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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jim.

Sadface.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Barcelona cos they play in La Liga and Derby are in the Championship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be afraid to approach anyone on here who I thought was attractive and was interested in meeting them.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Jim.

Sadface."

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe in fab leagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carol kirkwood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you even set a league to be in, aim for the stars right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first "

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me."

Someone put there hands on me!

........please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom Hardy, only coz he runs too fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me.

Someone put there hands on me!

........please "

Done.

*reaches out*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone genuinely believe in the whole leagues thing?

Attractive people only being attracted to other attractive people etc.

Think the whole American high school film scenario, popular boy/popular girl sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me.

Someone put there hands on me!

........please

Done.

*reaches out*"

I'm not sure it counts if I have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone genuinely believe in the whole leagues thing?

Attractive people only being attracted to other attractive people etc.

Think the whole American high school film scenario, popular boy/popular girl sort of thing "

No, I don't believe in it.

Just trying to wind jim up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

You clearly as you failed to reply to my messages, I even wrote you a poem, in my blood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody. It's all bollocks. If I like someone I tell them and see where it goes. If they don't like me they aren't out of my league they just don't fancy me. We aren't at school anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me.

Someone put there hands on me!

........please

Done.

*reaches out*

I'm not sure it counts if I have to ask "

Ok, we'll do a consensual non-consent thing and I'll grab you sometime unexpected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jim.

Sadface.

Oi missy, hands off, I saw him first

Oh to have my hands on him....but I know he's too embroiled in the love dynamic of the ErectWinger. Ahhhh me.

Someone put there hands on me!

........please

Done.

*reaches out*

I'm not sure it counts if I have to ask

Ok, we'll do a consensual non-consent thing and I'll grab you sometime unexpected "

But I'm expecting it now! So it still won't count

I'm gonna stop before this gets any worse for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Carol kirkwood"

I'll see your Carol Kirkwood and raise you a Susie Dent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

I aim for whoever I think is attractive, wether I think they're better than me doesn't come into it

Same goes for couples, if we like the look of them we'll introduce ourselves.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

A man's gotta know his limitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

But we have equality now, everyones at the same place because we were all created equal, or some shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing and nobody. There are people I'm not attracted too - and those who aren't attracted to me - but I always hope they don't take my polite rejection personally...just like I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some try too hard you know who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are."

Was it the poem written in my blood that put you off? I knew I was trying way too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in the conferance and im more then aware of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A taxi hame oan St Paddy's day ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

Oh I know my place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

Oh I know my place. "

Beautiful so please...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

Oh I know my place. "

I know where I'd like it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Button moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

But we have equality now, everyones at the same place because we were all created equal, or some shit."

Well you mere mortals may have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another awful thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are."

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

"

A rational and good opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

"

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through. "

The OP an example of that? Thinking out loud...

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Nobody. It's all bollocks. If I like someone I tell them and see where it goes. If they don't like me they aren't out of my league they just don't fancy me. We aren't at school anymore. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leagues? Are we back at school?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leagues? Are we back at school?"

No Thats was sets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through.

The OP an example of that? Thinking out loud..."

Getting a bit personal now? Think you to should just get a room already

I get so many messages from guys who are punching well above their weight!!!

Anyone who meets me wants to think theirselves bloody lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leagues? Are we back at school?

No Thats was sets. "

I wouldn't know, I used to skive off from home by going to school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through.

The OP an example of that? Thinking out loud...

Getting a bit personal now? Think you to should just get a room already

I get so many messages from guys who are punching well above their weight!!!

Anyone who meets me wants to think theirselves bloody lucky "

I certainly wasn't being personal. Just stating that as human beings we are all born equal and all attracted to different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of people (in fact most) who are way more attractive than me. That bit I can't help - I am what I am and know I have been well and truly slapped by the ugly stick.

But there's more to people than just physical looks and one of the good things about leagues is that you can get promoted and relegated every now and then and, in the cup competitions, someone from non-League or a lower division can get drawn against (and hold their own with) Premier League opposition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be afraid to approach anyone on here who I thought was attractive and was interested in meeting them.

"

Same here, i know im not going to be everyones cup of tea but whats the worst than can happen they say no, oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some do.

I certainly won't fuck anyone unless they look like the lovechild of Bruce Forsythe and Nana Mouskouri.

I like a strong chin and a folksy air about my men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

Becoming an astronaut. I think it's too late for me.

If we're talking sexual partners. Probably someone I find very attractive.

It then runs through my mind, she could have the pick of anyone she wants, why would she ever look st me.

So that's out of my league. A very attractive woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all on an equal footing here in my eyes - hate all those im better than so and so types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through.

The OP an example of that? Thinking out loud...

Getting a bit personal now? Think you to should just get a room already

I get so many messages from guys who are punching well above their weight!!!

Anyone who meets me wants to think theirselves bloody lucky

I certainly wasn't being personal. Just stating that as human beings we are all born equal and all attracted to different things.

"

I wasn't nessesarily thinking of your post but if it hit a nerve than feel free to take it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some do.

I certainly won't fuck anyone unless they look like the lovechild of Bruce Forsythe and Nana Mouskouri.

I like a strong chin and a folksy air about my men "

Play your cards right with me, and You Bet I'll have you proclaiming 'Didn't he do well'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think the OP was saying she was better than anyone, was she!? Just asking a question.

Anyway, I'd never think someone was better or below me. I message anyone who takes my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some do.

I certainly won't fuck anyone unless they look like the lovechild of Bruce Forsythe and Nana Mouskouri.

I like a strong chin and a folksy air about my men

Play your cards right with me, and You Bet I'll have you proclaiming 'Didn't he do well' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Becoming an astronaut. I think it's too late for me.

If we're talking sexual partners. Probably someone I find very attractive.

It then runs through my mind, she could have the pick of anyone she wants, why would she ever look st me.

So that's out of my league. A very attractive woman. "

But would you still message a very attractive woman who you think is out if your league as you put it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sounds like a caste system with all this league business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

Love or hate her posts you can't help but admire her honesty!!

As for the question of "knowing our place" which, I might add, is a valid question in these crazy fab forums, the answer is "yes" we do! We can tell by looking at individual profiles, preferences and photos wether we should or shouldn't message them as we are ourselves an "acquired taste" and, like it or not, we wouldn't quite reach their expected standards. This is one of the unsavoury areas of joining a swingers website hence why it's best to be very thick skinned we find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

I don't see anyone as being out of my league ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

"

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Becoming an astronaut. I think it's too late for me.

If we're talking sexual partners. Probably someone I find very attractive.

It then runs through my mind, she could have the pick of anyone she wants, why would she ever look st me.

So that's out of my league. A very attractive woman.

But would you still message a very attractive woman who you think is out if your league as you put it?"

Maybe. Maybe not. It diesnt stop me thinking it though. And that's what the Op asked isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Becoming an astronaut. I think it's too late for me.

If we're talking sexual partners. Probably someone I find very attractive.

It then runs through my mind, she could have the pick of anyone she wants, why would she ever look st me.

So that's out of my league. A very attractive woman.

But would you still message a very attractive woman who you think is out if your league as you put it?"

I get where he is coming from. I might chance it with a Face Pic Friday with the expectation that I might get one back.

But a 'hi, do you fancy bumping uglies' type of conversation, probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned down couple of lads on here cos to me they were out of my league.I wouldn't have felt comfortable with them

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Straight women. They don't want to play with me

MrsSB

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I think some do.

I certainly won't fuck anyone unless they look like the lovechild of Bruce Forsythe and Nana Mouskouri.

I like a strong chin and a folksy air about my men "

*rushes off to practice tap dancing and banjo playing (and buy new black glasses frames)

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through. "

See I have the opposite - I have decent personality but feck all else lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Seriously though there are a number of people I get on with but have never said do you want to play or meet as I do get shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though there are a number of people I get on with but have never said do you want to play or meet as I do get shy "

Today's the day that you should ask them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first division, second division and premier league. I'm shit at football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone genuinely believe in the whole leagues thing?

Attractive people only being attracted to other attractive people etc.

Think the whole American high school film scenario, popular boy/popular girl sort of thing "

no I dont believe in it .

all my partners have been stunners and could never see what they saw in me

they said the rugged looks type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks' "

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Seriously though there are a number of people I get on with but have never said do you want to play or meet as I do get shy

Today's the day that you should ask them. "

I should but I won't

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Seriously though there are a number of people I get on with but have never said do you want to play or meet as I do get shy

Today's the day that you should ask them.

I should but I won't "

You should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though there are a number of people I get on with but have never said do you want to play or meet as I do get shy

Today's the day that you should ask them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen."

I'd say it's more age-related. OP is very early twenties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen."

I know what you mean, I'm the same. That said, the forum allows your personality to show and I've managed to talk to so many women I'd never have been able to normally.

I might even get the chance to have coffee with a few if I am lucky

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over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen."

But then you have a stingray in the bath so that would be enough for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen."

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some do.

I certainly won't fuck anyone unless they look like the lovechild of Bruce Forsythe and Nana Mouskouri.

I like a strong chin and a folksy air about my men

*rushes off to practice tap dancing and banjo playing (and buy new black glasses frames) "

You're ok, i like your choice of hat

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over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

"

Dan, I am out of your "league" because I am Premier League (did you like that little pun there) but you are definitely my type

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No one is outta my league!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."
Being honest, I know my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

Dan, I am out of your "league" because I am Premier League (did you like that little pun there) but you are definitely my type "

Fancy going to Extra Time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a saying...... beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

Dan, I am out of your "league" because I am Premier League (did you like that little pun there) but you are definitely my type

Fancy going to Extra Time? "

lol I am sure I can make a hazard diving joke here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

Dan, I am out of your "league" because I am Premier League (did you like that little pun there) but you are definitely my type

Fancy going to Extra Time? "

I will even take you to a penis shootout. Whoops I meant penalty shootout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

Out of her league or not her type? Two very different things.

Likewise I'm certainly not what the OP is looking for, and she's not what I'm looking for either. I don't see her as 'out of my league' - just someone who has different preferences and seeking a different market.

"
Saying "out of your league" sounds like someone is some higher being, better than others, which is nonsense. There are no leagues. People are attracted to others for many reasons. What one person doesn't find physically attractive about another then there is someone who will. Very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order to reply collectively to get a true result I'll ask... as I think people have diferent meanings to it.

For example it can be objective and so one thinks the other wouldn't like them, or it could be subjective in that one may think that they are too popular for the ordinary person. Both these may have little to do with self worth but could be very rational thinking and miss conceptions.

So what is meant by out of your league?

I say yes there are a lot on here out of my league due to filters, due to their high popularity and due to the image they portray.

Examples for me...

1. Those who have 100 of messages every day. Many block delete ever so often and most of them will not reply even to say thanks but no thanks so I say what's the point wasting a bet on a real outsider.

2. They will have a massive pool to perv through too so easily distracted.

3. They will most likely have backups for possible meets and I've know a few to even openly admit this on forums... One wonders then if its you they are genuinely interested in meeting or is one just another number in their fab experience and last minute their could be a much better proposition to be had.

So for me it's always the quieter, less popular, unassuming and more attentive types. Easily seen in their profile, veris and occasionally on the forums.

.... for those reasons I'll not message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This also comes down to self confidence too.

I'll be honest, I look at some ladies and couples on here who are simply stunning. My confidence tells me they wouldn't be interested. I guess luckily for me some of them have been which has helped me grow confidence so to those ladies, THANK YOU xxx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Aim higher than what? Know our place? What place, where?

Lol there are no 'leagues', there are vain people that worry about looks over everything else though.

Do we compare how attractive we think we are compared to others and decide wether we think we measure up to them or they measure up to us you mean? If so then no we don't.

We're here for fun, if a person gives us the impression they might be fun and we're sexually attracted to them then we'll contact them and see if the feelings mutual.

Here's the thing, being good looking doesn't make you great in the sack. Just as being not so good looking makes you any worse than others.

It's the spark, the chemistry and the persons approach to great sex... that's where it's at

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it up in personality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place."

If you don't try, you'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This also comes down to self confidence too.

I'll be honest, I look at some ladies and couples on here who are simply stunning. My confidence tells me they wouldn't be interested. I guess luckily for me some of them have been which has helped me grow confidence so to those ladies, THANK YOU xxx"
I hope your confidence has grown a bit from these ladies. Don't think that someone won't be interested just from a photo. Stunning photos don't mean a great social or meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This also comes down to self confidence too.

I'll be honest, I look at some ladies and couples on here who are simply stunning. My confidence tells me they wouldn't be interested. I guess luckily for me some of them have been which has helped me grow confidence so to those ladies, THANK YOU xxx I hope your confidence has grown a bit from these ladies. Don't think that someone won't be interested just from a photo. Stunning photos don't mean a great social or meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a good question, as Gok says it's "all about the confidence" but really leagues refer to physical attraction and perception of attraction.

If you get on is the key thing, that can't always be seen by the outside world.

What makes people click isn't a league table of looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women with small ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

If you don't try, you'll never know. "

I know which people I don't want to try with. Is that the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one . I hate this league shit and I hate when my male friends mark women out of 10

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Anyone who uses the word 'Tranny' in the negative. I'm out of their league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't see anyone out of anyone's league . But there's a few on Here who think they are lol .

U message them . They chat then they say send a face pic , so u do then they ignore . I just chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

If you don't try, you'll never know.

I know which people I don't want to try with. Is that the same thing? "

That's the opposite end of the spectrum surely?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldn't be afraid to approach anyone on here who I thought was attractive and was interested in meeting them.

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me either

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I shouldn't believe in leagues. I encourage others to stop thinking in them often enough. However I do. There's many who are out of my league, or they have met people I just can't match up to. I get plenty messages from men who wouldn't look twice at me in the real world, so I instantly ignore them here.

I don't want to meet someone and spend the entire time feeling self conscious and not relax.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Straight women. They don't want to play with me

MrsSB "

Damn them, Damn them to Hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some try too hard you know who you are.

So basically you are saying a lot of people who message you should not as they wouldn't be in your league?

I receive messages from guys whom I would have thought, had I still been at school, were being nice to be mean.

It is more a case on here of there being no leagues. Attractiveness comes in different forms.

Equally a "perfect" body doesn't equal an enigmatic personality. And as much as this is a site for the "phwoar" factor a large percentage of us probably like the I can hold a decent conversation with you factor as well.

Exactly this. However pretty the packaging, it doesn't take long for a less than pretty personality to shine through. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think anyone is out of anyone's "league".

But I do see some people who suffer from llusory superiority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

If you don't try, you'll never know.

I know which people I don't want to try with. Is that the same thing?

That's the opposite end of the spectrum surely? "

Maybe. But I was still talking about people I think are attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shouldn't believe in leagues. I encourage others to stop thinking in them often enough. However I do. There's many who I THINK are out of my league, or they have met people I THINK THAT I just can't match up to. I get plenty messages from men who I THINK wouldn't look twice at me in the real world DESPITE NOT KNOWING WHAT THEY THEMSELVES FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A WOMAN, so I instantly ignore them here.

I don't want to meet someone and spend the entire time feeling self conscious and not relax. "

Corrected that for you! I think the leagues are in your head - different people find different things attractive. Trust me if you're with a guy and getting naughty with him, he's going to be there enjoying himself, enjoying you and having a great time! He won't be comparing you to that veri he got 8 months ago, he'll be enjoying your company and savouring what he has with you! It's all about self confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody. It's all bollocks. If I like someone I tell them and see where it goes. If they don't like me they aren't out of my league they just don't fancy me. We aren't at school anymore. "

fact

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By *antasticMrsFoxMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Mrs Fox is way out of my league it's like a hungover Sunday pub football team playing Barcelona!

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Leagues pah!

Better to crash and burn than fade away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x

Easy question to answer and NOT in any way a fishing expedition.

You are out of my league.

Incredibly attractive woman V ordinary looking man.

You wouldn't look twice at me in the street.

Ergo; out of my league.

I suspect some women feel the same about some men.

Not on here..

Most men are quite happy to show off their gym fit body but then they send a face pic and it's like 'thanks but no thanks'

I don't have a gym fit body though. I don't have a stand out attractive face either. I'm ordinary. *whatever that is.

So in comparison to the OP, I'd definitely be out of her league.

I might have a sparkling personality and be charm personified, but if I don't have anything about me that catches the eye, my personality would never be seen.

I'd say it's more age-related. OP is very early twenties!"

That's possibly true.

But I still looked the same albeit a bit younger when I was in my mid 20's.

I've always been ordinary looking.

I've never had a gym fit body either, unless the gym had a Greggs concession.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody is out of our league.

People don't fall in to league tables. Loads won't find us attractive and vice versa but it doesn't make us less valuable as people.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've turned down couple of lads on here cos to me they were out of my league.I wouldn't have felt comfortable with them"

i told you it wasn't me in the pictures i ripped them off of tumblr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terribly insecure about things like this, so yes I do think some people are out of my league. But I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea as well.

I'm learning to be pleasantly surprised by some who do find me attractive and that in turn leads to greater confidence and improves my meets.

I speak to lots on the forums who I think are incredibly good looking but know that they're not my type or I'm not theirs. Because if they have the perfect body then that's going to make me feel self conscious and that would impact on the experience we shared in the meet.

So I don't think there are leagues but do think that self confidence is higher in some than others.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

Having viewed your statuses since you first made hot photos I can tell you're very fond of 'leagues!' Yes - you're young and very attractive - but that doesn't mean that every hot guy on fab should only meet people like you.

There's a saying - 'Variety is the spice of life' - which is definitely true on fab!

I get loads of hot young guys contacting me who've never been with an old fart like me before. I assume they just want a bloody good laugh and a great shag with someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not really a league person . If people like me ans my profile plus mad ramblings then that's all splendid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at me threads come in all sorts of disguises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone genuinely believe in the whole leagues thing?

Attractive people only being attracted to other attractive people etc.

Think the whole American high school film scenario, popular boy/popular girl sort of thing "

Yup.. I refuse plenty of people purely because I wouldn't feel comfy meeting them because they make me feel that they are lowering their standards for me.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm terribly insecure about things like this, so yes I do think some people are out of my league. But I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea as well.

I'm learning to be pleasantly surprised by some who do find me attractive and that in turn leads to greater confidence and improves my meets.

I speak to lots on the forums who I think are incredibly good looking but know that they're not my type or I'm not theirs. Because if they have the perfect body then that's going to make me feel self conscious and that would impact on the experience we shared in the meet.

So I don't think there are leagues but do think that self confidence is higher in some than others. "

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

Anyone with a pulse is outta my league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues. "

I think that's probably right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me."

I do the same but with men

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I like who I like. I assume someone out of my league ia just someone who isn't Intrested in me.

Recently I shagged one of 'the dreamboys'. It was the worst sex I have ever had in my life. It was like shagging a log and His personality (the more I spent time with him) made Me want to be sick in my mouth.

Likewise I Recently slept with a bloke who wasnt 'typically attractive'. I had the best time.

I think it's personality that shines through for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me."

We sometimes look at verifications and think that the way we play is so different to their previous meets that they won't be interested. You just never know though, what if they fancy a chage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to an unfortunate typo at birth, I wound up being assigned to the 'League of Leg Ends'.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me.

We sometimes look at verifications and think that the way we play is so different to their previous meets that they won't be interested. You just never know though, what if they fancy a chage?"

I agree. I LOVE the variety in different meets. Part of the experience xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Truthfully, In some ways yes, but not out of our league as such, some we will look at and think

"Nope, they'll be inundated & we'll be way down a list".

But quite a few we also think

"She looks/sounds like hard work/aggro".

We just want to meet for fun & fucks, we have enough crap & stress already..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone genuinely believe in the whole leagues thing?

Attractive people only being attracted to other attractive people etc.

Think the whole American high school film scenario, popular boy/popular girl sort of thing "

We really used to think thus, but as our confidence has grown we have learnt that it doesn't have to be that way.

But tbh, this is just a look at me to puck, because OP has a list of the ways you can be out of her league, right there in her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me.

We sometimes look at verifications and think that the way we play is so different to their previous meets that they won't be interested. You just never know though, what if they fancy a chage?

I agree. I LOVE the variety in different meets. Part of the experience xx"

That's why i don't look anymore, what i don't know can't hurt me and i wont miss out on a good time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Due to an unfortunate typo at birth, I wound up being assigned to the 'League of Leg Ends'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues. "

Twice on one post that you've said what I was thinking ~ saved me typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues.

Twice on one post that you've said what I was thinking ~ saved me typing "

Invoice is in the post

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

You are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in Cloud Cuckoo Land and there are no leagues there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A league for people with no self confidence...we on the other hand are top of the premier league..we ooze confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at me threads come in all sorts of disguises

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and so do fishing ones....

I'm being a tad cynical this morning

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Due to an unfortunate typo at birth, I wound up being assigned to the 'League of Leg Ends'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This outta league shite. No one's out of anyone's league. Unless you let them be.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I think it's all to do with confidence. A truly confident person doesn't need to compare themselves to others and put people in leagues.

Twice on one post that you've said what I was thinking ~ saved me typing "

Me too....and you probably worded it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different. "

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue...."

I'm confident in myself. Hence why i couldn't give a f**k

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different. "

Clearly you aren't confident then

Self image should be an issue

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I'm confident in myself. Hence why i couldn't give a f**k "

Except to those that would give you one also of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I'm confident in myself. Hence why i couldn't give a f**k "

We hadn't noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue...."

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I'm confident in myself. Hence why i couldn't give a f**k

Except to those that would give you one also of course "

They all now who i wanna fuck. I have no problems looking, contacting ladies. It don't make me desperate etc. Just a horny fecker maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"
after reading your status I think it's you who needs to go back to school calling girls in photos slags cos they are sucking cock. .ffs it's a sex site. That's what people do...way out of order with that remark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self."

I'd say you're fishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

Not you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOl it was a basic question do you aim higher or know your place.

If you don't try, you'll never know.

I know which people I don't want to try with. Is that the same thing?

That's the opposite end of the spectrum surely?

Maybe. But I was still talking about people I think are attractive. "

If you find them attractive and you're broadly what they are searching for, why wouldn't you want to say hello?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x"

I work on the principle that you can only try regardless of how stunning a woman is.

I watch these programmes where model type women say nobody approaches them because they think they are to hot.

As yet it hasn't worked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self."

But you're assuming that other people won't like the way you look based on how they look. This is what I don't understand about this league business. How do people who believe themselves to be out of someone's league know what that person finds attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

I'd say you're fishing "

Caught me, I need the compliments to help with my dire lack of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

I'd say you're fishing

Caught me, I need the compliments to help with my dire lack of confidence "

Definitely. Embrace you're confidence

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x after reading your status I think it's you who needs to go back to school calling girls in photos slags cos they are sucking cock. .ffs it's a sex site. That's what people do...way out of order with that remark."

I wondered if she was going all dominatrix on us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

But you're assuming that other people won't like the way you look based on how they look. This is what I don't understand about this league business. How do people who believe themselves to be out of someone's league know what that person finds attractive?"

More based on the way people they have previously met looked. I have the confidence to approach the hottest (in my opinion) looking woman on here, I'm just realistic that she may not be interested if I consider her previous meets to have been more attractive than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x after reading your status I think it's you who needs to go back to school calling girls in photos slags cos they are sucking cock. .ffs it's a sex site. That's what people do...way out of order with that remark.

I wondered if she was going all dominatrix on us. "
bit of an immature status there I think. Slags for sucking cock lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

But you're assuming that other people won't like the way you look based on how they look. This is what I don't understand about this league business. How do people who believe themselves to be out of someone's league know what that person finds attractive?

More based on the way people they have previously met looked. I have the confidence to approach the hottest (in my opinion) looking woman on here, I'm just realistic that she may not be interested if I consider her previous meets to have been more attractive than me."

Hopefully you're pm you're hoping to get will set that right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

I only approach the really hot ones.

Fancy a social?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just being curious what is outta your league/why.? x after reading your status I think it's you who needs to go back to school calling girls in photos slags cos they are sucking cock. .ffs it's a sex site. That's what people do...way out of order with that remark.

I wondered if she was going all dominatrix on us. bit of an immature status there I think. Slags for sucking cock lol. "

Yea acts like she's never sucked a cock before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

add this to the invoice!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

Yet I'm wearing my slag badge with pride for that cock I ducked yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about out of anyone's league but I do find if I look at a woman's veri's I often end up comparing myself unfavourably to her previous meets so then presume she won't be interested in me."

That's one of the reasons I started hiding my verifications. Men see a 6 pack on a photo and think I won't be interested in their wok belly.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about confidence for me as i don't lack that, it's just self image which i think is a bit different.

If you were properly confident in yourself though self image wouldn't be an issue....

I don't really agree. I'm confident, I'm confident in my abilities. I'm just realistic about my physical self.

But you're assuming that other people won't like the way you look based on how they look. This is what I don't understand about this league business. How do people who believe themselves to be out of someone's league know what that person finds attractive?

More based on the way people they have previously met looked. I have the confidence to approach the hottest (in my opinion) looking woman on here, I'm just realistic that she may not be interested if I consider her previous meets to have been more attractive than me.

Hopefully you're pm you're hoping to get will set that right "

Fingers crossed, I'm waiting patiently.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with.

Yet I'm wearing my slag badge with pride for that cock I ducked yesterday "

You go girl

You go down as the case my be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be insulted if one of the guys I'd met said that he didn't approach really attactive women. That he only approached those he thought he'd have a chance with.

This

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I've read this on some profiles!

Cheeky sheeeeeeeeets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't like to think that I come across as 'out of your league' or that I'm in some way 'unapproachable' . I'm a really down to earth nice kind of girl.

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