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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes totally unsatisfying and then makes you annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this kind of orgasm quite a lot where I'm not even sure it's happened. I'd probably be a much happier person if I didn't!!

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington

I think you're referring to those solo orgasms that we all enjoy alone? If so, I know those... I find porno, that includes some favourite naughty fun can help, I seek to immerse my thoughts in being present in the onscreen action.

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Sunday morning

Everything was working 6 hours before, when it was time for the next round everything felt right, her mouth was doing wondrous things!

All the signs were there, all the feelings, the shudders, everything.

When it. Was over, she asked why I stopped. I replied that I had cum. "Oh no you didn't".

I had cum, just dry, never done that before

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington


"I have this kind of orgasm quite a lot where I'm not even sure it's happened. I'd probably be a much happier person if I didn't!!"

Wow, gorgeous profile pics x

Are these solo orgasms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"

Haha yes this happened yesterday it so frustrating lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have this kind of orgasm quite a lot where I'm not even sure it's happened. I'd probably be a much happier person if I didn't!!

Wow, gorgeous profile pics x

Are these solo orgasms?"

Thanks lovely!

Solo and with a partner, nothing to do with technique, it just happens sometimes. (far more often than I wish it would )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad it's just not me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. Then other times, you have a fantastic orgasm that comes out of nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean. Then other times, you have a fantastic orgasm that comes out of nowhere. "

Think that's the problem, you try and recreate it and nah, it's not happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes I completely understand that one!

Amazing build up to what you think will be an epic orgasm and then bam! ''Tis pretty shite X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like "

I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"

Yep. Totally had that exact thing happen this morning. So so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like

I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy "

If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah I know this feeling. Or you get right to point of orgasm and then nothing you just cant get over that last hurdle to achieve the finished product!!

This has been me for the last 3 weeks, I have tried everything I even indulged in phone sex but still couldn't get the ending I wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"

Haha yes this happened yesterday it so frustrating lol.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"

Yes, this happens from time to time. I have to work hard to achieve orgasm and I rarely have more than one. So when it's like this it's annoying but I try to reflect on the sensations leading up to get something out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like

I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy

If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!"

Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"Oh yeah I know this feeling. Or you get right to point of orgasm and then nothing you just cant get over that last hurdle to achieve the finished product!! "

It's not just you ladies this happens to, us blokes can suffer too. Had this a fair few times on the second or third of the day where I run out of energy first.

The current FWB does get some advantage from it, as round two is usually a major eye rolling leg shaker for her, but ultimately it still feels a bit of a let down compared to the times it's all fireworks for both of us

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By *ierenzeWoman
over a year ago

ORPINGTON

Yeah bloody frustrating. It just vanishes.... I hate it.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like

I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy

If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!

Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!! "

I have zero physical sex drive, and never have done due to my hormones being screwed up all my life. HRT has helped align things a little but never a sign of the natural sex drive emerging.

Instead I create my own emotional sex drive to replace that. I use thought processes to stimulate myself and this has worked really well for me. Porn, and often softer porn at that, helps to add to the thoughts and fuel the imagination. It look a long time to develop this so it's not an instant fix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's been happening to me far too much recently, I can't even remember what a good orgasm feels like

I know the feeling, my sex drive seems to have up left the past couple of weeks, not happy

If I work out a fix, I'll let you know!

Please do! I think I know what's causing mine so I'll be even less impressed if it's true!!

I have zero physical sex drive, and never have done due to my hormones being screwed up all my life. HRT has helped align things a little but never a sign of the natural sex drive emerging.

Instead I create my own emotional sex drive to replace that. I use thought processes to stimulate myself and this has worked really well for me. Porn, and often softer porn at that, helps to add to the thoughts and fuel the imagination. It look a long time to develop this so it's not an instant fix."

I've never had a raging sex drive but when I'm horny, it's been game on. But now, just not even getting to the super horny stage.

Thank you for the tips, will certainly take them on board!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah,it's bloody annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it where I've started throbbing but no orgasm and I was too sensitive to try again

By myself I mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)"

Sounds pants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know the ones, the build up is amazing but actually cumming is a total let down, so annoying!! (Can I just add before the, you need someone who knows what they doing starts, I'm talking about when you are playing alone!)

Sounds pants"

It is!

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