FabSwingers.com forum: Love Honour & Obey ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you or have you chosen to say those words at your wedding?

If so why?

If not why not?

Just had a friend whos getting married discuss this topic with me.

Whats your thoughts on those vows in this day and age?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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no.

a marriage contract is a legally binding contract and my vows would reflect that.

love doesn't need laws, neither does honour, and obeying is just fucking stupid in this day and age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something we'd use in our vows but if people want to say those vows that's their choice.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've never been married and never likely to be but those wouldn't be the vows I would make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not something I'd say, when I got married we changed obey to cherish.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We got married in a registry office so didn't have to make this choice.

I would choose to love and honor. I don't think any adult should be obliged to obey another and sign a contract to that effect.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Can't see the point in marriage personally lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never been married and never likely to be but those wouldn't be the vows I would make.

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cherish here.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Cherish here. "

Awwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant remember but i do know obey was removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tattooed on hi left wrist lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Would you or have you chosen to say those words at your wedding?

If so why?

If not why not?

Just had a friend whos getting married discuss this topic with me.

Whats your thoughts on those vows in this day and age?

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D/s relationship..yep cool..otherwise no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been married, I think it's unlikely I'll marry. If I do get married I'd like to do so at a registry office.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We get married in june and as much as del would like I am not having obey in the vows.im not a traditionalist and the days of obeying your husband are long gone. Only one time I will obey del......

..............when im tied to the bed and he makes me deepthroat him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't been married, I think it's unlikely I'll marry. If I do get married I'd like to do so at a registry office."

I got married by a registrar those are part of the vows you can use its not just religious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never say obey. I am my own person with my own mind and opinions. Im not here to obey anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never say obey. I am my own person with my own mind and opinions. Im not here to obey anyone. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would never say obey. I am my own person with my own mind and opinions. Im not here to obey anyone. "

Stop complaining and finish ironing my shirts !

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"no.

a marriage contract is a legally binding contract and my vows would reflect that.

love doesn't need laws, neither does honour, and obeying is just fucking stupid in this day and age."

Hallelujah

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Can't remember if it was said when I got married or not. However the vows were least of my problems.. if there is ever a next time I'll marry someone I love and I'd hope we could write our own vows that are meaningful and as individual as we are.

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