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By *ingah90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth

This may become a rant, I apologise...

My housemate and I (she isn't on here) are both quite promiscuous however I always think about her before I have someone round as our bedrooms are only separated by a thin wall. She currently has someone over and I asked if she was going to fuck him so I could go grab my headphones but she said he was going home...

Low and behold, they're like a pair of horny teens going at like rabbits.

Basically, what does everyone else think, when you have a housemate, do you prewarn or just go for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's rude not to join in...

I mean....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may become a rant, I apologise...

My housemate and I (she isn't on here) are both quite promiscuous however I always think about her before I have someone round as our bedrooms are only separated by a thin wall. She currently has someone over and I asked if she was going to fuck him so I could go grab my headphones but she said he was going home...

Low and behold, they're like a pair of horny teens going at like rabbits.

Basically, what does everyone else think, when you have a housemate, do you prewarn or just go for it?"

Where are your headphones? In her room? Go get them!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's been 24 years since I had a housemate but I seem to remember we just went for it. Sometimes it was annoying... usually when I was equally active.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I don't have any headphones but if I put my jack plug in your socket you might not notice her making noise quite as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub one out imagining it's you...

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We don't have a housemate but we have had a lodger in the past.

A tiny bit of consideration is all that's required there's not really an excuse for a lack of something that's free and not hard to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any headphones but if I put my jack plug in your socket you might not notice her making noise quite as much "

Nice bum x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A little consideration wouldn't go amiss.

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By *ingah90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"It's been 24 years since I had a housemate but I seem to remember we just went for it. Sometimes it was annoying... usually when I was equally active. "

I think it's because I'd already asked if he was staying and she said no and now he clearly is.. have sex, have fun, just let me grab my headphones before it starts, because he sounds like he's awful at what he's doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she didnt intend to shag him but just got caught up in the moment?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"It's been 24 years since I had a housemate but I seem to remember we just went for it. Sometimes it was annoying... usually when I was equally active.

I think it's because I'd already asked if he was staying and she said no and now he clearly is.. have sex, have fun, just let me grab my headphones before it starts, because he sounds like he's awful at what he's doing!"

Go get your headphones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Without needing to give notifications to others, I think housemates should respect each other and not be disruptive or disturb rest and sleep. It's a common courtesy to ne low key and always to respect others in their home

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By *ingah90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?"

Haha my headphones are in. I just tend to give a little heads up if I ever have sex and she's home. I just wondered what other people did and if I was just being too up myself about it... I obviously am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk in nude! say pardon me get something an walk out, priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?

Haha my headphones are in. I just tend to give a little heads up if I ever have sex and she's home. I just wondered what other people did and if I was just being too up myself about it... I obviously am."

I can't recall anyone ever making an announcement that they were about to have sex now in any of the shared living arrangements I had

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By *ingah90 OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?

Haha my headphones are in. I just tend to give a little heads up if I ever have sex and she's home. I just wondered what other people did and if I was just being too up myself about it... I obviously am.

I can't recall anyone ever making an announcement that they were about to have sex now in any of the shared living arrangements I had "

Wasn't asking for announcement, merely a "hey he's staying" I always say something if I have company.. maybe I just overshare?

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre


"Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?

Haha my headphones are in. I just tend to give a little heads up if I ever have sex and she's home. I just wondered what other people did and if I was just being too up myself about it... I obviously am.

I can't recall anyone ever making an announcement that they were about to have sex now in any of the shared living arrangements I had

Wasn't asking for announcement, merely a "hey he's staying" I always say something if I have company.. maybe I just overshare?"

If she's that promiscuous just assume that he would stay and always keep your headphones handy...take the initiative instead of waiting for her to let you know

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"This may become a rant, I apologise...

My housemate and I (she isn't on here) are both quite promiscuous however I always think about her before I have someone round as our bedrooms are only separated by a thin wall. She currently has someone over and I asked if she was going to fuck him so I could go grab my headphones but she said he was going home...

Low and behold, they're like a pair of horny teens going at like rabbits.

Basically, what does everyone else think, when you have a housemate, do you prewarn or just go for it?"

Beauty. Any chance you can prewarn her that I'm coming round? Be there in about 5 hours

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex


"This may become a rant, I apologise...

My housemate and I (she isn't on here) are both quite promiscuous however I always think about her before I have someone round as our bedrooms are only separated by a thin wall. She currently has someone over and I asked if she was going to fuck him so I could go grab my headphones but she said he was going home...

Low and behold, they're like a pair of horny teens going at like rabbits.

Basically, what does everyone else think, when you have a housemate, do you prewarn or just go for it?"

Invite 2 guys around The guy she is snagging will think mmmf & she will be looking for your headphones .

I thought you said you were promiscuous !!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I don't have any headphones but if I put my jack plug in your socket you might not notice her making noise quite as much

Nice bum x"

Takes one to know one x

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By *8Roost88Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'll be honest I never have with my flat mate given warning, now I feel guilty that maybe I should have. Generally past GFs would be quieter when round, but my last ex was so over-conscious she refused to do it when he was in.

But personally I'd say in my situation I assumed he would assume noise might happen

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick


"Jeez, how long does it take to pick up your headphones and put them on?

Haha my headphones are in. I just tend to give a little heads up if I ever have sex and she's home. I just wondered what other people did and if I was just being too up myself about it... I obviously am.

I can't recall anyone ever making an announcement that they were about to have sex now in any of the shared living arrangements I had

Wasn't asking for announcement, merely a "hey he's staying" I always say something if I have company.. maybe I just overshare?"

No I don't think your oversharing at all.....like already stated, a little consideration goes a long way. Unfortunately these days, if you believe that everyone will do for you, what you do for them....you end up often disappointed.

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