FabSwingers.com forum: Relationshiop

By *imioo7 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Has anyone or would anyone start a full on relationship with anyone on fab ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes if it was with the right person for the right reasons

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it felt right, yes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would and did.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty have. For some it's worked and for others it hasn't. I would consider it if my circumstances were different.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes. Ended in tears

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Mandy and I met on here and we're in a full on relationship..

Mike

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

If Thar wos a strong spark yes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No as I'm already in one - but for those that aren't I don't see why it wouldn't work any more than meeting someone anywhere else would.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't married, then yeah why not. At least there's already a common interest and no potential awkwardness/judgment from someone who doesn't swing, when previous sex live's get brought up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Yeah for sure then we could swing together

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone or would anyone start a full on relationship with anyone on fab ?"

Well not with anyone but yeah sure

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously and no doubt I may do so again, if the opportunity presented itself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have before. Was a disaster.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I wasn't married, then yeah why not. At least there's already a common interest and no potential awkwardness/judgment from someone who doesn't swing, when previous sex live's get brought up."

Apart from the married bit....this is spot on for me....I'm single btw

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah for sure then we could swing together

That's not love

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep met Jack on here

Miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Although we met on POF after a strong hint of swinging in a profile caught Mrs SKC eye!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks. "

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Yes.have done and getting married in 3 mths. K

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!"

Just my experience love!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks. "

All depends how you define love. We have a very loving relationship and we fuck other folks. Casual sex has nothing to do with love as far as we are concerned. Neither of us are monogamous types so being in a relationship with someone who expected monogamy would not work for us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And look at the posts above, all failures......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!! "

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

I admire what you got, believe me, but casual sex can turn into passion, lust and love, be careful out there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

I admire what you got, believe me, but casual sex can turn into passion, lust and love, be careful out there

If your partner prefers to be with someone else there are obviously issues in your relationship. If they prefer to be with you then even the hottest fuck will not persuade them otherwise

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

G and i met via another swinging site. Neither of us were looking for a relationship but we both fell in love. We have been together approx 10 years now, married for several years.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Would be happy to, but only if we left fab.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone. "

I know, and I'm sorry if I sound judgemental, I was swinging hard for approximately 2 and half years, and enjoyed every minute, but since I've met a guy in the real world, I've become like an ex smoker, you get my drift? No offence intended, just an interesting debate x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Haven't a clue about anything anymore I alway's thought I would love to find someone on here to have a relationship with,but I'm not so sure now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Yes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Yes. Ended in tears "

Sorry to hear that x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Haven't a clue about anything anymore I alway's thought I would love to find someone on here to have a relationship with,but I'm not so sure now."

xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt it. Too many players.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but it would have to be under an enormous amount of trust

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Doubt it. Too many players."

Aren't we all players on here?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

I've fell in love with a guy from the real world, nearly a year been together, my God, I had some wild times at parties and clubs.....fantastic times and great memories. But I'm just saying I can't imagine sharing him, or me getting some extra cock, please don't take me too serious, I've been on night shifts so very tired, I'm just generally interested in couples that are madly in love, wanting to share their partner.

Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Yeah for sure then we could swing together

That's not love "

Don't think that was the question

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand

We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doubt it. Too many players.

Aren't we all players on here? "

Not that kind of player.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my husband on another swinging site, for a several years we gave it up to help grow our own relationship and have children.

Now I play on my own as my sex drive is very high and his is extremely low.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand

We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that? "

Why don't you satisfy his every need then?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand

We aren't possessive. If your partner gets pleasure from sex with others why would you deny them that?

Why don't you satisfy his every need then?"

Because it's impossible for one person to satisfy someones every need. I like playing football. I do that with male friends. I wouldn't expect Katie to get involved in that.

Different people like different types of relationships. We don't believe in thinking that love entails complete possession.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i almost did, but then i found out he had a girlfriend already and decided he wasn't relationship material.

he was the only guy who asked though that i actually wanted to have a relationship with. mostly i feel like guys ask so they can get more sex from couples. and they're not for me either.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Nah, seen too many failed ones, sad really, but jealousy always takes over, if you love someone, then you would not be interested in fucking other folks.

Better tell that to all the other couples on here!

Apparently you can't love someone and fuck others!

Just my experience love!!!

Exactly. You personally can't be in love with someone and fuck others. That does not mean the same applied to everyone.

That's fine but you can't assume everyone is like you. I know I couldn't be a relationship with a woman who didn't want sex with other men. I would get bored

Please explain the pleasure from that? I don't understand

In our case we both derive pleasure from the other getting pleasure. Both together and separately. I cannot provide everything for him anymore than he can for me- but we discuss it and find it with others. It's about giving and communicating x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my gf and i met on here, why wouldn't you if you mesh? it's the person behind the profile your meeting...your not dating fab, fab is just the vehicle through which two people meet, no different to meeting in a club or cafe or dating website or wherever else humans interact

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in the vanilla world, relationships that start in the bedroom rarely (rarely not never) become solid. But, here, you have a mutual passion for swinging. It's a shared interest so I think more likely to work here than in the normal world.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Of course.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone or would anyone start a full on relationship with anyone on fab ?"

Yes, and if I was single, yes of course.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone or would anyone start a full on relationship with anyone on fab ?"
Loads have and are happy .. I think you can find love all places you find people .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread