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when you meet for a social for the first time how do you greet each other

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

I hug the lady and male

Hubby hugs the lady and shakes the blokes hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High five, obvs

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Awkwardly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awkwardly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand awkwardly and say 'alright' whilst trying not to nervously fidget. I wish I was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say hello from a few metres away. I don't like physical contact with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It depends how much and what kind of chat there has been beforehand - usually a kiss on the cheek with a half hug, sometimes a full-on bear hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a running jump at them. If they catch me we meet again. If they drop me we don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumb War

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take a running jump at them. If they catch me we meet again. If they drop me we don't "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shake hands with fella first and then kiss the lady and pay a big compliment....all while being ridiculously nervous..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing. "

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knucks like Hero and Baymax

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Immediately fist the lady at the bar. Use lube of course. Then shake the blokes hand.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm. It varies.

An awkward sort of hug with a lingering touch or a squeal of excitement whilst telling them how much I fan girl over them. Or a hello with this bloody irritating nervous laugh that bubbles out of me. That's going by recent events anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm. It varies.

An awkward sort of hug with a lingering touch or a squeal of excitement whilst telling them how much I fan girl over them. Or a hello with this bloody irritating nervous laugh that bubbles out of me. That's going by recent events anyway."

Wasn't irritating at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Immediately fist the lady at the bar. Use lube of course. Then shake the blokes hand. "

With the same hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knucks like Hero and Baymax "

*bah la lala la

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing. "

That really made me chuckle!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Knucks like Hero and Baymax

*bah la lala la"

We've recently swapped that out for shark attacks, ala Trolls.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I usually great with a hug and offer to make/buy them a drink.

Getting the drink allows me to breathe normally again.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Erm. It varies.

An awkward sort of hug with a lingering touch or a squeal of excitement whilst telling them how much I fan girl over them. Or a hello with this bloody irritating nervous laugh that bubbles out of me. That's going by recent events anyway.

Wasn't irritating at all"

That's sweet! But not quite true. Next time I'll be all cool and with an air kiss and a nonchalant greeting.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A big smile (of relief that they've turned up!), if we've been chatting a while and/or I like the look of them a peck on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a big smile on my face.

Like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knucks like Hero and Baymax

*bah la lala la

We've recently swapped that out for shark attacks, ala Trolls."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm. It varies.

An awkward sort of hug with a lingering touch or a squeal of excitement whilst telling them how much I fan girl over them. Or a hello with this bloody irritating nervous laugh that bubbles out of me. That's going by recent events anyway.

Wasn't irritating at all

That's sweet! But not quite true. Next time I'll be all cool and with an air kiss and a nonchalant greeting. "

Subtle head nod and a 'S'up'

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We hug. We are touchy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fist pump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a smile and a kiss for both from me, and a kiss and hand shake off mr. Then comes the awkward silence lol

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I'm a natural huggy person I like hugs! Genuinely bubbly non loud individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start with hello.

Am amazed so many people just go straight in for a hug without saying hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally a kiss on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually an air kiss whilst receiving gifts.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to spill something or stumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shake boobies. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to spill something or stumble. "

Yes....I'm pretty much like that too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to spill something or stumble.

Yes....I'm pretty much like that too.... "

We should meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing.

Liar "

Sorry that's how I say good bye.

"I've...had the time of my life...". It's very dramatic.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

We normally run towards each other in slow-mo, arms outstretched, the sun overhead, an orchestra playing in the background a là Wuthering Heights stylee.

Doesn't everybody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to spill something or stumble.

Yes....I'm pretty much like that too....

We should meet! "

Well should

I'll spill the drink you can stumble ....after 3...

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By *ab and MilfyCouple
over a year ago

Farnborough

Fist bumps and a spank on the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to spill something or stumble.

Yes....I'm pretty much like that too....

We should meet!

Well should

I'll spill the drink you can stumble ....after 3... "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only attending one social so based on that, sit awkwardly staring at my latté until Mrsb came over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big cheeky grin followed by a big hug.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Normally a big old grin since they've actually turned up. Then I blush furiously, mumble something inane and gesticulate so wildly I probably end up knocking something over. Or go to kiss them on the cheek and miss or get my leg caught trying to stand up to do so. Basically anything embarrassing. It's why I don't tend to do socials as a precursor to a play meet. That behaviour's bad enough when you're already pretty sure from chatting that you want to fuck each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hug the lady and male

Hubby hugs the lady and shakes the blokes hand "

With my cock hanging out of course ! While dressed as one of the village people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hug and a kiss on the cheek

If it's a couple, hug and kiss for the lady hand shake for the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually an awkward kiss on the cheek while pretending to be cool and not nervous x

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Normally a big old grin since they've actually turned up. Then I blush furiously, mumble something inane and gesticulate so wildly I probably end up knocking something over. Or go to kiss them on the cheek and miss or get my leg caught trying to stand up to do so. Basically anything embarrassing. It's why I don't tend to do socials as a precursor to a play meet. That behaviour's bad enough when you're already pretty sure from chatting that you want to fuck each other."

I don't remember any stumbling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile, kiss on each cheek and a chirpy 'hiya!'. I never feel awkward as we've usually chatted loads beforehand

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Kiss on the cheek or I do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a kiss and a hug regardless of whether its a man or a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say I offer a confident smile and either a hearty handshake or a duvet like hug, but other's perceptions may suggest otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my campest voice wave erratically at them shouting HIYA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a kiss and a hug regardless of whether its a man or a woman "

What if they repulsed you though when you saw them in real life ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a kiss and a hug regardless of whether its a man or a woman "

I your hugs. Your tall n I'm short. What's not to love when I get a face full of boobies

PTU xxx

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

A friendly hello and a kiss on each cheek, much as I'd greet anyone new socially.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Mandy has to hold me back as I tend to slobber over them like a friendly dog...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I always conduct my socials with the lucky lady in question impaled on my penis. I get around the small talk by sucking a breast. Sometimes two.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I club them both, then drag the woman off by her hair, caveman style, to my man-cave!

It all depends on the others, I usually see who makes the first greetings move and take it from there.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I always conduct my socials with the lucky lady in question impaled on my penis. I get around the small talk by sucking a breast. Sometimes two. "

How big is your mouth?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a kiss and a hug regardless of whether its a man or a woman

I your hugs. Your tall n I'm short. What's not to love when I get a face full of boobies

PTU xxx"

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By *urreyguy34Man
over a year ago

Weybridge

Rock Paper Scissors

Then hit the dab

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I always conduct my socials with the lucky lady in question impaled on my penis. I get around the small talk by sucking a breast. Sometimes two.

How big is your mouth?! "

Big enough..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"A big smile (of relief that they've turned up!), if we've been chatting a while and/or I like the look of them a peck on the cheek "

^^ This is how I meet and greet also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big smile... 'hi!'

On a one to one meet, that's a ten second nervous pause, then a hug to break the tension, then - from me - 'ohmigoshyou'reactuallyherehya!'

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Knucks like Hero and Baymax "

Is it wrong I want to try that!

Kudos for the reference to BH6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss on the cheek or run away. Depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm. It varies.

An awkward sort of hug with a lingering touch or a squeal of excitement whilst telling them how much I fan girl over them. Or a hello with this bloody irritating nervous laugh that bubbles out of me. That's going by recent events anyway."

Your squeal is delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gauge their body language and either go for a peck on each cheek or straight in for a full on snog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hello. , a friendly compliment and an offer of a drink ...... How else lol x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I so want to meet you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go in for a kiss. Hard to be awkward when your tongues are doing tonsil tennis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big smile... 'hi!'

On a one to one meet, that's a ten second nervous pause, then a hug to break the tension, then - from me - 'ohmigoshyou'reactuallyherehya!'"

I'd definitely turn up

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing. "

If only that were true the ladies would be queuing up lol

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I hug the lady and male

Hubby hugs the lady and shakes the blokes hand "

We will check what we do later on tonight,when we meet new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing.

Liar

Sorry that's how I say good bye.

"I've...had the time of my life...". It's very dramatic. "

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I gauge their body language and either go for a peck on each cheek or straight in for a full on snog. "

Where was my snog?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her : kiss for both

Him : Awkward, do I kiss, don't I, I don't know her well enough.. Ummm. Handshake for the man (if there is one)

Him

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By *avid0894Man
over a year ago

Paisley

I wear a big badge with my username and say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on person, location and circumstances but my standard would be a kiss on the cheek and a grin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I extend a friendly arm around her waist and offer a kiss on both cheeks.

This is standard, right?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

The polite kiss on the cheek for femme, handshake for blokes.

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

A dab, & sup?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand there looking like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hug and a kiss on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stand awkwardly and say 'alright' whilst trying not to nervously fidget. I wish I was joking "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pick them up like the lift in Dirty Dancing.

If only that were true the ladies would be queuing up lol "

I seem to get that response with a lot of things I've answered on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

"

Bloody hell. This should be the standard on Fab.

With variations added.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hug the lady and male

Hubby hugs the lady and shakes the blokes hand "

same

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

Normally I pull up along side in a non descript transit slide the side door open and in one swift ninja like motion pull from behind and apply the chloroform soaked rag. I find that this method avoids the awkward do I shake do I kiss moment and is a great conversation starter when she comes around naked!

Who said romance was dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

Bloody hell. This should be the standard on Fab.

With variations added.

"

I use the snog to judge what variations to add in. . Can tell alot by a snog you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

Bloody hell. This should be the standard on Fab.

With variations added.

I use the snog to judge what variations to add in. . Can tell alot by a snog you see "

What if a guy leads with his tongue?

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Morning everyone

I love everyone answered xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

"

It most be a Norwich thing because I'm the same. If you like you got to go in for it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

Bloody hell. This should be the standard on Fab.

With variations added.

I use the snog to judge what variations to add in. . Can tell alot by a snog you see

What if a guy leads with his tongue? "

I'm still waiting for you to leave your mark on me so a tongue seems a bit tame

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i meet them where they like to be met, picking up on stuff, you know whether they dont mind a hug and a peck on the cheek or not...if they have ever minded how i meet them, they've never run away immediately..quite honestly im just myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

It most be a Norwich thing because I'm the same. If you like you got to go in for it. X "

Us Norwich ladies are very friendly like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long lingering snog while pressing my boobs into them

It most be a Norwich thing because I'm the same. If you like you got to go in for it.

Us Norwich ladies are very friendly like that "

Yes we are and always got smile on face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the knuckle touch should be much more socially accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the men sword fight with their cocks . Who ever wins gets first dibs

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i meet them where they like to be met, picking up on stuff, you know whether they dont mind a hug and a peck on the cheek or not...if they have ever minded how i meet them, they've never run away immediately..quite honestly im just myself x"

or jump in the jacuzzi for a big snuggle

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i meet them where they like to be met, picking up on stuff, you know whether they dont mind a hug and a peck on the cheek or not...if they have ever minded how i meet them, they've never run away immediately..quite honestly im just myself x

or jump in the jacuzzi for a big snuggle "
yeah well, whatever happens naturally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a nice big smile and a hello with a flirty nervous half laughter/excited tone in my voice. They have always come back for second meet so it must work somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a nice big smile and a hello with a flirty nervous half laughter/excited tone in my voice. They have always come back for second meet so it must work somehow."

Now that's a nervous laugh I'd like to hear one day..

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Pick them up in my car, give them a nervous hi and then drive them around the city like a loon before taking them to a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hug and kiss on the cheek usually.

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