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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

Costing me £700 a month for a 1 bed flat, thats without bills heating, council tax, virgin media walter..........expensive! been thinking of renting a room (£100 a week all in ish) and living with a family or other people in simmerla position to me and saving a load of money, has anyone done this or know anyone who has done this? if so whats it like? good experiences? bad?.......never know might move in with a swinger couple that would be funny lol pay my rent in kind that would be even cheaper lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't do it you will regret it and living with someone that swings has its downfalls... not trying to sound negitive but maybe look for something a bit cheaper. I love having my own place as its MY space...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends where in hertford but im looking to move down there to be near family and there is far cheaper than that around.fo hunting.look in local free papers etc, and just move.i wouldnt personally move in with others after having lived on your own.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't do it you will regret it and living with someone that swings has its downfalls... not trying to sound negitive but maybe look for something a bit cheaper. I love having my own place as its MY space... "

lol I do love living where I live, and having my own place to! but I like the sound of being about £500 a month better off also also I was joking about living with swingers lol but I wouldnt rule it out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends where in hertford but im looking to move down there to be near family and there is far cheaper than that around.fo hunting.look in local free papers etc, and just move.i wouldnt personally move in with others after having lived on your own.x"

I know I can find cheaper places but its only going to be about £100 a month cheaper, not worth moving for, plus im the only bloke in my bloke, witch I quite like lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"depends where in hertford but im looking to move down there to be near family and there is far cheaper than that around.fo hunting.look in local free papers etc, and just move.i wouldnt personally move in with others after having lived on your own.x

I know I can find cheaper places but its only going to be about £100 a month cheaper, not worth moving for, plus im the only bloke in my bloke, witch I quite like lol "

not one to pick up spelling errors but you might want to change that to block.... a bloke in a bloke might attract messages from people you would rather not...

good luck and hope it works out for ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends where in hertford but im looking to move down there to be near family and there is far cheaper than that around.fo hunting.look in local free papers etc, and just move.i wouldnt personally move in with others after having lived on your own.x

I know I can find cheaper places but its only going to be about £100 a month cheaper, not worth moving for, plus im the only bloke in my bloke, witch I quite like lol "

block rather lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends where in hertford but im looking to move down there to be near family and there is far cheaper than that around.fo hunting.look in local free papers etc, and just move.i wouldnt personally move in with others after having lived on your own.x

I know I can find cheaper places but its only going to be about £100 a month cheaper, not worth moving for, plus im the only bloke in my bloke, witch I quite like lol

not one to pick up spelling errors but you might want to change that to block.... a bloke in a bloke might attract messages from people you would rather not...

good luck and hope it works out for ya "

lol I just noticed thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

Costing me £700 a month for a 1 bed flat, thats without bills heating, council tax, virgin media walter.......... "

How much do you pay for Walter?

(sorry, couldn't resist)

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Excuse me he's virgin media walter, got to cost loads I imagine

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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago

sandwell

Think of moving to another part of the country? £500 a month round here will get you a good 3 bed semi!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids just move back in with me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of moving to another part of the country? £500 a month round here will get you a good 3 bed semi!!!!"

know what your saying, but I would strugle for work up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny, I was thinking of renting out my daughter's room @ £100 a week all in. She's at uni in Derby, her dad was going to buy her a flat there, and she still has her bedroom in the marital home, four miles from me.

Decided she's not going back to Derby, but Kingston to be a mental health nurse, so she'll be living back at home!

Good luck with your search!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some great advice there...hugely important is get everything discussed up front, MONEY prob the number 1.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck ."

Thanks for the advice buddy, I am not going to rush into anything. Whats my morals got to do with swinging? lol if I rented a room I wouldnt be taking girls back to my bedroom and fucking them wile the family im staying with have dinner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck .

Thanks for the advice buddy, I am not going to rush into anything. Whats my morals got to do with swinging? lol if I rented a room I wouldnt be taking girls back to my bedroom and fucking them wile the family im staying with have dinner lol "

lol sorry meant say for example you living with one person ...a family yeah see what your saying , but say you living with someone and its all good for a while until you find out they ohh i dnt know say against sex before marriage or are ultra ultra religious or something like that , itcan cause problems i been there before lol was not for a minute qwuestioning your morals as a human being hope it didnt come acroos that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck .

Thanks for the advice buddy, I am not going to rush into anything. Whats my morals got to do with swinging? lol if I rented a room I wouldnt be taking girls back to my bedroom and fucking them wile the family im staying with have dinner lol

lol sorry meant say for example you living with one person ...a family yeah see what your saying , but say you living with someone and its all good for a while until you find out they ohh i dnt know say against sex before marriage or are ultra ultra religious or something like that , itcan cause problems i been there before lol was not for a minute qwuestioning your morals as a human being hope it didnt come acroos that way "

not at all mate, thought was quite funny see what your saying, I need to find a family or singles that are simmerla to me and easy to live with

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck .

Thanks for the advice buddy, I am not going to rush into anything. Whats my morals got to do with swinging? lol if I rented a room I wouldnt be taking girls back to my bedroom and fucking them wile the family im staying with have dinner lol

lol sorry meant say for example you living with one person ...a family yeah see what your saying , but say you living with someone and its all good for a while until you find out they ohh i dnt know say against sex before marriage or are ultra ultra religious or something like that , itcan cause problems i been there before lol was not for a minute qwuestioning your morals as a human being hope it didnt come acroos that way

not at all mate, thought was quite funny see what your saying, I need to find a family or singles that are simmerla to me and easy to live with "

I got a room 100 quid a week in West Brom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id say has its up and down living with folk . depends how many living with one other person in a 2 bedroom is ok . depends on the person some are messy some not . their lifestyle , their morals (as you into swinging) their little things they might do , you would need to be quite tolerant as im sure there are times you will want to rip their head off and vice versa . but its cheaper and if it works out well its great , itslike having a live in mate . when it comes to the money side of things trust your instincts as i been messed aboutwith that before . either get an agreement in writing or money up front . thats my experience of it hope it helps and good luck .

Thanks for the advice buddy, I am not going to rush into anything. Whats my morals got to do with swinging? lol if I rented a room I wouldnt be taking girls back to my bedroom and fucking them wile the family im staying with have dinner lol

lol sorry meant say for example you living with one person ...a family yeah see what your saying , but say you living with someone and its all good for a while until you find out they ohh i dnt know say against sex before marriage or are ultra ultra religious or something like that , itcan cause problems i been there before lol was not for a minute qwuestioning your morals as a human being hope it didnt come acroos that way

not at all mate, thought was quite funny see what your saying, I need to find a family or singles that are simmerla to me and easy to live with

I got a room 100 quid a week in West Brom "

shame so far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes good money sense to rent a room, however, one would loose his/her independence.

Independence to make a mess without having to tidy up immediately in the communal areas

Independence to come and go as one pleases, especially if there are small children occupying the other parts of the house

Independence to invite anyone home to join you and to stay overnight

I have not come across room rental at 100 GBP per month, more like 60-70 GBP per week all in, council tax being extra.

The money saved can easily cover the cost of hotel accommodation should one decides he/she is need of some fun!

The OP would need to weigh up the loss of independence against monetary gain, IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, just realised the OP did not say 100 GBP per month, but per week, sorry!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


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Independence to make a mess without having to tidy up immediately in the communal areas

"

Or find a like minded soul

Add a pervy voyeur and yer quids in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a work colleague of mine lives in Crouch End and he has rooms at £1000 per month all in !!!!

Personally I thought that wss expensive but what would I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a work colleague of mine lives in Crouch End and he has rooms at £1000 per month all in !!!!

Personally I thought that wss expensive but what would I know

"

thats expesive my son rents out his whole flat in crouch end for 1300 and i thought that was outrageous .......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It makes good money sense to rent a room, however, one would loose his/her independence.

Independence to make a mess without having to tidy up immediately in the communal areas

Independence to come and go as one pleases, especially if there are small children occupying the other parts of the house

Independence to invite anyone home to join you and to stay overnight

I have not come across room rental at 100 GBP per month, more like 60-70 GBP per week all in, council tax being extra.

The money saved can easily cover the cost of hotel accommodation should one decides he/she is need of some fun!

The OP would need to weigh up the loss of independence against monetary gain, IMHO. "

Hi

Your right I would loose independence, but im at work 6days a week, most the time I wouldnt be there anyway, as far as shagging is concerned, that would be a down side. But im sick of paying someones morgage for them, if I live in a room I would save money twice as quick, in 2 years I would have a deposit for my own flat. fuck knows what im going to do, if something comes up I will probably go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rent a room for £75 a week all in , i have been really really lucky they are a lovely cpl know what i do and doesnt bother them . I only ever have ppl here when they at work during the day otherwise i go to meets or hotel still blooming broke at end month tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes good money sense to rent a room, however, one would loose his/her independence.

Independence to make a mess without having to tidy up immediately in the communal areas

Independence to come and go as one pleases, especially if there are small children occupying the other parts of the house

Independence to invite anyone home to join you and to stay overnight

I have not come across room rental at 100 GBP per month, more like 60-70 GBP per week all in, council tax being extra.

The money saved can easily cover the cost of hotel accommodation should one decides he/she is need of some fun!

The OP would need to weigh up the loss of independence against monetary gain, IMHO.

Hi

Your right I would loose independence, but im at work 6days a week, most the time I wouldnt be there anyway, as far as shagging is concerned, that would be a down side. But im sick of paying someones morgage for them, if I live in a room I would save money twice as quick, in 2 years I would have a deposit for my own flat. fuck knows what im going to do, if something comes up I will probably go "

Its a means to an end if you are saving that much on rent. Like you say save it up for a mortgage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you are paying £700 a month, plus utilities you could be paying your own mortgage now? ... then rent out rooms in your home to others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rent a room for £75 a week all in , i have been really really lucky they are a lovely cpl know what i do and doesnt bother them . I only ever have ppl here when they at work during the day otherwise i go to meets or hotel still blooming broke at end month tho "

something like that would be perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if you are paying £700 a month, plus utilities you could be paying your own mortgage now? ... then rent out rooms in your home to others. "

Yh your right I could, but I need a £20.000 deposit first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you are paying £700 a month, plus utilities you could be paying your own mortgage now? ... then rent out rooms in your home to others.

Yh your right I could, but I need a £20.000 deposit first "

bank of mum and dad ???? i helped both my kids saved all the keep money they gave me ...mind u u didnt need 20 grand deposit in those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its has taken time to find the right place tho , in the 2 and half years since i left my husband i have moved 6 times all been rooms and this is the first time ive felt at home x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if you are paying £700 a month, plus utilities you could be paying your own mortgage now? ... then rent out rooms in your home to others.

Yh your right I could, but I need a £20.000 deposit first

bank of mum and dad ???? i helped both my kids saved all the keep money they gave me ...mind u u didnt need 20 grand deposit in those days "

ha ha I wish I had a mum and dad bank lol my dad is so fucking tight, he dont even send me a birthday card lol old bastard! and I earn more money than my poor mum I dont need charity I can do it myself, just thinking of whats the best plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its has taken time to find the right place tho , in the 2 and half years since i left my husband i have moved 6 times all been rooms and this is the first time ive felt at home x"

bloody hell! 6 times sod that! probably cause you tel them you swing lol I will keep that one hush hush lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope nothing at all to do with the swinging first place knew as well but that was as was an x swinging friend none of other places knew what i do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have u thought about a park home ...i live in one by the sea....ok the van belongs to me but my actual living costs inclding rent rates bills insurance etc are around a hundred pound a week .you might find one to rent locally ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have u thought about a park home ...i live in one by the sea....ok the van belongs to me but my actual living costs inclding rent rates bills insurance etc are around a hundred pound a week .you might find one to rent locally ?"

that was something i did look into as there is a park 2 mins up road from work however im sad to say that the said park is full of drug addicts, dealers and all sorts of other ppl i really wouldnt feel safe around .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure there are park homes near me, but sounds cheap, but there are quite a few travelers sites but dont fancy that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the best thing for me, is to find a sugar muma lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have u thought about a park home ...i live in one by the sea....ok the van belongs to me but my actual living costs inclding rent rates bills insurance etc are around a hundred pound a week .you might find one to rent locally ?"

Park/lodge homes in this area will not allow you to live 52 weeks in the premises, even though you own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

move to Nofolk some lovely places on the market to rent 100 pounds a week and next village a really sweet cottage lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol I cant just move away im self employed all my work is in london hertfordshire and surrounding areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have u thought about a park home ...i live in one by the sea....ok the van belongs to me but my actual living costs inclding rent rates bills insurance etc are around a hundred pound a week .you might find one to rent locally ?

Park/lodge homes in this area will not allow you to live 52 weeks in the premises, even though you own it. "

mines like that 46 week season but i stay with family catch up with friends and have a holiday ...it works 4 me ..and a nice young man is paying the mortgage on my house .......sorry bed bouncer !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have u thought about a park home ...i live in one by the sea....ok the van belongs to me but my actual living costs inclding rent rates bills insurance etc are around a hundred pound a week .you might find one to rent locally ?

Park/lodge homes in this area will not allow you to live 52 weeks in the premises, even though you own it.

mines like that 46 week season but i stay with family catch up with friends and have a holiday ...it works 4 me ..and a nice young man is paying the mortgage on my house .......sorry bed bouncer !!!"

lol good on ya mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is easy to say the money saved would be put aside toward the deposit for a place of your own.

In reality, and I have come across this in a number of people I know, they spend what they have saved instead, on more expensive holidays, cars, clothes, accessories, gadgets and leisure activities.

The OP appears to have a mature head on his young and fit body, perhaps he has the will and determination to make it work, so good luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is easy to say the money saved would be put aside toward the deposit for a place of your own.

In reality, and I have come across this in a number of people I know, they spend what they have saved instead, on more expensive holidays, cars, clothes, accessories, gadgets and leisure activities.

The OP appears to have a mature head on his young and fit body, perhaps he has the will and determination to make it work, so good luck to you!

"

hers looking for a sugar mama pearl ..........hes pretty fit got a bit of the lewis hamilton about him ... you could do worse !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck in his search for a sugar mummy then!

I am looking for a sugar daddy myself, so count me out!

JOKE - I am an independent woman, and am NOT looking for a sugar daddy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is easy to say the money saved would be put aside toward the deposit for a place of your own.

In reality, and I have come across this in a number of people I know, they spend what they have saved instead, on more expensive holidays, cars, clothes, accessories, gadgets and leisure activities.

The OP appears to have a mature head on his young and fit body, perhaps he has the will and determination to make it work, so good luck to you!

"

no your probably right pearl I will spend it on hors and fast cars lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I think the best thing for me, is to find a sugar muma lol"

there's not an 'S' in my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the best thing for me, is to find a sugar muma lol

there's not an 'S' in my name "

nae sugar that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the best thing for me, is to find a sugar muma lol

there's not an 'S' in my name "

u could always replace the eff with an ess.....wouldnt make any difference !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

local sugar mumas only please lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"local sugar mumas only please lol "

well if you are going to be that fussy, I'll spend my fortune on someone else!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha spend it wisely

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