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"Do labels really matter? " No I don't believe in labels which is why I'm asking about this label. | |||
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"Do labels really matter? No I don't believe in labels which is why I'm asking about this label." I don't think it's a label, more a description that avoids misunderstanding. | |||
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"Do labels really matter? No I don't believe in labels which is why I'm asking about this label." Language is a set of labels. An apple is called an apple so other people know what fruit you are talking about. Bisexual refers to people who enjoy sex with both sexes. It is a word, allowing communication. | |||
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"They are bi/curious , just being specific about what aspect of mm play they do i.e they don't have penetrative sex with other men. " All very good friend of mine is gay. But he doesn't have penetrative sex. As far as he is concerned he is gay. Not orally gay. To me, if you are a bi male that doesn't have penetrative sex then you're simply a bit male. | |||
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"I know men who are orally bi, they have absolutely no interest in anal sex with a man, giving or receiving, but like sucking cock. So they can't really describe themselves as bi curious as they don't want full sex with a man, and they aren't all that curious." If a man likes sucking cock, he is bisexual. | |||
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"Do labels really matter? " Of course they do. They help people find what they are looking for. | |||
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"Have you ever seen a child that is slightly camp and said they'll will be gay? That child knows nothing about sex yet. My personal opinion is being gay or bisexual is about feelings, relationships and love. Sex is about what feels good. If it feels nice do it, no need for lables" No, if you have sex with both sexes you are bisexual. You dont have to have an emotional involvement with them. | |||
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"Have you ever seen a child that is slightly camp and said they'll will be gay? That child knows nothing about sex yet. My personal opinion is being gay or bisexual is about feelings, relationships and love. Sex is about what feels good. If it feels nice do it, no need for lables" I'd like to agree wholeheartedly with that but I can't. My good lady considers herself bisexual but says she could never be in a relationship with a woman. It is purely a sexual thing. | |||
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"Do labels really matter? Of course they do. They help people find what they are looking for." Totally agree that on site like this they really do matter  which is certainly a more defensible scenario than suggesting we should tolerate the use of misleading labels  | |||
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"Pfft labels are for jam." Bisexual is a word, it describes sexual behaviour. Useful on a swingers site where people will be interacting sexually. | |||
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"My ex was like this. Told me he didn't find men attractive but enjoyed the act" Did you accept his definition? | |||
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"I've come across lots of men who are just orally bi,don't fancy men,don't kiss,would have a relationship with a guy,but love sucking cock." *never | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 18/03/17 15:55:11]" Is it bi curious if you just like sucking cock,I don't know?! | |||
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"I've come across lots of men who are just orally bi,don't fancy men,don't kiss,would have a relationship with a guy,but love sucking cock." To me that is someone who is bisexual or bi who has not fully explored their sexuality. | |||
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"I've come across lots of men who are just orally bi,don't fancy men,don't kiss,would have a relationship with a guy,but love sucking cock. To me that is someone who is bisexual or bi who has not fully explored their sexuality. " Wrong wrong wrong | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 18/03/17 15:55:11] Is it bi curious if you just like sucking cock,I don't know?!" Bi-curious is what you are before you've been in a sexual situation with someone of your own sex. | |||
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"My ex was like this. Told me he didn't find men attractive but enjoyed the act" this | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 18/03/17 15:55:11] Is it bi curious if you just like sucking cock,I don't know?! Bi-curious is what you are before you've been in a sexual situation with someone of your own sex. " Exactly,it's not someone who is just orally bi. | |||
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"Pfft labels are for jam. Bisexual is a word, it describes sexual behaviour. Useful on a swingers site where people will be interacting sexually." It's such a broad spectrum that it is much better to clarify exactly what someone enjoys sexually than use labels in my opinion. They are however a useful shorthand as long as we don't make assumptions based on the label | |||
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"My ex was like this. Told me he didn't find men attractive but enjoyed the act this"yep | |||
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"Pfft labels are for jam. Bisexual is a word, it describes sexual behaviour. Useful on a swingers site where people will be interacting sexually. It's such a broad spectrum that it is much better to clarify exactly what someone enjoys sexually than use labels in my opinion. They are however a useful shorthand as long as we don't make assumptions based on the label" Sure, assumptions and prejudice can exist because of many descriptive words. Fab gives us 4 sexualities to choose, Straight, Bi, Bi-curious and Gay. We have to pick one closest to where we are on the spectrum. In most cases it should be fairly easy. | |||
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"They are bi/curious , just being specific about what aspect of mm play they do i.e they don't have penetrative sex with other men. " What they said....simples!  | |||
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"Pfft labels are for jam. Bisexual is a word, it describes sexual behaviour. Useful on a swingers site where people will be interacting sexually. It's such a broad spectrum that it is much better to clarify exactly what someone enjoys sexually than use labels in my opinion. They are however a useful shorthand as long as we don't make assumptions based on the label Sure, assumptions and prejudice can exist because of many descriptive words. Fab gives us 4 sexualities to choose, Straight, Bi, Bi-curious and Gay. We have to pick one closest to where we are on the spectrum. In most cases it should be fairly easy." Yep that's why I identify as bisexual | |||
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"Do labels really matter? " Not to people who like to deceive others or are in denial. | |||
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"Do labels really matter? No I don't believe in labels which is why I'm asking about this label. I don't think it's a label, more a description that avoids misunderstanding." I would agree with that | |||
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"I know men who are orally bi, they have absolutely no interest in anal sex with a man, giving or receiving, but like sucking cock. So they can't really describe themselves as bi curious as they don't want full sex with a man, and they aren't all that curious. If a man likes sucking cock, he is bisexual." Yes he is, but only orally. In saying they are only orally bi they aren't giving other men the impression that the possibility of full sex is there when it isn't. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 18/03/17 15:55:11] Is it bi curious if you just like sucking cock,I don't know?! Bi-curious is what you are before you've been in a sexual situation with someone of your own sex. " and after that experimentation it's like a flow chart 
You enjoyed and would do again ........ Bi
You didn't enjoy and won't do again ....... straight
Or still undecided ......... still curious until you get to experiment again | |||
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"On a recent meeting we were informed about something we've never heard of before. To our ears a new sexuality. Apparently there are men out there who are only orally bi? I'm 43 so my understanding is now archaic but I always thought that if you were sexually active then you were either straight, bisexual or gay. Is Orally bi the male equivalent of bi curious? Is someone who is Orally bi, sexually attracted to the same sex or is it an act for the sake of the situation? If you are sexually attracted then are you not simply bi or bi curious? Seems strange to me to class yourself as orally bi when all fully bi women are purely orally bi. Surely the word bisexual defines who you are attracted to, not the sexual acts you are prepared to perform? If I somehow didn't like performing oral sex on a female for whatever reason, I am still straight. Not penetratively straight. Are there any other sexualities out there that I don't know of? I really hope this question doesn't offend anyone. I am genuinely interested in the forums interpretation of orally bi and if you are orally bi then I'm genuinely interested in how you define your sexualit. Him." If you are having sexual interaction with someone of the same sex then you are not heterosexual. You don't have to use labels if you dont like labels though. If anyone asks what your sexual tastes are ? Just say varied which includes both sexes. Then its upto you to divulge further if you wish to go into details. Cant see what the confusion is personally. | |||
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"Orally bi curious?? Lmao! Label it how you want! Bi is bi" They might be more offended by the term cock suckers  | |||
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"Orally bi curious?? Lmao! Label it how you want! Bi is bi They might be more offended by the term cock suckers "Maybe | |||
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"Do labels really matter? No I don't believe in labels which is why I'm asking about this label. I don't think it's a label, more a description that avoids misunderstanding. I would agree with that"Me too. Whatever any individual wants to do within the law, is groovy with me. | |||
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"As a few people have mentioned,we need to use labels,as fab unfortunately doesn't have a mile long list of sexual preferences to choose from. Maybe if they did we wouldn't have constant threads like this. " indeed | |||
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 I read oral b as in toothpaste
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"Well I like my cock being sucked by a convincing tv , but won't suck cock , nor even touch it if it isn't my own . I have no interest whatsoever in interacting sexually with another fella . So I may be bi selfish ? And we've met lots of orally bi guys in group play scenarios , so it's not uncommon . Bi playful ? But as someone else said , labels are for jars of jam . But it's good to know beforehand how and what potential playmates are into , so can be useful to know ." Thankyou. I say thankyou Because this post in particular has made me realise i was a touch narrow minded with my original post/question. I think i was actually being a little unfair expecting anyone to explain their position on orally bi. I myself have looked at convincing tvs and seen them as attractive so yes you've helped me understand it that bit more by looking at it from that point of view. | |||
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" I read oral b as in toothpaste
I'm dying here"Fab swingers..... the site for kinky erotic fun and dental hygiene advice!  | |||
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"Anyone who repeatedly and willingly engages in sexual activity of any sort with both male and female partners is bisexual .... It ain't rocket science .... ask your granny or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me "
It's bullshit. Pretence.. to lull the masses into a nice fuzzy feeling.
Orally bi guys that don't fancy men are straight dontcha know. The men that fuck guys up the arse are the evil ones to avoid. | |||
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"Well I like my cock being sucked by a convincing tv , but won't suck cock , nor even touch it if it isn't my own . I have no interest whatsoever in interacting sexually with another fella . So I may be bi selfish ? And we've met lots of orally bi guys in group play scenarios , so it's not uncommon . Bi playful ? But as someone else said , labels are for jars of jam . ... .. But it's good to know beforehand how and what potential playmates are into , so can be useful to know ." Your final sentence: | |||
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"Pfft labels are for jam." And lack of labels are for people who like to swim in that great Egyptian river. In denial. | |||
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"Anyone who repeatedly and willingly engages in sexual activity of any sort with both male and female partners is bisexual .... It ain't rocket science .... ask your granny or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me
It's bullshit. Pretence.. to lull the masses into a nice fuzzy feeling.
Orally bi guys that don't fancy men are straight dontcha know. The men that fuck guys up the arse are the evil ones to avoid. "I thought religion was the opiate of the masses that lulls into a fuzzy feeling. Maybe I'll get the same feeling from sucking cocks. | |||
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"Anyone who repeatedly and willingly engages in sexual activity of any sort with both male and female partners is bisexual .... It ain't rocket science .... ask your granny or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me
It's bullshit. Pretence.. to lull the masses into a nice fuzzy feeling.
Orally bi guys that don't fancy men are straight dontcha know. The men that fuck guys up the arse are the evil ones to avoid.
I thought religion was the opiate of the masses that lulls into a fuzzy feeling. Maybe I'll get the same feeling from sucking cocks. "Only if you swallow. | |||
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"Anyone who repeatedly and willingly engages in sexual activity of any sort with both male and female partners is bisexual .... It ain't rocket science .... ask your granny or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me
It's bullshit. Pretence.. to lull the masses into a nice fuzzy feeling.
Orally bi guys that don't fancy men are straight dontcha know. The men that fuck guys up the arse are the evil ones to avoid.
I thought religion was the opiate of the masses that lulls into a fuzzy feeling. Maybe I'll get the same feeling from sucking cocks.
Only if you swallow. "Got it now - so there are orally bi swallows and orally bi spits. Will look out for those labels when next buying jam. | |||
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" I read oral b as in toothpaste
I'm dying here
Fab swingers..... the site for kinky erotic fun and dental hygiene advice! " | |||
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