FabSwingers.com forum: A meet that ruins all meets for you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did, my first meet was so kind and respectful and we had such a laugh when we were chatting that I didn't think I'd find anyone else who'd live up to it... But I did! It just takes a lot longer!

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

A meet has become a regular thing,it has raised the bar for what a meet can be/become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know as soon as I have had one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets feel this way after

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Shall I pull my normal answer out the bag to disaster meet threads.

It would have to be the woman that shit on my bed.

Do I take first prize ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

What's a meet up?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Oh ruined in a good way

Yes. That would be Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

What's a meet up?

Like a punch up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shall I pull my normal answer out the bag to disaster meet threads.

It would have to be the woman that shit on my bed.

Do I take first prize ?

Omg what!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shall I pull my normal answer out the bag to disaster meet threads.

It would have to be the woman that shit on my bed.

Do I take first prize ?

Burst out laughing at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet nearly put me off going on another.thankfully my 2nd was way better

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i think we all get fussier when we have those types of meets. your other meets just don't cut it any more and new ones don't seem as appealing coz you realise you're taking a gamble on half decent sex.

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By *eggysallyTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

"Shall I pull my normal answer out the bag to disaster meet threads.

It would have to be the woman that shit on my bed.

Do I take first prize ?

i hope she cleaned your bedding , poor girl must of died of embarrassment. Bet she douches properly now. You have hot pictures , love your slut collar. I want 1 x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My First social with Twiggy, That will be remembered for a long time, and none have been as fun since

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

No cos I haven't even had 1 meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

What's a meet up?

Erm, possibly when you 'meet up' with someone. Oh, we get it, you're pulling our leg, pretending not to know. You little tyke.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

yes she was totally true to how she said she was in fact she under played herself and totally by the way she was blew my mind and in a lot of ways ruined me to this day

anyone who has read my sub space tail will know why

miss her to this day so much the thought of her and hers ways brings a tear to my eyes every time

wish she could see this but i think and hope where ever she is now she knows well i hope she does how much she gave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

What's a meet up?

Erm, possibly when you 'meet up' with someone. Oh, we get it, you're pulling our leg, pretending not to know. You little tyke."

So busted, shall I go sit in the corner of shame now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the guy I have been seeing after our second meet I was totally hooked. I still cant find a guy who blows my mind like he did and still does now nearly 2 yrs down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we've made friends out of swingers and most other meets pale in comparison from a viewpoint of actual amazing sex, simply because of getting to know each other's buttons.

You really have gotta take the merits of each meet as a solo experience rather than viewing it as a whole otherwise we'd still be totally monogamous, nobody pushes my buttons like Millie does, the variety keeps us coming back for good or for bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately we've made friends out of swingers and most other meets pale in comparison from a viewpoint of actual amazing sex, simply because of getting to know each other's buttons.

It's good to hear a couple's view point on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately we've made friends out of swingers and most other meets pale in comparison from a viewpoint of actual amazing sex, simply because of getting to know each other's buttons.

It's good to hear a couple's view point on this

you just gotta hope for more good than bad

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! I have had that happen to me...

other men just don't cut it for me now and I try not to compare but its tricky

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Shall I pull my normal answer out the bag to disaster meet threads.

It would have to be the woman that shit on my bed.

Do I take first prize ?

i hope she cleaned your bedding , poor girl must of died of embarrassment. Bet she douches properly now. You have hot pictures , love your slut collar. I want 1 x x"

Thank you

Believe it or not, it was from anal play. My previous partner was just fingering her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have had 2 like that, one that took me to heights I didn't know possible but mentally we didn't click so although the sex was amazing I need mental stimulation too. Another that was amazing and we just totally clicked when we met and went on to have a relationship for a while. But all other meets have been average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but it wasn't the sex so much as everything else, he raised the bar incredibly high and I think that's why we know exactly what we want and don't rush into meets unless we get the same kind of feel as we did that time. It hasn't steered us wrong, we've met some wonderful people since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've had a better experience with anyone from here, that ruined meeting anyone else. I've had some great times with all manner of men. Each experience has it's own merits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one, it wasnt even the sex but afterwards he just stroked my hair until I fell asleep which was one of the sweetest things ive had done, it was more so how tender and sweet he was that ive not been able to find again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had that happen. It wasn't just the sex though. He made me dinner and it was yummy. The sex was something else. The snuggles and pillow talk and everything else afterwards was on par.

I don't expect to find that ever again and try not to compare the sex to others, or I know I'll face disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It's never happened to me

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Very much so, as others have said it isn't about the sex it is all of the other stuff that goes alongside it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so. I kept him!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost but not yet

Still searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I know that no other guy is ever going to come close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Rather just have a wank these days.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes it happened to me, soon after I joined fab. I used to compare others to him but I soon realised that wasn't healthy!!

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts

I shall revisit this thread when I qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet up with someone that completely ruines all other meets for you? I have met up with one guy a few times now and every other meet just doesn't compare

Pretty much. But I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder. What if hes the only one who ever gets me?! What if its never ever as good again?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes..

He was terrible at penetration and thrusting.

Put me off for weeks!

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"All my meets feel this way after

Oh really? Funny that!

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