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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have you ever had anyone try to use word play etc to manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do?

have just spent an hour going round in circles with a guy who wanted to see me on cam. he has seen me before on cam during one of my cam friendly moments however am in a bit of a place at the moment and so really not interested in camming

he was using words such as how i 'disappointed' him for not doing so and asking things like 'does it not give you pleasure to make people happy, making me happy would make you happy'

even moved on to 'i am a patient and appreciative man but i wont be like that forever' etc etc

luckily, whilst i can be subby, i can also dig my heels in when i see manipulation in play and he got bored and got lost lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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You do what YOU want to do, when you want to so it

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Eve why have you wasted an hr of your time when fuck off would have taken 1 second xxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Eve why have you wasted an hr of your time when fuck off would have taken 1 second xxxx "

we have been talking for a while and i was hoping he would undersand how i felt about things but no!!

then i started enjoying winding him up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Eve why have you wasted an hr of your time when fuck off would have taken 1 second xxxx

we have been talking for a while and i was hoping he would undersand how i felt about things but no!!

then i started enjoying winding him up lol"

Ah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps have taken advantage of my generosity and helpful nature in the past, which makes me more vary of any kind of compliments nowadays.

I rely on my instincts and guy feel. If I feel a person does not come across as genuine, then he/she is unlikely to be one.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

guy feel huh???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guy feel huh???"

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Feck, typo mistake, you know what I meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ping the odd compliment to anyone who happens to be on cam at the time, but i dont see the fun or appeal in sounding like some kinda desperado trying to persuade, or twist arm of someone who simply is'nt on cam,seems daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wont be like that forever" is a bit pathetic ??????

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

The next one you find with good manipulation techniques, send him my way. My back is killing me

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

as long as you got some fun out of it eves. I would've told him to feck off as soon as he tried manipulating, that is so wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as you got some fun out of it eves. I would've told him to feck off as soon as he tried manipulating, that is so wrong."

i agree dont do manipulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as you got some fun out of it eves. I would've told him to feck off as soon as he tried manipulating, that is so wrong.

i agree dont do manipulation"

only thing i want to manipulate is ur legs MrsA lol....around my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as you got some fun out of it eves. I would've told him to feck off as soon as he tried manipulating, that is so wrong.

i agree dont do manipulation

only thing i want to manipulate is ur legs MrsA lol....around my head "

lol r u sure thats all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as you got some fun out of it eves. I would've told him to feck off as soon as he tried manipulating, that is so wrong.

i agree dont do manipulation

only thing i want to manipulate is ur legs MrsA lol....around my head

lol r u sure thats all lol

"

hhahahahaha hey i like doing foreplay b4 i jumpp in...steady on...Im not just a shagger...I do like to tease b4 i please heheheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look inta my eyes not around the eyes look deep inta my eyes when ya wake up ya will remember nowt (mind you ya probably wouldnt if ya were awake ) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look inta my eyes not around the eyes look deep inta my eyes when ya wake up ya will remember nowt (mind you ya probably wouldnt if ya were awake ) xx "

OMG i just woke from a Bj with Elle Mcpherson...then i realised it was soapy manipulating my mind...I let him carry on tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look inta my eyes not around the eyes look deep inta my eyes when ya wake up ya will remember nowt (mind you ya probably wouldnt if ya were awake ) xx

OMG i just woke from a Bj with Elle Mcpherson...then i realised it was soapy manipulating my mind...I let him carry on tho lol"

mind and cock*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look inta my eyes not around the eyes look deep inta my eyes when ya wake up ya will remember nowt (mind you ya probably wouldnt if ya were awake ) xx

OMG i just woke from a Bj with Elle Mcpherson...then i realised it was soapy manipulating my mind...I let him carry on tho lol"

Mmm soapy's been out maniplatin summat but it wasn't minds lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mmm soapy's been out maniplatin summat but it wasn't minds lol xx"

bubbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo bubbly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mmm soapy's been out maniplatin summat but it wasn't minds lol xx

bubbles?"

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soapy lets manipulate MrsA into believing we are 6ft strapping hot hunks with huge cocks and endless amounts of cum-in fact soapy, u can be a girl if u like..get wendys pink knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"soapy lets manipulate MrsA into believing we are 6ft strapping hot hunks with huge cocks and endless amounts of cum-in fact soapy, u can be a girl if u like..get wendys pink knickers"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"soapy lets manipulate MrsA into believing we are 6ft strapping hot hunks with huge cocks and endless amounts of cum-in fact soapy, u can be a girl if u like..get wendys pink knickers"

Got some of her white ones lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

"

OMG ive pulled xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx "

lmao awww i love the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx

lmao awww i love the forums "

And the forums love you too

(Thinks ya should both move ta England thou next door ta me would be good xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx

lmao awww i love the forums "

lol im a brown mrbean lookalike lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx

lmao awww i love the forums

And the forums love you too

(Thinks ya should both move ta England thou next door ta me would be good xx "

i would move back tomorrow if i could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx

lmao awww i love the forums

And the forums love you too

(Thinks ya should both move ta England thou next door ta me would be good xx

i would move back tomorrow if i could "

Better hurry up then cause im moving ta S................. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Better hurry up then cause im moving ta Siberia...cos its all white n fluffy................. xx"

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

oh, this has given me a good laugh this morning.

Craig and Paddy, yer a pair of feckin nutters!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lack compassion, and don't give in to manipulations easily, some of my past reportees had tried, however, without success.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"have you ever had anyone try to use word play etc to manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do?

have just spent an hour going round in circles with a guy who wanted to see me on cam. he has seen me before on cam during one of my cam friendly moments however am in a bit of a place at the moment and so really not interested in camming

he was using words such as how i 'disappointed' him for not doing so and asking things like 'does it not give you pleasure to make people happy, making me happy would make you happy'

even moved on to 'i am a patient and appreciative man but i wont be like that forever' etc etc

luckily, whilst i can be subby, i can also dig my heels in when i see manipulation in play and he got bored and got lost lol"

glad you resisted Eve ,i would feel anger that he actually thought you would fall for it,he appears to think your some kind of airhead...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i am an air head lol but a stubborn one

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"i am an air head"

true!!!

I'm not easily manipulated, but can easily spot the signs of when someone is trying to do it. But can very cleverly turn the tables....

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"i am an air head

true!!!

I'm not easily manipulated, but can easily spot the signs of when someone is trying to do it. But can very cleverly turn the tables.... "

its so funny when we turn the tables on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am an air head

true!!!

I'm not easily manipulated, but can easily spot the signs of when someone is trying to do it. But can very cleverly turn the tables....

its so funny when we turn the tables on them "

upsidedown table sex? mmmm imagine that as a pic, each leg being abused by some hotties.....damn my filthy saturday mind!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was wrong of you to keep him hooked for an hour.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Eve why have you wasted an hr of your time when fuck off would have taken 1 second xxxx

we have been talking for a while and i was hoping he would undersand how i felt about things but no!!

then i started enjoying winding him up lol"

Good!!

I had a date on Wednesday who asked me to go back to his place four times! He used similar language and was visibly pissed off when I said no. As I said to him, before I told him to piss off, if he didn't respect my right to say no when going back to his, whats the likelihood of him listening to me when I say no to something in bed. What a creeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

but i might want 4ft mr bean look alikes lol

OMG ive pulled xx

lmao awww i love the forums

And the forums love you too

(Thinks ya should both move ta England thou next door ta me would be good xx "

Hey, u starting a commune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way! "

lol sounds like real life to me lolol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way! "

just not guys... some gals say 'love you loads' for a pressie or two .

check the threads re gifts etc etc

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

just not guys... some gals say 'love you loads' for a pressie or two .

check the threads re gifts etc etc"

Me love you long time!

Now, where's me car!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

just not guys... some gals say 'love you loads' for a pressie or two .

check the threads re gifts etc etc

Me love you long time!

Now, where's me car!"

in the post..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It was wrong of you to keep him hooked for an hour. "

i didnt keep him 'hooked up' for an hour. he knew from the outset that i didnt want to cam as i have akso not wanted to cam the last few times we spoke.

in the end he decided that i was not for him as i was not prepared to do something he KNEW i didnt want to do at that time.

i tried to get him to understand but it was clear what organ was driving his though process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I had a date on Wednesday who asked me to go back to his place four times! He used similar language and was visibly pissed off when I said no. As I said to him, before I told him to piss off, if he didn't respect my right to say no when going back to his, whats the likelihood of him listening to me when I say no to something in bed. What a creeper"

Exactly my reaction to a guy who was supposed to be just a social meet, would not/could not get his head around me not going back to his. The best solution was to block.

As you say, if a guy can't respect that simple request, will he listen in the bedroom when you say. Please don't I don't like that?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"As you say, if a guy can't respect that simple request, will he listen in the bedroom when you say. Please don't I don't like that?"

Both dodged a bullet there!

What really gets me is that these guys, and the OPs guy, will all think we are frigid or cockteases, and not realise that it is their behaviour that puts us off. So they'll keep getting turned down until, inevitably, they come and make a blimmin' post on the forums moaning about women!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Had it lots. Sure sign of a guy just after online fun. they never win with me.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way! "

Hi im six foot three with an eight pack and hung like a donkey

I have a very high powered job and my own helicopter fa when the ferrari is impractical

So when are we meeting babe?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

Hi im six foot three with an eight pack and hung like a donkey

I have a very high powered job and my own helicopter fa when the ferrari is impractical

So when are we meeting babe?? xx "

STOP! calling me BABE!!!!- and U might get in my knickers someday! heehehehehe

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

Hi im six foot three with an eight pack and hung like a donkey

I have a very high powered job and my own helicopter fa when the ferrari is impractical

So when are we meeting babe?? xx "

mrs saucy,is getting damp,just reading this.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

Hi im six foot three with an eight pack and hung like a donkey

I have a very high powered job and my own helicopter fa when the ferrari is impractical

So when are we meeting babe?? xx

mrs saucy,is getting damp,just reading this. "

has she spilt her coffee?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I am learning very fast that guys will say and do anything on here to get their own way!

Hi im six foot three with an eight pack and hung like a donkey

I have a very high powered job and my own helicopter fa when the ferrari is impractical

So when are we meeting babe?? xx

mrs saucy,is getting damp,just reading this.

has she spilt her coffee?"

she's at that age,where she's not sure.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"have you ever had anyone try to use word play etc to manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do?

have just spent an hour going round in circles with a guy who wanted to see me on cam. he has seen me before on cam during one of my cam friendly moments however am in a bit of a place at the moment and so really not interested in camming

he was using words such as how i 'disappointed' him for not doing so and asking things like 'does it not give you pleasure to make people happy, making me happy would make you happy'

even moved on to 'i am a patient and appreciative man but i wont be like that forever' etc etc

luckily, whilst i can be subby, i can also dig my heels in when i see manipulation in play and he got bored and got lost lol"

I thought the thread was about chiropractic manipulation... doh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you ever had anyone try to use word play etc to manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do?

have just spent an hour going round in circles with a guy who wanted to see me on cam. he has seen me before on cam during one of my cam friendly moments however am in a bit of a place at the moment and so really not interested in camming

he was using words such as how i 'disappointed' him for not doing so and asking things like 'does it not give you pleasure to make people happy, making me happy would make you happy'

even moved on to 'i am a patient and appreciative man but i wont be like that forever' etc etc

luckily, whilst i can be subby, i can also dig my heels in when i see manipulation in play and he got bored and got lost lol"

you should have demanded he do some extreme experimentation on cam him self before you would do anything. You could have put a real smile on your face making him do silly things

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"have you ever had anyone try to use word play etc to manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do?

have just spent an hour going round in circles with a guy who wanted to see me on cam. he has seen me before on cam during one of my cam friendly moments however am in a bit of a place at the moment and so really not interested in camming

he was using words such as how i 'disappointed' him for not doing so and asking things like 'does it not give you pleasure to make people happy, making me happy would make you happy'

even moved on to 'i am a patient and appreciative man but i wont be like that forever' etc etc

luckily, whilst i can be subby, i can also dig my heels in when i see manipulation in play and he got bored and got lost lol

you should have demanded he do some extreme experimentation on cam him self before you would do anything. You could have put a real smile on your face making him do silly things "

ahhh theres another thing he didnt have a cam!!

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