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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So...when deciding to meet other new people do you tend to listen to the opinion of others ( sometimes a good thing, something's a bad thing) or if your interest is piqued by them do you give the person / people the benefit of the doubt and make your own mind up?

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your own mind up. You never know if others have ulterior motives, so go with your own gut instinct.

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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Make your own mind up. You never know if others have ulterior motives, so go with your own gut instinct. "

Seconded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Benefit of the doubt. I might get on brilliantly with someone who didn't get on with someone else.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I go with my own mind.

(Look at how how short and not rambly that post is).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make up my own mind.

Yes it might steer me wrong, but at least is was my own choice. I then don't get to blame anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always trust my own gut instincts. People don't always get on, that doesn't mean I won't like them.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We decide as a couple.

I go on my gut feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go with my own mind.

(Look at how how short and not rambly that post is)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're on a website, where,

open mindedness, is the required norm.

Use your own intelligence, and make your own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will take into consideration what others have to say but still choose to meet and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you're on a website, where,

open mindedness, is the required norm.

Use your own intelligence, and make your own mind up. "

Thanks for the feedback. We weren't asking because we need to make that decision ourselves, we already have our own opinion on that. Just a general post added for discussion, which I'm assuming is ok for any of us onsite members to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found certain people have ulterior motives when it comes to giving their opinion of others. I'll always make my own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...when deciding to meet other new people do you tend to listen to the opinion of others ( sometimes a good thing, something's a bad thing) or if your interest is piqued by them do you give the person / people the benefit of the doubt and make your own mind up?

Kinky "

Depended on who was giving me tne heads up on that person and to how negative the feedback was i suppose ?

But as a rule of thumb I like to make my own mind up about someone but will take sound advice about that persons character on board.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft and Middx


"Benefit of the doubt. I might get on brilliantly with someone who didn't get on with someone else."

I think you'd have to be very good friends with someone here to trust their opinion - and even then they could be wrong!

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

I would say make your own mind up but would probably go for a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your own mind up by not meeting straight away get to know them a little first

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I will take into consideration what others have to say but still choose to meet and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really read what other people tend to say about someone. I take people at face value, after all they are a human being...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really read what other people tend to say about someone. I take people at face value, after all they are a human being..."

after all they are a human being...

You sure about that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really read what other people tend to say about someone. I take people at face value, after all they are a human being...

after all they are a human being...

You sure about that ? "

They could be aliens in disguise I suppose XXX

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