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Turn ons befor sex?

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By *ets so this 1 OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Hi girls just a quick questions for yous.. what turns yous on befor you do the deed and while yous are having sex for the first time would you prefer it to be rough or soft

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean foreplay or before that?

It's pretty much different for all women I think, same for rough or soft.

It's best to ask the woman you're with at the time

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By *ets so this 1 OP   Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I mean like befor fore play like what gets people so rattled up inside just asking peoples opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different things work for different people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I mean like befor fore play like what gets people so rattled up inside just asking peoples opinions x"

Oh right. Well for me it can be any number of things from holding hands walking on the beach to full on porn videos. It really depends on my mood. I think it's a case of judging the situation.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hi girls just a quick questions for yous.. what turns yous on befor you do the deed and while yous are having sex for the first time would you prefer it to be rough or soft

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The meeting of eyes across a crowded bar , then the first physical contact which is often a gentle brush past .

Then the first few words exchanged when we pluck up the courage to engage in conversation , which usually leads to finding a table to sit at .

Then the slightly awkward bit as we establish connection , and our hands begin to wander under the table . By now my husband will have clocked what I'm doing , and the look in his eyes as he watches us is the thing that really gets me going .

The first kiss , then the adrenaline and heart rate rising as we leave to find a quiet spot . By now I'm ready to give in to my deepest desires , and the more passionate the better . It's got to be real , not too rough , but a sharing of the carnal lust we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to a man in person can turn me on. If I don't feel turned on by talking, I won't in bed.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi girls just a quick questions for yous.. what turns yous on befor you do the deed and while yous are having sex for the first time would you prefer it to be rough or soft

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Women are complicated creatures and I don't think there are any answers that work in every situation.

The same woman can be horny and fuck you for buying her flowers or not talk for days because she wants to know what have you done and that you must be feel guilty for buying her flowers

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lots of kissing for us

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair if there is flirting or build up it tends to put me off. Prefer straight to it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean like befor fore play like what gets people so rattled up inside just asking peoples opinions x"

good conversation and a connection, if I meet a guy who bores me to death the chances are sex isn't going to happen, but if you get along, the conversation flows easy, you can make each other laugh and have a flirt your office to a good start, after all they say the brain is the biggest sex organ if you can't even stimulate that what chance have you got with a body

oh and never rough sex, I just don't like it rough full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the first kiss is important too, you can tell a lot by the way they kiss, I have met a few guys I've liked but still turned them down because of the way they kiss

I'm my opinion there is just no way you can have good sex with somebody who isn't a compatible kisser, expecially if they are one of those people who can't kiss but insist on keep trying to kiss you it just kills everything

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