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Tips Andy pointers from the women of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok .. so iv been on here for a long long time and iv met some really gorgeous women and had a lot of fun with some really good veris.. so why is it that women lately just don't message back ? ... so I put it to you ladies .. not just for me but for every guy on here experiencing the same ... what is it you want and look for and what tips and pointers would you give me ... oh by the way if you want to meet me just message haha ... thanks ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to look at your pics....and there weren't any. So I clicked away. That could be one issue....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No picture and you don't really say anything in your profile

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I went to look at your pics....and there weren't any. So I clicked away. That could be one issue.... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok pics are done... and it's pretty hard to talk about yourself with out sounding arrogant haha

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... i see a huge red flag in what you wrote....

it the classic "yes i am thinking with the brains in my trousers" mistake....

if you are trying to meet couples.... but you only want advice from women..... i tend to find there are "two" people in those situations who make decisions..... and you are leaving out / ignoring 50% of the making decision process....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks .. that's actually pretty helpful !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics please. Also what do you like in a partner? (I use the word partner loosely) Do you have particular aesthetic preferences, or viewpoints you seek or so on....?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Ok pics are done... and it's pretty hard to talk about yourself with out sounding arrogant haha"

What is it you are looking for?

You can talk about yourself and not sound arrogant.

Lots of people do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's also helpful .. thanks .. see this is working

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your profile is all about you, nothing about what you are offering.

Top marks for referring to women rather than girls though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I will add some stuff now

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been here for 7 years, and personally I find from the last 2 years most men are looking for instashag, mens attitudes on here have changed dramatically, making me feel like an unpaid prostitute, here to be at beck and call to them, to order like a takeaway menu.

To make it worse, they seem to think they don't need to have a profile or public pictures, unless it is of their cock of course, as that is all we need, to make a decision about 'do we want to meet you'

So FFS as a first course of action have a bloody profile! You are not ordering No 139 off the Chinese menu and we want to see what f*cking No 98 may be.....not taking a lucky f*cking dip from a 99p surprise bag!

So before complaining make sure you have done all of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here for 7 years, and personally I find from the last 2 years most men are looking for instashag, mens attitudes on here have changed dramatically, making me feel like an unpaid prostitute, here to be at beck and call to them, to order like a takeaway menu.

To make it worse, they seem to think they don't need to have a profile or public pictures, unless it is of their cock of course, as that is all we need, to make a decision about 'do we want to meet you'

So FFS as a first course of action have a bloody profile! You are not ordering No 139 off the Chinese menu and we want to see what f*cking No 98 may be.....not taking a lucky f*cking dip from a 99p surprise bag!

So before complaining make sure you have done all of the above! "

Bloody well said. What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's Andy pointers, and why are you tipping him away from us?

But on a serious note, the very few pics you have are good, but too few. You're profile text is also lacking in what your after, your preference of woman, and what you can offer back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ik change it but I have lots of pics in private x

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By *assybitchWoman
over a year ago

around the world

[Removed by poster at 16/03/17 20:48:45]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok pics are done... and it's pretty hard to talk about yourself with out sounding arrogant haha"

Check out other guys profiles to see if you can pick out parts you could use on your own profile.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Anyone please feel free to tell me what sounds arrogant in my profile just to get my point a little more across, guys! You have to make an effort whether you like it or not, if you don't, then don't fucking complain, it is as simple as that!

Seems you just want it handed to you on a plate which just ain't going to happen, unless any hole is a goal of course Then go for it!

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"I went to look at your pics....and there weren't any. So I clicked away. That could be one issue.... "

Pics do help don't they?!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I've been here for 7 years, and personally I find from the last 2 years most men are looking for instashag, mens attitudes on here have changed dramatically, making me feel like an unpaid prostitute, here to be at beck and call to them, to order like a takeaway menu.

To make it worse, they seem to think they don't need to have a profile or public pictures, unless it is of their cock of course, as that is all we need, to make a decision about 'do we want to meet you'

So FFS as a first course of action have a bloody profile! You are not ordering No 139 off the Chinese menu and we want to see what f*cking No 98 may be.....not taking a lucky f*cking dip from a 99p surprise bag!

So before complaining make sure you have done all of the above! "

Not all I'd state for you op, and you've already taken some feedback on board. But foxy shows how things are.

Otherwise I'd add that the sheer effort and time needed to mail everyone is massive. I work harder now to wish guys well,. I think it's better for you to not expect replies but to be happy when you do get them.

Good luck op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peaks and Troughs, everyone has them.

I was going to say the women on here are like buses but it would only have gotten taken the wrong way by someone

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The blurb is much better from what I remember but you definitely need some more pics!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

My desire comes and goes, but essentially as I have a sexy male someone else has to be fun and sexy.

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