FabSwingers.com forum: How to win favour …

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

How to win favour … or may be not!

Have any of you “I don’t get replies” moaners ever wondered just how much help it is in getting your profile noticed if you post on the forum?

I notice a little spurt in mail arrival when I am posting on the forum. There may only be a minority of people who post, but there are plenty more who take an interest without ever posting.

Now consider for one moment if the last/only post you have on page 1 (as that’s where many people stop to read) is you collectively calling a large % of couples and single females ignorant, conceited, arrogant, discourteous, ill-mannered…. and so on.

I answer most of my mail, yet take offence at being labelled as one or more of the above adjectives for the times I don’t… just because I have a life!

What good does your post do you really? What does it say to the rest of us about you?

Depending on the overall content of the post, it could tell me one or more of the following:

1 – You’re not getting any and wanking isn’t easing the frustration.

2 – You joined a swinging site thinking it owed you something.

3 – You have rejection issues.

If you think not getting a reply to a pm is bad – wait till you arrange to meet and the ignorant fucks don’t turn up…. you are really going to throw your toys out of the pram!

(btw - I can moan about what I like and still get mail – I have tits

….. don’t blame me I didn’t make the rules!)

Anyone else care to share what a 'no reply' moaner post says to them?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It says to me they have no patience. They prefer to be negative than positive. Cant be bothered to put effort into things. Avoid at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just block singles....simples

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i was a single man, id go to a single girls profile, see who they have met, then click on there profile to see what there doing right or alternatively click on a guy whose doing well profile and read there profile. Or i would post none whinging posts in the forum. But then i guess thats just womens logic

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"If i was a single man, id go to a single girls profile, see who they have met, then click on there profile to see what there doing right or alternatively click on a guy whose doing well profile and read there profile. Or i would post none whinging posts in the forum. But then i guess thats just womens logic"

gave exactly that adviceto a single guy last week - he messaged us and said take a look at my profile and tell me what you think' his profile said something like fit male looking for sex! told him he would go far and then do exactly what Diamond has just said

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I try to refrain from giving advice like that – it’s a bit like offering camouflage training.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I try to refrain from giving advice like that – it’s a bit like offering camouflage training. "

I agree but I was feeling kind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the odd occassion I check out the opposition, it amazes me that profiles like "I av a big dik, and I luv to shag" actually have 'in person' verifications.

When I see that it makes me wonder if I should change mine. Do you think "I luve to shag, and I have a big dick" would work better for me?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Do you think "I luve to shag, and I have a big dick" would work better for me?

Only if you have and you do. Otherwise you could be done under the Trades Descriptions Act. Unless you have a disclaimer on your profile of course. As we all know the disclaimer works.

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"On the odd occassion I check out the opposition, it amazes me that profiles like "I av a big dik, and I luv to shag" actually have 'in person' verifications.

I don't think it counts if they are verified by close family members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the odd occassion I check out the opposition, it amazes me that profiles like "I av a big dik, and I luv to shag" actually have 'in person' verifications.

I don't think it counts if they are verified by close family members

Well some of them are in the more rural parts of lincolnshire, so anythings possible. I'll count the number of fingers the next time I see a hand gripping that rarely seen cockshot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think "I luve to shag, and I have a big dick" would work better for me?

Only if you have and you do. Otherwise you could be done under the Trades Descriptions Act. Unless you have a disclaimer on your profile of course. As we all know the disclaimer works."

Well on latter I'm fine, but for the former I may have trouble, as I can't dance

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