FabSwingers.com forum: The 'connection' thing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered? "

I'd definitely say a connection is important for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on if they are fuck'n'go merchants or not

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Very much so. Much more passionate, which is what I seek. I temporarily fall in love. Then reality strikes!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"I think it depends on if they are fuck'n'go merchants or not"

I think there may even be room for both approaches.

9 times out of 10 I would want to have quite a "warm up". Chatting, social meet etc.

But there is that one time, every once in a while where it's basically I want to empty my balls!

Browsing around there appears to be people available for either. So that's good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree totally but wonder if women need it more for a better sexual experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered? "

Theres this moment that can be shared, when you feel something. You feel the intimacy of each other.

I prefer to connect with someone. It feels more personal and natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered? "

It's absolutely shite if I don't connect with someone.

If there is no connection I'm not really feeling that horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree totally but wonder if women need it more for a better sexual experience "

Some do and some don't I guess it depends on the person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree totally but wonder if women need it more for a better sexual experience "

I know I do...

but men are wired differently, aren't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to feel a connection with someone as it makes it more fun and feels better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a one to one meet I need a connection.

At a club when I'm in slutty mode, then no, I don't need a connection.

The sex is just different not better or worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree totally but wonder if women need it more for a better sexual experience "

I need it more and find men don't care so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only have with some one I've got a connection with, always been great but don't really have a comparison aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do the deed with a woman I connect with these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only do the deed with a woman I connect with these days

Love the username. You heard it from Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it."

Maybe cos they hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I think it depends on if they are fuck'n'go merchants or not"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

You can say that again. I still haven't figured them out

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

You think? Lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I need it. I've realised as I've got older anything else just don't do it the same. I know I'm weird

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think it depends on if they are fuck'n'go merchants or not"

And there are plenty of those in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How deep a connection are we talking? A mutual liking is ok for me

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I need it. I've realised as I've got older anything else just don't do it the same. I know I'm weird "

This may be a bit of a generalisation but I think a lot of men feel like that as they mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it."

Because some women mean "relationship" when they say "connection"?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

40% physical attraction, 40% mental connection and then 15% the "elusive element" followed by "5% of the unknown, indefinable part"

So yes need a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

You think? Lol"

Even more so when someone has turned up with percentages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very much so. Much more passionate, which is what I seek. I temporarily fall in love. Then reality strikes! "

I like that quote, temporarily fall in love. I rarely feel that kind of emotion unless its someone i have been seeing regularly but even then .. something just stops me from crossing that line. Im now worried that I wont be able to fall in love ever again because I have stopped myself for the last 4 years.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

You think? Lol

Even more so when someone has turned up with percentages

I just rolled my eyes when I saw that wtf lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I need it. I've realised as I've got older anything else just don't do it the same. I know I'm weird

This may be a bit of a generalisation but I think a lot of men feel like that as they mature

Faf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only do the deed with a woman I connect with these days

Love the username. You heard it from Jesus"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Connection and chemistry are key for me, even if it's at the most basic level - anytime where they've not been present has led to a less than satisfying experience.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I think for a lot of blokes, there may be a need for that connection, but they are "scared" to want it from someone.

It smacks of "relationship". It might seem like "strings".

But as long as everyone is on the same page, and this is FAB so we really should be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for a lot of blokes, there may be a need for that connection, but they are "scared" to want it from someone.

It smacks of "relationship". It might seem like "strings".

But as long as everyone is on the same page, and this is FAB so we really should be...

Very good point. I think its easy to get very anti emotion when you meet and its just fun and nothing else. Shame really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've realised I need it. I just don't enjoy sex otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very much so. Much more passionate, which is what I seek. I temporarily fall in love. Then reality strikes! "

^^^^this! Well, sort of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for a lot of blokes, there may be a need for that connection, but they are "scared" to want it from someone.

It smacks of "relationship". It might seem like "strings".

To me it doesn't. It means they don't think of me as 'ring an orgasm'.

Instead they understand my own feelings and I'm also wanting something.

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

"I've realised I need it. I just don't enjoy sex otherwise

This is the same for me too. I love the connection that's first made through the texting & then the coffee meet & then anticipating the playtime. I think the chemistry matters a lot. My best meets have been with people who I've had a very strong connection.

Carmel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered? "

Definitely better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dont get me wrong.. i dont fuck guys that i dont find attractive .. but if youre saying to go that bit further and develop an emotion towards them.. then that doesnt happen with me. It has in the past and i backed off.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

sec without connection can easely get boring in my oppinion. I don't need to fall in love, not even temporarily but I need to want the same thing and feel at ease, relaxed and excited. chances are if he doesn't get my humour or we can not have a chat we are not going to connect on a sexual level either.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it.

Maybe cos they hide it

Men are complicated aren't we?

Some would evaluate that it's the opposite

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why do women (generally) BELIEVE that men don't need a connection?...

They do...some just hide it."

Because prostitution....

The sex industry is the second largest in the world after arms trade. Majority of its consumers are male.

I don't wish to generalise that all will put their dick into anything but thems the facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's important to me, definitely. I couldn't just walk into a room and get down and dirty with a total stranger and nor could I if I didn't gel with that person. I know a lot of people can do that but I'm not one of them. Each to their own.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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why do you mean by connection?

i need to be fairly sure he's not a douche to want to fuck someone. do i need that 'click' or need to feel like i've known him for years...not really, i just like sex.

this does make a guy somewhat disposable and i'm fine with that.

but if he wants repeat meets then he's gonna have to be at least one of these things:

consistent, then i know where i am.

honest, then i know where i am.

a friend, who will probably be both of the above anyway, then i know where i am.

just don't dick me about and all is good basically.

fuck and go suits me just fine under those conditions and not many men can do any of them well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

Faster, less dropping out, better experience!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

You crack me up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

You crack me up lol"

Its true tho, lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

You crack me up lol

Its true tho, lol

Nutter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dafuq does my WiFi have tae dae wi better sex?

You crack me up lol

Its true tho, lol

Nutter lol"

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"How many men think it makes sex better or aren't bothered? "

Connection definitely makes a difference for me, yes you can have a 'shag' with anyone but a connection for me makes a massive difference and makes the moment more intense xx

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