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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

I have been with my fwb for almost a year.

He wants a mff and I do too but ... I'm scared & feel out of my depth. If it was mmf I would have no hesitation. My fear is I won't know how to please her & will be a disappointment to all involved.

Advice please ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a mff!

The chance to disappoint two women at once

I'd have a talk with him and discuss any concerns you have and take things from there

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Finding a mff is going to be a mission in itself on here.

The best way is meeting people face to face in clubs so they can see you and knkw you are genuine and so is your partner. Not to mention understand straight away if they fancy you both. That makes a club your best bet.

So our advice would be first of all go to a good reputable club like the vanilla alternative for example and talk to people to find that confidence and go from there.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Also if you genuinely want to explore with another lady and you are honest with her about that and your nerves you won't dissapoint atall

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Why not start with a mmf, oh yeah, and I'm available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a mff or mmf but I've met a women on my own only once), I was terrified for the same reasons as you, but it sort of came naturally. Just do what you like or ask

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I have been with my fwb for almost a year.

He wants a mff and I do too but ... I'm scared & feel out of my depth. If it was mmf I would have no hesitation. My fear is I won't know how to please her & will be a disappointment to all involved.

Advice please ...."

This was one of my concerns when it was mentioned to me for a mff, that and my nervousness with new people. My advice would be talk to someone interested about your concerns, hopefully she'll be understanding and let you explore at your own pace, plus knowing this both could perhaps give you guidence if needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what comes natural,likely most of what pleases you will please her? Have a laugh n relax,just see what happens,supposed to be fun?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go only at your pace. If you fancy mmf and are more ready, then explore how you'd like to prepare for this. Currently it sounds like his agenda too much. Remember, he's a fb and not a committed relationship partner, so you've got many more options open to you. Could visit a club with platonic friends etc and explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what most us guys on fab do, lie back and do zero of the work and enjoy

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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do you have to please her though? you could have an fmf where the guy gets all the pleasure off both of you, although i suspect it'd be up to him to find a woman willing to do that.

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Start from the point of view you are unlikely to disappoint anyone and actually its up to all three of you to please each of you. You are not completely responsible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same as you! Very nervous and didn't know what to expect.

It was arranged by a male friend!! It was also the other ladies first time so as far as I was concerned he had to lead the way, and he did. It was okay and we all had a bit of fun.

I ticked it off my to do list. For me the fantasy was better than the reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants an FFM and you want an MMF surely meeting a couple could be an option to explore?

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york


"If he wants an FFM and you want an MMF surely meeting a couple could be an option to explore?"

I don't actually want a mmf what I meant was I would know how to deal with that.

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

Thanks for all the advice xx

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