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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is too many???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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1, by then they're already 'tainted'. i only meet virgins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1, by then they're already 'tainted'. i only meet virgins."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is too many???"

Depends: one will be too much for some if you turn them down!

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

999..... after that fab breaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3.141 Once you hit pi you've basically been overused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"42"

Damn. That was my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3.141 Once you hit pi you've basically been overused "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing for me . I wouldn't judge someone based on the amount of veris they have

Mrs

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've been told several I have TOO many at 300+

HOWEVER, I have been on the site ten years. I work in a swingers club now and I host socials occasionally.

Is it therfore really that many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1, by then they're already 'tainted'. i only meet virgins."

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I've been told several I have TOO many at 300+

HOWEVER, I have been on the site ten years. I work in a swingers club now and I host socials occasionally.

Is it therfore really that many? "

Yes

See you in a bit

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I've been told several I have TOO many at 300+

HOWEVER, I have been on the site ten years. I work in a swingers club now and I host socials occasionally.

Is it therfore really that many?

Yes

See you in a bit "

Least you aren't going to veri me again

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Who gives a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll never know how many veris someone really has, so it's pointless setting a limit. It doesn't reflect the amount that people meet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you been on here for years then 50 plus is nothing. I cam and have social meets but some don't read them. I really don't give a damn how many veris I clock up as im here for fun. Im quite picky and it's already been a few weeks without sex

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"If you been on here for years then 50 plus is nothing. I cam and have social meets but some don't read them. I really don't give a damn how many veris I clock up as im here for fun. Im quite picky and it's already been a few weeks without sex "

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"If you been on here for years then 50 plus is nothing. I cam and have social meets but some don't read them. I really don't give a damn how many veris I clock up as im here for fun. Im quite picky and it's already been a few weeks without sex "

i got 12 cam veris the day i joined.

other profiles i had 50 fuck veris in less than a year, not really arsed. i like a lot of sex and most guys seem to have low sex drives or are too busy fucking the rest of the site to give me enough sex.

now i don't even have sex, decided if men aren't committed to me then they aren't having sex. i get bored looking for sex anyway or deciding who to chat to just for the sake of something my dildo can do.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Exactly. I have quite a few mainly from club scene, and socials a lot of who I haven't played with

That's not including the unlos

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I don't have enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where can I buy one.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

It depends, but if a profile has 'play meet' veris to the tune of 2 or 3 per week (on average), it would turn me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 4 a month is a lot

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Who gives a shit.

"

Me actually, usually about 7.45 every morning, good diet see

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

If we gave & got veris from everyone we've met we'd probs be up to 100+ as we enjoy group socials.

If we are talking play meets we'd only have 3..but we also play in clubs where no veris are mentioned.

So the numbers are pretty useless but they do sometimes give an indication of personality..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people concerened about veris numbers?

Is it because....

1. They are here for a relationship not nsa sex?

2. They are not confident in their sexual performance and will think a well experienced sex partner will judge them as poor?

3. As a man they like to believe they are amazing, the best, and they may not be with any serious competition?

For me the more the better. They know what they are doing, are relaxed, uninhibited and are more likely to turn up.

Why DO some want inexperienced nsa sex partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who gives a shit.

"
I am with you ......... sometimes it better not to show a lot here as people know to much .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have enough "

You have to find a new verifier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told i have too many verifications for a single guy. I do believe in quality over quantity. All my meets are quality.

And i found every one attractive. I'm here for sex and i make no apologies for Meeting others

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why are people concerened about veris numbers?

Is it because....

1. They are here for a relationship not nsa sex? * Doubtful.

2. They are not confident in their sexual performance and will think a well experienced sex partner will judge them as poor? * Men do feel pressure to perform yes.

3. As a man they like to believe they are amazing, the best, and they may not be with any serious competition? * No, but it's nice to feel wanted for you, the person, not just the appendage swinging between your legs, and can you hurry up please, as I have someone else booked in an hour?

For me the more the better. They know what they are doing, are relaxed, uninhibited and are more likely to turn up. * I can sympathise with the not turning up part, I've been stood up too many times, yet I've never let anyone down.

Why DO some want inexperienced nsa sex partners? * Not inexperienced, but rather not players. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Been told i have too many verifications for a single guy. I do believe in quality over quantity. All my meets are quality.

And i found every one attractive. I'm here for sex and i make no apologies for Meeting others "

I've received "Sorry, you're too active for me" before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been told i have too many verifications for a single guy. I do believe in quality over quantity. All my meets are quality.

And i found every one attractive. I'm here for sex and i make no apologies for Meeting others

I've received "Sorry, you're too active for me" before "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Who gives a shit.

Me actually, usually about 7.45 every morning, good diet see "

This was an 'overshare' wasn't it?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"1, by then they're already 'tainted'. i only meet virgins."

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Why are people concerened about veris numbers?

.......

For me the more the better. They know what they are doing, are relaxed, uninhibited and are more likely to turn up.

Why DO some want inexperienced nsa sex partners?"

This

I don't want someone inexperienced. I am not here to teach anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have enough "

Well I would but y'know

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't have enough

You have to find a new verifier "

Oh the effort. Can I just become a socialite?

I should come on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's bizarre to me how on a site full of people who don't want to be judged for their sex lives and their place in this site , that they in turn judge other users based on number of meets.

We have quite a few because guess what ? I like sex !!! And Mr enjoys seeing me with others . We don't meet 'just anyone' and if someone wants to judge on the volume of meets they aren't the kind of person I want to meet anyway

Mrs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There you go, all the info you'll ever need.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum-search/How%2bmany%2bveris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bizarre to me how on a site full of people who don't want to be judged for their sex lives and their place in this site , that they in turn judge other users based on number of meets.

We have quite a few because guess what ? I like sex !!! And Mr enjoys seeing me with others . We don't meet 'just anyone' and if someone wants to judge on the volume of meets they aren't the kind of person I want to meet anyway

Mrs "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I haven't had a verification from every man I've shagged in the past 40 years but no doubt it would be regarded as 'too many' for the precious on a swinging site and even if I had, unless I display them, they are never going to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people concerened about veris numbers?

Is it because....

1. They are here for a relationship not nsa sex? * Doubtful.

2. They are not confident in their sexual performance and will think a well experienced sex partner will judge them as poor? * Men do feel pressure to perform yes.

3. As a man they like to believe they are amazing, the best, and they may not be with any serious competition? * No, but it's nice to feel wanted for you, the person, not just the appendage swinging between your legs, and can you hurry up please, as I have someone else booked in an hour?

For me the more the better. They know what they are doing, are relaxed, uninhibited and are more likely to turn up. * I can sympathise with the not turning up part, I've been stood up too many times, yet I've never let anyone down.

Why DO some want inexperienced nsa sex partners? * Not inexperienced, but rather not players. "

Ok but Why not players?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are naive enough to believe that those showing only a few veris haven't had more meets in reality then more fool them

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


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Ok but Why not players?"

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not"

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a start they shouldn't be called Veri's because ultimately they read more like trip advisor reviews. A verifications purpose for me is to establish if a user is genuine and I use the photo verification tick for this purpose. If I want to know how she sucks dick, swallows or not, or is 'one not to be missed' I'd rather message and ask or find out myself via meeting her, rather than read about it from the army of kints who've been in before me.

M1CKS

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"For a start they shouldn't be called Veri's because ultimately they read more like trip advisor reviews. A verifications purpose for me is to establish if a user is genuine and I use the photo verification tick for this purpose. If I want to know how she sucks dick, swallows or not, or is 'one not to be missed' I'd rather message and ask or find out myself via meeting her, rather than read about it from the army of kints who've been in before me.

M1CKS "

Pmsl but spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take people on face value, but I do take into consideration what is written by the person verifying them and ask about some things that have been written. Anything to do with being made to squirt will put me off, for instance.

Reading that they go to cinemas, gang bangs, and do that frequently, makes me think they wouldn't spend time with me how I enjoy it. I could be wrong, but that's the impression I get, and I like intimate sex, not hole filling-focus on coming sex, with whoever happens to be convenient. It's a mind block thing I have.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???"

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager ."

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guys veris dont bother me. I like reading them because I am naturally a nosey person. If they have a few then its more likely they are actually going to meet and not just string along on cam/kik etc (which i have had happen a couple of times)

Then again everyone is on here for different reasons,looking for different things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not"

Oh. Do you have feelings for all the women you have had sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???"

Depends on how many are 'real' verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have about 40 veris. Ive been here a couple of years and some are from repeat meets, socials etc. Ive now chosen to hide my summary and only show a handful of my verifications (when my profile is unhidden) I've definitely had people judge me in the past on the number of veris I have. You also find that guys become increasingly "entitled" When youre well veried, like why won't you meet me? Youve met everyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verfications are quite humourous and off putting at the same time. Especially when someone is looking for something regular but they meet a different person everyother day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager ."

I don't mind being a notch on the bedpost, as long as I had the kind of sex I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have no Verifications you're fucked. And if you do you are. Can't win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think verfications are quite humourous and off putting at the same time. Especially when someone is looking for something regular but they meet a different person everyother day. "

Could that not mean they haven't found the regular partner or they prefer regular but still have one offs? Regular doesn't mean exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a start they shouldn't be called Veri's because ultimately they read more like trip advisor reviews. A verifications purpose for me is to establish if a user is genuine and I use the photo verification tick for this purpose. If I want to know how she sucks dick, swallows or not, or is 'one not to be missed' I'd rather message and ask or find out myself via meeting her, rather than read about it from the army of kints who've been in before me.

M1CKS "

I am sure veris started as a "genuine human" but they have grown into a reviews and that is where we are now. Otherwise Fab would have a tick box.

So i assume when you buy anything or go on holiday you never read reviews? More exiting that way? Surely it is better to know what someone is like before meeting for sex than plunging in cold?

I cannot help but think some folks are looking for more than just sex. All these socials, chemistry, they must be choosy, look right, have the right accent, write good english, not had too many, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think verfications are quite humourous and off putting at the same time. Especially when someone is looking for something regular but they meet a different person everyother day. "

It takes time to find a regular. If you don't click etc why would you go back

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we've met lots more than have verified us, only been told a couple of times we've met too many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think verfications are quite humourous and off putting at the same time. Especially when someone is looking for something regular but they meet a different person everyother day.

It takes time to find a regular. If you don't click etc why would you go back "

Exactly. You have to try before you buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it."

Very good point.

Guys you have no idea how many men some women fuck. Does it matter if its 10 or 100.. really? Shes got more experience and less likely to mess you around.. think about that!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot. "

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I think verfications are quite humourous and off putting at the same time. Especially when someone is looking for something regular but they meet a different person everyother day. "

i actually had to meet about 2 or 3 guys a day to end with a fair amount of regulars (and get enough sex). so i got a lot of veris initially then they dropped off as hardly anyone verifies more than once.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours . "

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?"

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours . "

So the supposed users who are out for what they want sexually are parasites ?

They drain everyone else's energy for their own satisfaction ?

What a complete load of tosh !

There are plenty of people on here who recognise NSA sex as just that , and enjoy it with others of a similar mind . This doesn't make them users or drainers if other people's energy .

Some may say that a set of rules , social meets , endless messaging and the like are a drain of energy . Energy which is better spent on getting down and dirty with a meet .

I speak as a couple who would possibly be the type you perceive as users , and we have yet to been seen as such by anyone we've met . Which brings me to the how many veris are too many subject .

For us , we don't think there can be too many veris . If we want to meet for a no holds barred sex sesh , we prefer to meet someone who is clearly up for just that . The more veris they have for this type of meet the better . If we want to meet for a more intimate time , maybe less is more , but we wouldn't know how many veris they have , so we would go by the type of veri shown .

The veri system can work , but will always be somewhat vague when they aren't shown , or just a select few are on show . But they're better than nothing I guess

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager ."

You've jumped to several, misinformed conclusions.

Why does someone who has plenty of veris suddenly become a 'user' ? We have plenty of veris and those people like us, we like them and we have repeat meets. They weren't cast aside or forgotten.

We have also had one-off spontaneous club meets, where they enjoyed themselves as much as us. Neither party used the other, both enjoyed it for what it was.

You are welcome to your opinion, but in mine it is completely flawed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck . "

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to drain the men I meet

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I like to drain the men I meet "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck .

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

"

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average about 1 meet/veri a month and do sometimes wonder if that's enough to put many women off but then i think fuck it that's what I'm here for, their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average about 1 meet/veri a month and do sometimes wonder if that's enough to put many women off but then i think fuck it that's what I'm here for, their loss "

You, sir, are a good looking fucker. I'm only surprised you only average one meet a month. Good on ya

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

Like the real world if men have a lot they are considered successful because it is not easy to do so on here. Women and couples it is much easier to get a meet. Some people have a mindset like the saying 'A key that opens many locks is a master key but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock' it isn't nice but that is the double standards and misogynist world we live in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoken to people and clicked with them,up to arranging a meet,for them to back out citing too many veri's.

Of course there could be any number of reasons for not meeting someone.

I've a few myself,and only show recent.

Hopefully my charm,wit,cheeky smile and the filthy look in my eyes will get me through...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I average about 1 meet/veri a month and do sometimes wonder if that's enough to put many women off but then i think fuck it that's what I'm here for, their loss

You, sir, are a good looking fucker. I'm only surprised you only average one meet a month. Good on ya "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to drain the men I meet "

Enjoyable isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it.

Very good point.

Guys you have no idea how many men some women fuck. Does it matter if its 10 or 100.. really? Shes got more experience and less likely to mess you around.. think about that!!"

If you think having fucked 300 give you the right type if experience think again. That type of experience isn't for everyone....just like many of you who are saying someone with only a few has got the right experience for you.

There's alot of bullsh*t comments on both sides in this post. ..its more about defending your own rather than understanding and accepting that people have different views if avoiding people with lots of veris or a few veris.

I like to see fewer and regular meets than an army.

I'd like to say too that my experience has been...those with lots of veris tend to be:

1. popular= less chance of meeting

2. Inflated egos...and some arrogance

3. The ones who have so many messages and so block delete... ( often waste of time messaging in reality)

4. They have more options and so unless you 'stand out from the crowd' to use an over used forum comment most are wasting their time messaging.

5. I've had 7 no shows.... All were popular well verified.... I've yet to have a no show from a low verified newer woman..... think about it.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck .

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

"

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god "

Yours was the unprovoked, negative, fun sucking, mass generalisation post, that initiated the replies!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Veri's don't put me off.......99% of mine are from socials or coffee meets. I ask not to be varied when it's a play meet. That's between me and my partner in crime at the time. If someone wants to judge me because of how many I have without reading them ( although hidden at the moment) that's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I specifically ask my meets not to verify me. I prefer my fab veri virgin status. In a world full of Kardishans be an Audrey.

Ps - fs

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"3.141 Once you hit pi you've basically been overused "

Only if it was cream Pi

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I ain't fussed how many someone has, I like to read them tho, as I love seeing inside jokes on them that I don't understand. For me that means they had a laugh and connection for the time they spent together and that's what I'm about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck .

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god "

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I've turned down some for having too many. Can't remember how i defined what number exceeded my threshold.

Anyway, that's proof that beggars can be choosers

PS I'm not a beggar

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

This is a wierd thread that pops up quite often.

Specially when people talk about amounts over periods of time......

At a socil/club/party its possible to get an awful lot very quickly!

Isn't that what swinging is all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a start they shouldn't be called Veri's because ultimately they read more like trip advisor reviews. A verifications purpose for me is to establish if a user is genuine and I use the photo verification tick for this purpose. If I want to know how she sucks dick, swallows or not, or is 'one not to be missed' I'd rather message and ask or find out myself via meeting her, rather than read about it from the army of kints who've been in before me.

M1CKS "

That is what I used to think when I first joined and still do!

Verifications by meet are to prove I am real and actually do meet. Then I realised people use them for much more then that.

How people use them is upto them because there is no right or wrong. What works for you may not work for others...

For example some people want to know before meeting does the potential play partner have stamina, cum multiple times, don't forget the skill of giving jelly legs etc etc

The list is endless and so it should be for people to try and arrange maximum pleasure.

For me personally:

I have given basic to detailed veri's and have many from social/events, clubs to intimate adventures around the UK.

I used to rotate my veri's just to give people an idea on the type of person I am. Especially because my profile is basic.

However...

Seeing is believing!

I don't make my choice on meeting people by reading their verifications. Does nothing for me and I need to get to know the person to know if we can be compatible. Just because they had an awesome time with someone else does not mean it is guaranteed with me.

Every experience is unique.

If people say they heard soo many things about me through people we happen to know. I got skills or i'm good at certain things they want to try blah blah blah I prefer not to meet them.

I refuse to be just a number or used as an extra cock.

I have a username damn it and it's Adam69XXX

If you want me, get to know me yourself instead of following others. I make my own choices so I need to meet people who can make their own mind up.

The real fun is finding things out about each other and exploring the possibilities. The build up to a meet and then sharing the built up energy for mutual satisfaction is really intense.

Having said all of that...

Verifications are fun to go back to as a personal note and read about the good times especially if long distance you can't meet as regular as you would like with that person.

I have been lucky to get some really good veri's, but at times I think people are being polite with choice of words...

They are much more cheeky in person

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

Oh. Do you have feelings for all the women you have had sex with?"

There's a difference between having feelings for someone, and liking, and being turned on by someone, isn't there? If there's no chemistry between us, it won't happen for me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it.

Very good point.

Guys you have no idea how many men some women fuck. Does it matter if its 10 or 100.. really? Shes got more experience and less likely to mess you around.. think about that!!

If you think having fucked 300 give you the right type if experience think again. That type of experience isn't for everyone....just like many of you who are saying someone with only a few has got the right experience for you.

There's alot of bullsh*t comments on both sides in this post. ..its more about defending your own rather than understanding and accepting that people have different views if avoiding people with lots of veris or a few veris.

I like to see fewer and regular meets than an army.

I'd like to say too that my experience has been...those with lots of veris tend to be:

1. popular= less chance of meeting

2. Inflated egos...and some arrogance

3. The ones who have so many messages and so block delete... ( often waste of time messaging in reality)

4. They have more options and so unless you 'stand out from the crowd' to use an over used forum comment most are wasting their time messaging.

5. I've had 7 no shows.... All were popular well verified.... I've yet to have a no show from a low verified newer woman..... think about it."

Well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???"

More than 1.

Less than 99?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3.141 Once you hit pi you've basically been overused

Only if it was cream Pi "

You filthy bastard! I'm just jealous i don't think of that.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it.

Very good point.

Guys you have no idea how many men some women fuck. Does it matter if its 10 or 100.. really? Shes got more experience and less likely to mess you around.. think about that!!

If you think having fucked 300 give you the right type if experience think again. That type of experience isn't for everyone....just like many of you who are saying someone with only a few has got the right experience for you.

There's alot of bullsh*t comments on both sides in this post. ..its more about defending your own rather than understanding and accepting that people have different views if avoiding people with lots of veris or a few veris.

I like to see fewer and regular meets than an army.

I'd like to say too that my experience has been...those with lots of veris tend to be:

1. popular= less chance of meeting

2. Inflated egos...and some arrogance

3. The ones who have so many messages and so block delete... ( often waste of time messaging in reality)

4. They have more options and so unless you 'stand out from the crowd' to use an over used forum comment most are wasting their time messaging.

5. I've had 7 no shows.... All were popular well verified.... I've yet to have a no show from a low verified newer woman..... think about it."

Sheesh. I've been having sex for 40 years and I've been single for 30 of those. You will never know how many men that's been with as I don't have veris for them.

What about those of us that don't show some or all of or veris?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Seven hundred and ninety four thousand, six hundred and twenty eight

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark."

I utterly agree with you. He contradicts himself constantly, misses the point of threads, ignores others points of view, calling some parasites and users and won't own his own comments

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Seven hundred and ninety four thousand, six hundred and twenty eight "

Slacker, was that all you managed last month?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not sure why people think that being verified a lot means we are only here for notches on bedposts, soulless sex, etc etc. I have over 300 verifications and can state quite definitely that not one of those meets were notches, or soulless. We all had a blast.

There may be people out there who treat the verification as more important than the person they met, but they are very few and far between, and usually don't stay here long. Judging others for the amount of sex they have on a site specifically geared toward people looking to meet others for sex is ungenerous at best. It's putting blame on the person who chooses to fulfil their wants in a responsible way for something that is blameless.

Think of it. You're judging someone for enjoying one of the best feeling things on this planet. You're up there, sneering at someone who has chosen to spend their time in a way they want to. That's like laughing at gardeners for the amount of flowers they grow, or stamp collectors for always looking for a rarer stamp. Poor behaviour, pure and simple.

If you don't like your meets experienced, well, the number of verifications on their profile gives you an excellent indication of what to do. No need to add an insult on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure why people think that being verified a lot means we are only here for notches on bedposts, soulless sex, etc etc. I have over 300 verifications and can state quite definitely that not one of those meets were notches, or soulless. We all had a blast.

There may be people out there who treat the verification as more important than the person they met, but they are very few and far between, and usually don't stay here long. Judging others for the amount of sex they have on a site specifically geared toward people looking to meet others for sex is ungenerous at best. It's putting blame on the person who chooses to fulfil their wants in a responsible way for something that is blameless.

Think of it. You're judging someone for enjoying one of the best feeling things on this planet. You're up there, sneering at someone who has chosen to spend their time in a way they want to. That's like laughing at gardeners for the amount of flowers they grow, or stamp collectors for always looking for a rarer stamp. Poor behaviour, pure and simple.

If you don't like your meets experienced, well, the number of verifications on their profile gives you an excellent indication of what to do. No need to add an insult on top. "

Perfectly put

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Seven hundred and ninety four thousand, six hundred and twenty eight

Slacker, was that all you managed last month?"

Ah, last month you say?

*rushes off for a lengthy recount....

brb

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

i believe i don't need veries to tell me who's a parasite a user and who's not . my sixth sense never lets me down when it comes to spotting the user types who will drain me as the attempt to use me .

but if your not that sensitive or in touch with your own energy and the energy others give off,your best to avoid those with tons of veries who meet lets say one new person a week for sex because the truth is there probably drainers hence why no one sticks around them past that one using fuck .

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark."

nothing funny in the comment fella just my opinion of you straight up just like your comment was straight up don't give a straight up opinion if you don't want one back is the moral of this story .

I may let the woman get away with that due to my upbringing but a guy never if a guy wants to dish it out I will dish it out back its that simple really ,

but hay I respect your stand up attitude proves you have a set unlike many on here .

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark.

I utterly agree with you. He contradicts himself constantly, misses the point of threads, ignores others points of view, calling some parasites and users and won't own his own comments "

your entitled to your opinion on me tipsy my opinion of you will stay with me though due to being raised by a single parent my mother,

which means I have far to much respect for women instilled in me to ever voice just a opinion when I can easily just walk on by which I'm doing here by the way walking away.

not because I'm scared to voice a opinion or back it up but because what's the point your mind is made up on me so I feel no need to take things further as it would be a useless waste of my energy ,

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark.

I utterly agree with you. He contradicts himself constantly, misses the point of threads, ignores others points of view, calling some parasites and users and won't own his own comments

your entitled to your opinion on me tipsy my opinion of you will stay with me though due to being raised by a single parent my mother,

which means I have far to much respect for women instilled in me to ever voice just a opinion when I can easily just walk on by which I'm doing here by the way walking away.

not because I'm scared to voice a opinion or back it up but because what's the point your mind is made up on me so I feel no need to take things further as it would be a useless waste of my energy , "

You do come out with some fairy tales to cover you tracks and backpedal. Read your posts and own them.

My name is Topsy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ok but Why not players?

Sharing fun with like-minded others is fine, being a notch on a scoresheet is not

So you fuck a 40 year old woman with five veris in two years who has actually fucked 300 men in two years.

Think about it.

Very good point.

Guys you have no idea how many men some women fuck. Does it matter if its 10 or 100.. really? Shes got more experience and less likely to mess you around.. think about that!!

If you think having fucked 300 give you the right type if experience think again. That type of experience isn't for everyone....just like many of you who are saying someone with only a few has got the right experience for you.

There's alot of bullsh*t comments on both sides in this post. ..its more about defending your own rather than understanding and accepting that people have different views if avoiding people with lots of veris or a few veris.

I like to see fewer and regular meets than an army.

I'd like to say too that my experience has been...those with lots of veris tend to be:

1. popular= less chance of meeting

2. Inflated egos...and some arrogance

3. The ones who have so many messages and so block delete... ( often waste of time messaging in reality)

4. They have more options and so unless you 'stand out from the crowd' to use an over used forum comment most are wasting their time messaging.

5. I've had 7 no shows.... All were popular well verified.... I've yet to have a no show from a low verified newer woman..... think about it.

Sheesh. I've been having sex for 40 years and I've been single for 30 of those. You will never know how many men that's been with as I don't have veris for them.

What about those of us that don't show some or all of or veris?

"

I always ask.... simple. Also one can spot them in the forums quite easily too.

I never meet formites for few reasons too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Display your veris with pride , those who are judgemental are just oxygen thieves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a start they shouldn't be called Veri's because ultimately they read more like trip advisor reviews. A verifications purpose for me is to establish if a user is genuine and I use the photo verification tick for this purpose. If I want to know how she sucks dick, swallows or not, or is 'one not to be missed' I'd rather message and ask or find out myself via meeting her, rather than read about it from the army of kints who've been in before me.

M1CKS

That is what I used to think when I first joined and still do!

Verifications by meet are to prove I am real and actually do meet. Then I realised people use them for much more then that.

How people use them is upto them because there is no right or wrong. What works for you may not work for others...

For example some people want to know before meeting does the potential play partner have stamina, cum multiple times, don't forget the skill of giving jelly legs etc etc

The list is endless and so it should be for people to try and arrange maximum pleasure.

For me personally:

I have given basic to detailed veri's and have many from social/events, clubs to intimate adventures around the UK.

I used to rotate my veri's just to give people an idea on the type of person I am. Especially because my profile is basic.

However...

Seeing is believing!

I don't make my choice on meeting people by reading their verifications. Does nothing for me and I need to get to know the person to know if we can be compatible. Just because they had an awesome time with someone else does not mean it is guaranteed with me.

Every experience is unique.

If people say they heard soo many things about me through people we happen to know. I got skills or i'm good at certain things they want to try blah blah blah I prefer not to meet them.

I refuse to be just a number or used as an extra cock.

I have a username damn it and it's Adam69XXX

If you want me, get to know me yourself instead of following others. I make my own choices so I need to meet people who can make their own mind up.

The real fun is finding things out about each other and exploring the possibilities. The build up to a meet and then sharing the built up energy for mutual satisfaction is really intense.

Having said all of that...

Verifications are fun to go back to as a personal note and read about the good times especially if long distance you can't meet as regular as you would like with that person.

I have been lucky to get some really good veri's, but at times I think people are being polite with choice of words...

They are much more cheeky in person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person that fucked 250 people and has 250 verifications showing on their profile is very different to a person that fucked 250 people and no verifications showing on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person that fucked 250 people and has 250 verifications showing on their profile is very different to a person that fucked 250 people and no verifications showing on their profile."

In what way are they different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???"
THIS THREAD IS ANNOYINGLY FUNNY LOL ...why is it to many.??? .....it is part of the game .....the process call it whatever you like !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???

Depends: one will be too much for some if you turn them down! "
fucking stupid thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing for me . I wouldn't judge someone based on the amount of veris they have

Mrs "
what is there too judge?is it judgmental day???

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

When you start getting 2 or 3 a day, thats when I may consider it too much...

More so because you are going to run outta people to meet pretty quick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you start getting 2 or 3 a day, thats when I may consider it too much...

More so because you are going to run outta people to meet pretty quick... "
I've nearly exhausted my resources!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no Verifications you're fucked. And if you do you are. Can't win lol"

Exactly

Just please yourself, it's the easiest way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no Verifications you're fucked. And if you do you are. Can't win lol

Exactly

Just please yourself, it's the easiest way!"

I'm on fab. I have to please myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently rediscovered masturbation and I'm quite liking it, I think my veri count may slow down.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"A person that fucked 250 people and has 250 verifications showing on their profile is very different to a person that fucked 250 people and no verifications showing on their profile.

In what way are they different? "

Ones a showoff the others a professional?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swinging site

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"When you start getting 2 or 3 a day, thats when I may consider it too much...

More so because you are going to run outta people to meet pretty quick... I've nearly exhausted my resources!"

We know the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you start getting 2 or 3 a day, thats when I may consider it too much...

More so because you are going to run outta people to meet pretty quick... I've nearly exhausted my resources!

We know the feeling "

You'll have to start meeting people for socials

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i was meeting 2 or 3 guys a day for a year and nowhere near run out of guys haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I have too many...

Hope that answers ur question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person that fucked 250 people and has 250 verifications showing on their profile is very different to a person that fucked 250 people and no verifications showing on their profile.

In what way are they different?

Ones a showoff the others a professional?

S"

Something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its discrimination

.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its discrimination

.

"

What is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God none of us are virgins or at least I would expect not...so I still can't understand someone who won't meet those who have many veris to someone who had very few or none but potentially could have fucked many many more.. They simply choose do not advertise it.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Is too many???"

1 more than the person counting.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"Is too many???

i think that's going to come down to how each person view there worth as a human being as to what's to high a number for them to be put off of meeting someone

some people don't like the thought of being just another notch on the bed post forgotten about less than a week after the act and will rebel against being that .such people will just say no thanks out of there own sense of worth as a human being , they are also the type of person who doesn't use others as disposable objects hence they reason they wont allow themselves to be used in such away .

now I'm sure this answer is very controversial for a swinger site but hay don't shot the massager .

You're still missing the point. Unless we have all had verifications from every single shag we've ever had in our lives, it's utterly moot.

have to disagree its very easy to spot a user during messages and even easier in the flesh in my experience , veries mean fuck all to me i hate them with a passion i judge on messages and a social i can smell a user from a mile away just from how they word things .

I avoid users because they drain me they suck the life out of me and no doubt others they interact with in my experience because everything they do they do for totally selfish reason .

such people give nothing no one means anything to them apart from what they can get from that person sexually and energy wise they are human parasites in my opinion and best avoided if you want to a exchange of energy not a draining of yours .

So although veris mean nothing to you, you make decisions on them?

tipsy I don't look at them nor see how many and how often someone meets nor do I read them and that's the truth but i understand why people are put off by the number of veries for the reasons above.

That in my opinion is supercilious rubbish.

pushing negative energy again i see must be a very black hole in your energy centre kind of feel sorry for you but hay i don't have to live with it thank god

You are funny. I made a comment about your opinion but you make it personal as if there is something wrong with me. I suggest you take a look at yourself before you cast aspersions about others. Once again you come across in a supercilious, holier than thou way. Maybe it's just me who sees your posts in this way and I'm happy to stand corrected if I'm way off the mark.

I utterly agree with you. He contradicts himself constantly, misses the point of threads, ignores others points of view, calling some parasites and users and won't own his own comments

your entitled to your opinion on me tipsy my opinion of you will stay with me though due to being raised by a single parent my mother,

which means I have far to much respect for women instilled in me to ever voice just a opinion when I can easily just walk on by which I'm doing here by the way walking away.

not because I'm scared to voice a opinion or back it up but because what's the point your mind is made up on me so I feel no need to take things further as it would be a useless waste of my energy ,

You do come out with some fairy tales to cover you tracks and backpedal. Read your posts and own them.

My name is Topsy. "

Topsy, I've enjoyed reading your well thought out and accurate comments. Mr Hand only posts the most ridiculous drivel to the extent that I doubt almost literally everything they have ever said.

Sometimes you have to stop swimming otherwise you just drown in the stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???"

I never understand this question on a swingers site. But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???"

All depends on the Varies and who has left them for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discriminating against people who are in the 100 club

...this is!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too many???

All depends on the Varies and who has left them for me. "

There's a lot of truth in this.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Anyone with over 50 is where I start to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3.141 Once you hit pi you've basically been overused "

Lol

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

As many as you like. Your body your fun

But personally for me. No more than 10-15 "meet" veris

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I should be at those who clearly don't read whole threads but then again, they don't read profiles so...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"As many as you like. Your body your fun

But personally for me. No more than 10-15 "meet" veris"

I've been shagging for 40 years. Are you suggesting that I should only have shagged 10-15 men in that time?

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London


"As many as you like. Your body your fun

But personally for me. No more than 10-15 "meet" veris

I've been shagging for 40 years. Are you suggesting that I should only have shagged 10-15 men in that time?"

No I think you've misinterpreted my post lol. It's fine to do what you want your body your rules. But for me I do not care how many partners you've had. But for me on a personal note if you've had more than 15 veris on "fab" its abit off putting for me. Thats me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been told i have too many verifications for a single guy. I do believe in quality over quantity. All my meets are quality.

And i found every one attractive. I'm here for sex and i make no apologies for Meeting others "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

46.Is no bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been told i have too many verifications for a single guy. I do believe in quality over quantity. All my meets are quality.

And i found every one attractive. I'm here for sex and i make no apologies for Meeting others "
socials too!!! think some people don't get the grasp of swinging about lol

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

on my previous profile I had 30+veris. 3 were from guys I've met to play, rest were from organised socials. but got told several times I had 'too many'

now I have no verifications, but still met the same number of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with over 50 is where I start to worry"

Why?

Insecure?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"As many as you like. Your body your fun

But personally for me. No more than 10-15 "meet" veris

I've been shagging for 40 years. Are you suggesting that I should only have shagged 10-15 men in that time?

No I think you've misinterpreted my post lol. It's fine to do what you want your body your rules. But for me I do not care how many partners you've had. But for me on a personal note if you've had more than 15 veris on "fab" its abit off putting for me. Thats me personally. "

time span is still applicable. 15 veris in 3 weeks is abit different to 3 yrs. past 1 yr you have no idea how long someone has been here. 15 veris in 3 weeks doesn't even mean anything, could be a new profile for a returning fabber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are different types of fab users....and a lot just use it for finding fbs.....or even a partner....the hardcore are the proper swingers clubs party's etc ....then you get the forum nobs....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are different types of fab users....and a lot just use it for finding fbs.....or even a partner....the hardcore are the proper swingers clubs party's etc ....then you get the forum nobs....lol"

You're the latter?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"As many as you like. Your body your fun

But personally for me. No more than 10-15 "meet" veris

I've been shagging for 40 years. Are you suggesting that I should only have shagged 10-15 men in that time?

No I think you've misinterpreted my post lol. It's fine to do what you want your body your rules. But for me I do not care how many partners you've had. But for me on a personal note if you've had more than 15 veris on "fab" its abit off putting for me. Thats me personally. "

Why is having sex with folk from fab any different from anyone else?

So if someone has 5 veris in a week or six in six years, is that ok? What about someone with one but 287 hidden?

Veris mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with over 50 is where I start to worry

Why?

Insecure?"

Whybis that the first assumption by many? It could be viewed as boasting. ..look at how many I've got....or that they are attention seekers or quite happily promiscuous.... not saying that is true but it can be assumed that....just giving other valid options.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Anyone with over 50 is where I start to worry

Why?

Insecure?

Whybis that the first assumption by many? It could be viewed as boasting. ..look at how many I've got....or that they are attention seekers or quite happily promiscuous.... not saying that is true but it can be assumed that....just giving other valid options. "

Or it could be that we're on a site designed to meet people for sex, and we meet people for sex, and then we verify them as we enjoyed meeting them for sex.

Might be nothing deeper than that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone with over 50 is where I start to worry

Why?

Insecure?

Whybis that the first assumption by many? It could be viewed as boasting. ..look at how many I've got....or that they are attention seekers or quite happily promiscuous.... not saying that is true but it can be assumed that....just giving other valid options.

Or it could be that we're on a site designed to meet people for sex, and we meet people for sex, and then we verify them as we enjoyed meeting them for sex.

Might be nothing deeper than that really."

Exactly. ..its also their choice and anyone's if they wish to use that as a filtering system. I know people don't like being filtered for whatever reason. I see it no different from any official filters or other filtering. It boils down to personal choice and needs to be respected rather than being shouted down

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