FabSwingers.com forum: Is it me

By *lwaysdiscreet OP Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Is it me or i send out some really nice messages to people and they read but never reply.

Or you chat to them for a day or two then they just go cold on you.

Seems like the more manners you show i less you get from this site.

Be rude and straight to the point and you get it handed to you on a plate.

Plus i am tall at 6ft 4ins and thats going against me in a big way.

No ladies seem to like tall guys which seem very strange to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So be rude and straight to the point, if you think that'll get you more here. And good luck with it.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"So be rude and straight to the point, if you think that'll get you more here. And good luck with it. "

Hello lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite if you're rude and to the point block haha

Love a tall man but you are in Kent that's far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So be rude and straight to the point, if you think that'll get you more here. And good luck with it. "

Exactly! Can you explain how it's handed to you on a plate if you are rude OP? Generally I've found it's not like that at all, so please how have you come to that conclusion?

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Might it be that 2 of your 4 profile pictures are close up cock pics have anything to do with being rejected?...

Just a thought. ...

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

I've heard the ladies swoon over tall guys, so you should be ok on that front..

I try and be nice when I decide to message, and generally get nice one's back, if I don't get a reply I just accept I'm not there type or they don't want to chat, never a problem..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

It is you, Your looks your height your messages etc, The people you're messaging or not receiving messages from know what they are looking for,

Just look at this way, How many profiles have you looked at and thought no I won't send a messages because they are not what am looking for,

It works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore rude messages. It could just be how you come across to others.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

"Is it me or i send out some really nice messages to people and they read but never reply.

Or you chat to them for a day or two then they just go cold on you.

Seems like the more manners you show i less you get from this site.

Be rude and straight to the point and you get it handed to you on a plate.

Plus i am tall at 6ft 4ins and thats going against me in a big way.

No ladies seem to like tall guys which seem very strange to me "

I always reply to nice messages even if it's a no. A rude in your face one gets an immediate delete. Nothing wrong with your height - in fact it's a refreshing change to see a guy taller than me. I'm 6ft

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

You've had at least one reply recently. You were verified on Friday and according to that she's looking forward to meeting you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or i send out some really nice messages to people and they read but never reply.

Or you chat to them for a day or two then they just go cold on you.

Seems like the more manners you show i less you get from this site.

Be rude and straight to the point and you get it handed to you on a plate.

Plus i am tall at 6ft 4ins and thats going against me in a big way.

No ladies seem to like tall guys which seem very strange to me "

They probably get bored. I know if the conversation doesnt flow easily, then I would get bored and give up too.

Lack of reply's might be down to not very good pictures!!! Use your imagination!!

Being rude won't help, believe me, guys that are rude don't do better here, they just act like they do.

Nothing wrong with 6ft4", just got to find the right people.

Good luck

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So be rude and straight to the point, if you think that'll get you more here. And good luck with it. "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

jack is 6ft 3 and I like him being tall

Many will look at a profile before deciding wether to reply to you op ,so if its happening reguarly maybe it needs updating.

Miss

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