FabSwingers.com forum: Goodbye!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smell you kints later, am aff ski.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

No I'd just make sure any friends could still contact me elsewhere. Then I'd just get my arse off of here . Don't see point of a thread as only friends who give a shit if I'm on here or not,no one else lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I deleted because I didn't want contact with anyone as I was cutting out this side of my life and it seemed pointless to keep in touch...so I didn't tell anyone. I don't do fanfares and drama. That's not my style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why say anything if you're not planning to stick around and read it. If you ARE planning to stick around, then you're an attention who're who needs validation.

Just go if you're going.

That being said, a good public meltdown and flounce out is always amusing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No, I wouldn't embarrass myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude"

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"No, I wouldn't embarrass myself

Plus nobody would notice anyway

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab."

My head hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why say anything if you're not planning to stick around and read it. If you ARE planning to stick around, then you're an attention who're who needs validation.

Just go if you're going.

That being said, a good public meltdown and flounce out is always amusing. "

I was going to do a flouncy meltdown thread. I wasn't really mad though, I just thought it would be funny cos I like those type of threads too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. I just go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

My head hurts"

Do you consider that confusing?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'd just make sure any friends could still contact me elsewhere. Then I'd just get my arse off of here . Don't see point of a thread as only friends who give a shit if I'm on here or not,no one else lol . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why say anything if you're not planning to stick around and read it. If you ARE planning to stick around, then you're an attention who're who needs validation.

Just go if you're going.

That being said, a good public meltdown and flounce out is always amusing.

I was going to do a flouncy meltdown thread. I wasn't really mad though, I just thought it would be funny cos I like those type of threads too.

Well i will be doing one,fell free to come on and say goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

My head hurts"

We're you pissed last night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

My head hurts

Do you consider that confusing?.."

Not confusing,i just cant be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

My head hurts

We're you pissed last night?

Yes

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

It's like those that hide their profile for whatever reason Then open it again, come to the forum and announce they're back and did anyone miss them. That's attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im leaving soon and im going to say goodbye,iv made some friends on here and to just go unlos without saying goodbye is just plain fucking rude

It's not rude if you already chat outside of fab.

My head hurts

We're you pissed last night?

Yes

Ok...also when you go I promise not to call you that bloke called unlos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why say anything if you're not planning to stick around and read it. If you ARE planning to stick around, then you're an attention who're who needs validation.

Just go if you're going.

That being said, a good public meltdown and flounce out is always amusing.

I was going to do a flouncy meltdown thread. I wasn't really mad though, I just thought it would be funny cos I like those type of threads too.

Well i will be doing one,fell free to come on and say goodbye"

Will it be a flouncy one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its pointless..I've done one before and apparently it didn't go down too well anyway. Better to just sneak off when no ones looking I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its pointless..I've done one before and apparently it didn't go down too well anyway. Better to just sneak off when no ones looking I think

You dont have to look or comment in an unlos thread just avoid it,its not rocket science

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Nope. If you want someone to know youre leaving then they'd be worth the effort of messaging directly or you'd be talking to them off site already and it wont matter.

"Im leaving" threads are all about vanity. Fab will go on like it always has and no ones really gonna notice that you left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why say anything if you're not planning to stick around and read it. If you ARE planning to stick around, then you're an attention who're who needs validation.

Just go if you're going.

That being said, a good public meltdown and flounce out is always amusing.

I was going to do a flouncy meltdown thread. I wasn't really mad though, I just thought it would be funny cos I like those type of threads too.

Well i will be doing one,fell free to come on and say goodbye

Will it be a flouncy one?

I will just say goodbye and message a few friends/hotlist and then leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me. "

Correct,like iv just said if you dont like"im leaving"threads dont fucking look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me.

Correct,like iv just said if you dont like"im leaving"threads dont fucking look at them"

Oooh....calm down dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like those that hide their profile for whatever reason Then open it again, come to the forum and announce they're back and did anyone miss them. That's attention seeking

I did one of them did I get missed once....but it wasn't because I had hidden my profile.....it was for a reason I can't comment on on here.

But every one on here is attention seeking in one way or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me.

Correct,like iv just said if you dont like"im leaving"threads dont fucking look at them"

You know some people can't, they have to put their little dig in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like those that hide their profile for whatever reason Then open it again, come to the forum and announce they're back and did anyone miss them. That's attention seeking

I did one of them did I get missed once....but it wasn't because I had hidden my profile.....it was for a reason I can't comment on on here.

But every one on here is attention seeking in one way or another

If I came back I'd do a was I missed for a laugh, nothing else. I don't bother though; I carry on as if I wasn't gone. I'm like a ghost in a windy forest on here, most of the time, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me.

Correct,like iv just said if you dont like"im leaving"threads dont fucking look at them

You know some people can't, they have to put their little dig in. "

OP isn't leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it will depend on my reasons for leaving. If I decide all this just isn't me anymore then I would do a quick goodbye thread and go.

If I was pissed off by something / someone who made being on here a nightmare then I'd rather delete than flounce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say goodbye on leaving threads. It's no big deal for me.

Correct,like iv just said if you dont like"im leaving"threads dont fucking look at them

You know some people can't, they have to put their little dig in.

OP isn't leaving."

I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it will depend on my reasons for leaving. If I decide all this just isn't me anymore then I would do a quick goodbye thread and go.

If I was pissed off by something / someone who made being on here a nightmare then I'd rather delete than flounce."

I hope you would say goodbye if you were leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i doubt anyone would give a f**k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like those that hide their profile for whatever reason Then open it again, come to the forum and announce they're back and did anyone miss them. That's attention seeking

I did one of them did I get missed once....but it wasn't because I had hidden my profile.....it was for a reason I can't comment on on here.

But every one on here is attention seeking in one way or another

If I came back I'd do a was I missed for a laugh, nothing else. I don't bother though; I carry on as if I wasn't gone. I'm like a ghost in a windy forest on here, most of the time, anyway

I agree with that post.....since joining I have never left fab....just left the forums when I get pissed off with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, cos no one would, and we wouldn't expect anyone to, care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I deleted because I didn't want contact with anyone as I was cutting out this side of my life and it seemed pointless to keep in touch...so I didn't tell anyone. I don't do fanfares and drama. That's not my style. "

But you came back.....? Most people do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote Shakespeare...

"PEACE OUT BITCHES"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote Shakespeare...

"PEACE OUT BITCHES""

Not a war just conflicting viewpoints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote Shakespeare...

"PEACE OUT BITCHES"

Not a war just conflicting viewpoints

Noooo... that'd be how I'd leave

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Id message some friends privately .... but I wouldnt announce it on the forums .... sounds a bit needy ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote Shakespeare...

"PEACE OUT BITCHES"

Not a war just conflicting viewpoints

Noooo... that'd be how I'd leave

Oh okeydoky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't.

I'd leave my D.o.b in a morning thread or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you came back.....? Most people do!"

Yes....and? I didn't announce that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its pointless..I've done one before and apparently it didn't go down too well anyway. Better to just sneak off when no ones looking I think

You dont have to look or comment in an unlos thread just avoid it,its not rocket science"

Unfortunately not everyone seems to realise this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably wouldn't do one. It would be soul destroying coming back to see 174 posts saying either "who?" Or "thank god"

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

"It's like those that hide their profile for whatever reason Then open it again, come to the forum and announce they're back and did anyone miss them. That's attention seeking

I did one of them did I get missed once....but it wasn't because I had hidden my profile.....it was for a reason I can't comment on on here.

But every one on here is attention seeking in one way or another

If I came back I'd do a was I missed for a laugh, nothing else. I don't bother though; I carry on as if I wasn't gone. I'm like a ghost in a windy forest on here, most of the time, anyway

I agree with that post.....since joining I have never left fab....just left the forums when I get pissed off with them

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them"

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I go, its usually a spur of the moment thing...

the thought pops into my head and the next thing I know I'm back to reality..

I don't see the point of leaving threads as those who do leave would surely know who they wish to keep in contact with and may even be in contact on other media anyway...

plus they always return...I did, and more than once too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance I'd do one, not giving the haters that sort of golden opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Two people who left messaged us to say they were going. I really appreciated that and am glad to say one of them has returned

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've never understood why people leave and not hide for a while, I've done that a few times now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

I would be devastated if you left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I would 100% miss your posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

I would be devastated if you left

you said that with a straight face, you'd make a good poker player

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I like your posts and you are on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

I would be devastated if you left

you said that with a straight face, you'd make a good poker player

Tbh i do like your banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

Nah because no one cares really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

Nah because no one cares really

There was a guy on here recently that looks just like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

Nah because no one cares really

There was a guy on here recently that looks just like you

He meet him in the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

I would be devastated if you left

you said that with a straight face, you'd make a good poker player

Tbh i do like your banter

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shuddup before i go all mushy ya bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do one, because I don't believe anyone would care if I left. Not complaining, just saying how it is (I don't particularly care when others leave either).

When I leave, I'll disappear like a ninja. That's how I left my previous adult dating site, after 10 years I decided it was over, deleted my profile and never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever done a 'good bye' post. Can't really remember now. I have deleted my profile a couple times lately when I just needed a little break or a little breather from it all. Never really been good at attention seeking (that's what I think it is in some cases - especially when they say goodbye but are still on the site for a week or two).

What would you write for a site like this anyway? 'Have to say goodbye now. Met my quota for viewing all the gaping vaginas and crusted penis pictures. Time to call it a day'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant understand why people wouldnt want to say goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems pointless to me, I wouldn't as I'm not a regular poster so you'd get a lot of comments basically saying "who?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

Nah because no one cares really

There was a guy on here recently that looks just like you

A handsome bugger then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems pointless to me, I wouldn't as I'm not a regular poster so you'd get a lot of comments basically saying "who?"

I like your posts,you come across as a nice geezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not . Would be quite disheartening to start a thread , check it ten hours later as you're about to delete and no ones commented

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i doubt anyone would give a f**k

Of course no one gives a fuck,but i chat to people on here by PM i would say goodbye to them

i meant generally amongst forum folk...i doubt anyone would be fussed if i went or not..the folk i chat too i'm sure i'd say bye too or swap contact details with with some of 'em

I would be devastated if you left

you said that with a straight face, you'd make a good poker player

Tbh i do like your banter

shuddup before i go all mushy ya bugger!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems pointless to me, I wouldn't as I'm not a regular poster so you'd get a lot of comments basically saying "who?"

I like your posts,you come across as a nice geezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of all the goodbye threads created 95% are back a week later anyway

Not much point in them really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodbye.... Pffft! Mare like 'look at me' fs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, when I go I'm sneaking off stealthily.

If I started a thread you'd all be fighting on a heap for my username before the door had even hit me on the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm not a needy **** so will just go. Then just come back again, like last time

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

not going anywhere..sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I would 100% miss your posts! "

And i yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I like your posts and you are on my hotlist"

Am i? *faints* you are one of my top viewed men, just wish that towel would do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft! Attention seeking glory hunters! You'd never see me doing anything like that!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/578223

(Actually aw that's the first time I've ever read that!)

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wouldn't do one, because I don't believe anyone would care if I left. Not complaining, just saying how it is (I don't particularly care when others leave either).

When I leave, I'll disappear like a ninja. That's how I left my previous adult dating site, after 10 years I decided it was over, deleted my profile and never looked back. "

Ah! Now I can green arrow you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I like your posts and you are on my hotlist

Am i? *faints* you are one of my top viewed men, just wish that towel would do one

Like this pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but someone did one for me, which i was told about when i came back.

But i come and go so often i wouldn't do one myself, and i don't think i'd be particularly missed anyway. There would just be tumble blowing through the thread

I like your posts and you are on my hotlist

Am i? *faints* you are one of my top viewed men, just wish that towel would do one

Like this pic"

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent messages to those on my friends list and then disappeared. I'm not one for a fuss.

I should have given my number to some of them though and then I might not have come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

My friends would be in my contacts or kik depending on friendship level and would be informed or have already an inkling of my departure. Everyone else may or may not miss me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Not sure if I would or not - it might depend on why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems pointless to me, I wouldn't as I'm not a regular poster so you'd get a lot of comments basically saying "who?"

I like your posts,you come across as a nice geezer

Jolly decent of you to say young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pfft! Attention seeking glory hunters! You'd never see me doing anything like that!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/578223

(Actually aw that's the first time I've ever read that!)"

He sounds like a nice guy. Wonder who he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pfft! Attention seeking glory hunters! You'd never see me doing anything like that!!

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/578223

(Actually aw that's the first time I've ever read that!)

He sounds like a nice guy. Wonder who he was.

Nobody we will miss

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By *has like usMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

No, have seen the goodbyes on here that last an eternity ! !, had enough ! Leaving NOW (2 weeks later still on) smacks of desperation in my humble opinion, as previously stated, friends have other ways of contacting x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, have seen the goodbyes on here that last an eternity ! !, had enough ! Leaving NOW (2 weeks later still on) smacks of desperation in my humble opinion, as previously stated, friends have other ways of contacting x x x"

I will say goodbye,if people dont want to repond or come on the thread then thats fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going too go it's far more memorable to leave with a overly elaborately dramatic forum-flounce-out rather than limp out on a wave of instantly forgettable sentimentality .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But some people unfortunately only have the internet and virtual friends in their life.

So their internet friends are just as important to them as your friends in "real" life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

My friends would be in my contacts or kik depending on friendship level and would be informed or have already an inkling of my departure. Everyone else may or may not miss me."

I'd miss your bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But some people unfortunately only have the internet and virtual friends in their life.

So their internet friends are just as important to them as your friends in "real" life. "

Correct sir

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

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hahaha fat chance buster. even if i did, id still turn up places unannounced.. that's my style

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's a little button at the bottom of the home page. I generally just press that and save myself the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

hahaha fat chance buster. even if i did, id still turn up places unannounced.. that's my style

I'd noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope,I just left

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

hahaha fat chance buster. even if i did, id still turn up places unannounced.. that's my style

I'd noticed

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saves people escaping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

hahaha fat chance buster. even if i did, id still turn up places unannounced.. that's my style

I'd noticed

saves people escaping

I thought I'd spotted you earlier but had that 'what if it is just someone who looks a bit like her?' moment

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I'm not leaving

You already have. This is purgatory

hahaha fat chance buster. even if i did, id still turn up places unannounced.. that's my style

I'd noticed

saves people escaping

I thought I'd spotted you earlier but had that 'what if it is just someone who looks a bit like her?' moment "
im sure you did..spent best part of an hour wandering around the place going

and trying to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

"Have run out of amusing ways to subtly promote my cock. See ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point you pm any Friends and go to many people saying no one loves me ba ba ba. If you Just just need a few days away hide your profile.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time ! "
yay..xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't last time I had a fabatical lol. I just said bye for a bit to some chums

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Going unlos is for wimps, I know I've been sentenced to hard labour for the rest of ma days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To quote Shakespeare...

"PEACE OUT BITCHES""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't do one, because I don't believe anyone would care if I left. Not complaining, just saying how it is (I don't particularly care when others leave either).

When I leave, I'll disappear like a ninja. That's how I left my previous adult dating site, after 10 years I decided it was over, deleted my profile and never looked back.

Ah! Now I can green arrow you

Oh dear, let's hope you don't dig up anything incriminating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ..would leave quietly ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time ! "

You was back within a week this time ?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No thread.. I wouldn't be missed but I'd say goodbye to my friends.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"No thread.. I wouldn't be missed but I'd say goodbye to my friends. "
dont be going anywhere xxx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

You was back within a week this time ?

Yep , a new record for us

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd expect a party if I ever left. With cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the Googly eyes would be missed more than me. Boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

You was back within a week this time ?

Yep , a new record for us

You must have created a new profile more or less straight away then as its a 7 day wait b4 u van use forums again

Little buggers

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I honestly don't know. When I have taken a break I haven't deleted and I haven't announced the break.

Only a few people have contact details, mainly because most of my contact is via the site, but I consider some to be virtual friends. I might feel that it would be easier to say a quick farewell on the forum just so that they know I haven't died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't know. When I have taken a break I haven't deleted and I haven't announced the break.

Where have you been ? Your always buggering off

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i didn't bother making one, but i didn't really leave. just deleted my other profiles to remove all traces of me off this site.

mine would say

"thanks for helping me through an emotionally bad time in my life. i needed somewhere shallow to not give a fuck in general for a while, and just give my heart a rest.

for all those who supported me, just because they could see i was struggling, you are true gems and very rare and the world needs more of you.

for those of you who saw it as a predatory opportunity, fuck you. you probably have your own issues you don't recognise but just shoot yourself off into space where nobody ever has to deal with your shit.

to the sexual parasites -thanks for all the shit sex, it helped me realise my sex addiction can ruin my life. and although i'm not cured i have a way better handle on it now and your NSA, selfish booty calls do not appeal.

to the ones who can't hear the word no and understand what that means, hope your dick falls off.

thanks to the genuine men who give a shit what women want, you're not gems coz you got your rocks off too but i appreciate the sex you gave me anyway.

i will miss many of you. not just for entertainment value but because you restored my faith in humanity, and people, and you let me be vulnerable and didn't judge me for that. you never pressured me to be something i am not and accepted me for who i am. that helped me work through a lot going on in my head.

those who didn't accept me, that's ok too, i don't really care. i got issues and some people don't get me and i don't need you to. but i won't let you get into my head"

if i leave that is, i might not.

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over a year ago

"i didn't bother making one, but i didn't really leave. just deleted my other profiles to remove all traces of me off this site.

mine would say

"thanks for helping me through an emotionally bad time in my life. i needed somewhere shallow to not give a fuck in general for a while, and just give my heart a rest.

for all those who supported me, just because they could see i was struggling, you are true gems and very rare and the world needs more of you.

to the ones who can't hear the word no and understand what that means, hope your dick falls off.

thanks to the genuine men who give a shit what women want, you're not gems coz you got your rocks off too but i appreciate the sex you gave me anyway.

those who didn't accept me, that's ok too, i don't really care. i got issues and some people don't get me and i don't need you to. but i won't let you get into my head"

if i leave that is, i might not."

Don't go.....I like you and I don't say that to many on here....infact your the first

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"i didn't bother making one, but i didn't really leave. just deleted my other profiles to remove all traces of me off this site.

mine would say

"thanks for helping me through an emotionally bad time in my life. i needed somewhere shallow to not give a fuck in general for a while, and just give my heart a rest.

for all those who supported me, just because they could see i was struggling, you are true gems and very rare and the world needs more of you.

to the ones who can't hear the word no and understand what that means, hope your dick falls off.

thanks to the genuine men who give a shit what women want, you're not gems coz you got your rocks off too but i appreciate the sex you gave me anyway.

those who didn't accept me, that's ok too, i don't really care. i got issues and some people don't get me and i don't need you to. but i won't let you get into my head"

if i leave that is, i might not."

Very well put , an excellent post .

Thoughtful and an insight into your world , your perspective on this often emotionless lifestyle .

We would miss you

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i didn't bother making one, but i didn't really leave. just deleted my other profiles to remove all traces of me off this site.

mine would say

"thanks for helping me through an emotionally bad time in my life. i needed somewhere shallow to not give a fuck in general for a while, and just give my heart a rest.

for all those who supported me, just because they could see i was struggling, you are true gems and very rare and the world needs more of you.

to the ones who can't hear the word no and understand what that means, hope your dick falls off.

thanks to the genuine men who give a shit what women want, you're not gems coz you got your rocks off too but i appreciate the sex you gave me anyway.

those who didn't accept me, that's ok too, i don't really care. i got issues and some people don't get me and i don't need you to. but i won't let you get into my head"

if i leave that is, i might not.

Very well put , an excellent post .

Thoughtful and an insight into your world , your perspective on this often emotionless lifestyle .

We would miss you

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want.

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over a year ago

"i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want."

I hope you don't leave. You post many interesting comments

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want.

I hope you don't leave. You post many interesting comments

if i ever do it will be really hard for me, and i hope that some of the people on here know i genuinely love them.

i'll probably just hide all my pics and become a blank profile first and see how that goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want.

I hope you don't leave. You post many interesting comments

if i ever do it will be really hard for me, and i hope that some of the people on here know i genuinely love them.

i'll probably just hide all my pics and become a blank profile first and see how that goes."

Well i wish you lots of luck with whatever you decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do a leaving thread when you go?

I didn't bother cos I knew no-one would post.

What would your leaving thread say?

"
BRB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want."

I'd miss ya!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"i'm probably not leaving. i just know swinging isn't for me.

i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want.

I hope you don't leave. You post many interesting comments

That's true .

Your experience over the years is useful to so many . The sex addiction , as I recall was something we were concerned about , but after reading your exeoeriences we realised we were not so badly affected as we thought we were .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

You was back within a week this time ?

Yep , a new record for us

I knew you wouldn't stay away for long. Just hide next time so much easier.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

You was back within a week this time ?

Yep , a new record for us

I knew you wouldn't stay away for long. Just hide next time so much easier."

I had a very busy couple of weeks at work ( I run my own business ) and I can't stay off fab when we are on it . It's a bit like any addiction really , just can't stop , so that's why we leave ... there's no temptation without it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope .

And we've left often enough for everyone to know that we just quietly disappear .....

And then come back a few weeks later every bloody time !

You was back within a week this time ?

Yep , a new record for us

I knew you wouldn't stay away for long. Just hide next time so much easier.

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"......"i'm also starting to acknowledge that being on this site might be detrimental to what i actually want." "

It's something that most of us will find out the hard way. I've had quite a few lady friends leave over the past year or two as they have come to that point in life they want something more constant. Those I still keep in touch with all admit it's very hard to find someone from vanilla world who manage to keep them excited.... think its also something to do with having had variety.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Nope. If you want someone to know youre leaving then they'd be worth the effort of messaging directly or you'd be talking to them off site already and it wont matter.

"Im leaving" threads are all about vanity. Fab will go on like it always has and no ones really gonna notice that you left."

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