!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just hate it when someone replies to not getting what they want with a poor me comment. I've had it twice with the same person in two days. Last night I fell for it and started justifying myself but when I had that feeling in the pit of my stomach raising the red flag I then thought fuck off and ignored the other messages.

This morning the poor me comments started again over something else so I just said stop it. And what I hate more than poor me comments is when they turn it around and say i was just joking, if you took it seriously it says more about you. Twat.

What's your response to poor me syndrome or when someone turns it around when you call them on it?

"

I block them

I'm all me

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!"

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke' "

I've heard that b4. I just say joking about it compounds the lack of attractiveness lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke' "

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?"

Or just get my staple gun out and say hey I've got a joke for you

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?

Or just get my staple gun out and say hey I've got a joke for you "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?

Or just get my staple gun out and say hey I've got a joke for you "

Only if you load it with the super sharp and pointy staples first though!!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?

Or just get my staple gun out and say hey I've got a joke for you

Only if you load it with the super sharp and pointy staples first though!!"

Yeah might even get my new piece of kit out. Can say what here though otherwise I'll be on the naughty step. Again

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I often say lack of confidence and reactions like that I find so unattractive and the only person that can change that is them!

Ah but it's me apparently I didn't get the 'joke'

Perhaps suggest they get some new material as you didn't find it funny?

Or just get my staple gun out and say hey I've got a joke for you

Only if you load it with the super sharp and pointy staples first though!!

Yeah might even get my new piece of kit out. Can say what here though otherwise I'll be on the naughty step. Again "

Can't have that now!!

Intrigued though!!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Reminds me to dig out and reread the book games people play

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