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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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You looking for love?

There are several ways to love and feel loved.

Put down what type(s) of love make you feel validated. And what type of love you enjoy giving.

Next, what do you have to offer a partner. This is more important than what you want (which was covered in how you feel loved as above).

eg, this is mine:

I feel validated by being given quality time, intimacy (talking, sharing, and touch), and consistency.

I'm reliable, very touchy feelie, open, and vulnerable. High sex drive a bonus but it won't switch on unless you fit all my requirements.

Not that arsed about finding anyone on here anyways so not gonna do a summary/dating profile type of thing anyway, this is me just getting it out my system and then going back into my hole away from people coz they disappoint me.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"You looking for love?

There are several ways to love and feel loved.

Put down what type(s) of love make you feel validated. And what type of love you enjoy giving.

Next, what do you have to offer a partner. This is more important than what you want (which was covered in how you feel loved as above).

eg, this is mine:

I feel validated by being given quality time, intimacy (talking, sharing, and touch), and consistency.

I'm reliable, very touchy feelie, open, and vulnerable. High sex drive a bonus but it won't switch on unless you fit all my requirements.

Not that arsed about finding anyone on here anyways so not gonna do a summary/dating profile type of thing anyway, this is me just getting it out my system and then going back into my hole away from people coz they disappoint me. "

Errrr, are you, me?

What she said ^^^^^^^^^^^

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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i feel this topic is a little taboo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i feel this topic is a little taboo. "

It's a lot of typing

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"i feel this topic is a little taboo.

It's a lot of typing"

Love is worth the effort.

It's friday night and when people get pissed they tend to ramble on about any old shit so it might pick up later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i feel this topic is a little taboo.

It's a lot of typing

Love is worth the effort.

It's friday night and when people get pissed they tend to ramble on about any old shit so it might pick up later."

Not with me I don't drink....so I'll join the grammar squad later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kind of love I want is all consuming and passionate. I want his eyes to follow me across a room, not because he is jealous I'll talk to another man, but because he adores me and wants me to make it to the ladies room without tripping over my big feet.

I want to feel secure that yes he might be checking out Debbie from Accounts with the big bazongas, because she's got big bazongas. But the only boobs he wants to motorboat are mine.

At the end of the day he'll hold me in his arms and I'll feel at home. Comfortable. Safe. Cherished.

What do I have to offer? Me. And a whole world of complications. But I am loving, caring, sexual and a bit messed up, but if you want the best of me you have to accept the rest of me (that bit is from Dirty Dancing).

I'm hot headed, temperamental, and exceedingly hard work at times, but my blow jobs are amazing.

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"i feel this topic is a little taboo.

It's a lot of typing

Love is worth the effort.

It's friday night and when people get pissed they tend to ramble on about any old shit so it might pick up later.

Not with me I don't drink....so I'll join the grammar squad later "

ooh hold on. people are actually thinking about it i feel. serious subject is love, glad nobody rushed to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The kind of love I want is all consuming and passionate. I want his eyes to follow me across a room, not because he is jealous I'll talk to another man, but because he adores me and wants me to make it to the ladies room without tripping over my big feet.

I want to feel secure that yes he might be checking out Debbie from Accounts with the big bazongas, because she's got big bazongas. But the only boobs he wants to motorboat are mine.

At the end of the day he'll hold me in his arms and I'll feel at home. Comfortable. Safe. Cherished.

What do I have to offer? Me. And a whole world of complications. But I am loving, caring, sexual and a bit messed up, but if you want the best of me you have to accept the rest of me (that bit is from Dirty Dancing).

I'm hot headed, temperamental, and exceedingly hard work at times, but my blow jobs are amazing."

That ended on a good note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Julian Barnes' book "The History of the World in 10 & 1/2 Chapters" -- in the half chapter entitled "Parenthesis" -- the love described in that chapter by the narrator. That's what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

uncomplicated love is what I want

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i feel this topic is a little taboo. "

You were correct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to so much effort and bared my soul too

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Love ? What is that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love ? What is that ? "

hear hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The kind of love I want is all consuming and passionate. I want his eyes to follow me across a room, not because he is jealous I'll talk to another man, but because he adores me and wants me to make it to the ladies room without tripping over my big feet.

I want to feel secure that yes he might be checking out Debbie from Accounts with the big bazongas, because she's got big bazongas. But the only boobs he wants to motorboat are mine.

At the end of the day he'll hold me in his arms and I'll feel at home. Comfortable. Safe. Cherished.

What do I have to offer? Me. And a whole world of complications. But I am loving, caring, sexual and a bit messed up, but if you want the best of me you have to accept the rest of me (that bit is from Dirty Dancing).

I'm hot headed, temperamental, and exceedingly hard work at times, but my blow jobs are amazing."

Love that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The kind of love I want is all consuming and passionate. I want his eyes to follow me across a room, not because he is jealous I'll talk to another man, but because he adores me and wants me to make it to the ladies room without tripping over my big feet.

I want to feel secure that yes he might be checking out Debbie from Accounts with the big bazongas, because she's got big bazongas. But the only boobs he wants to motorboat are mine.

At the end of the day he'll hold me in his arms and I'll feel at home. Comfortable. Safe. Cherished.

What do I have to offer? Me. And a whole world of complications. But I am loving, caring, sexual and a bit messed up, but if you want the best of me you have to accept the rest of me (that bit is from Dirty Dancing).

I'm hot headed, temperamental, and exceedingly hard work at times, but my blow jobs are amazing."

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Love ? What is that ? "

it's mostly giving, so i've found. i tend to give that love to myself now more than anybody else coz other people can't handle it.

that's ok, they're just not in the same place mentally as i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love can be wonderful or it can be heartbreaking.

I hope you all find what you seek when you least expect it. Just be careful what you wish for. Don't give your heart away too freely. Love starts with yourself.

I have been fortunate to surround myself with people I love and for their sins, they love me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest (and no tongue in cheek) I think people are not looking for love here as most have been and bought the T- shirt.

I think are looking for more like companionship as the quick Shag can get a little tedious to some, and also as many lay themselves bear on here there is a chance they will meet someone who will share their kink.

Just my thoughts on it

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The only love that gives me validation is the love I have for myself.

I'm quite confident and happy in who I am. You can take me or leave me for it

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"To be honest (and no tongue in cheek) I think people are not looking for love here as most have been and bought the T- shirt.

I think are looking for more like companionship as the quick Shag can get a little tedious to some, and also as many lay themselves bear on here there is a chance they will meet someone who will share their kink.

Just my thoughts on it "

yeah i agree with you. it's why i liked the site when i first joined. my ex fucked me over pretty bad and i wasn't up for anything more than NSA anything.

even left fuck sites coz the guys i met on them wanted something more than NSA regular sex and even that was a bit much for me.

still, it's good to think about what you really want sometimes. i'm well aware my chances of finding emotionally available men on here is very near to zero so i don't expect it or seek it. even being friends is too much for most guys it seems, but i'm not arsed. i can even use that to my advantage.

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