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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London

I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deny him bjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."

Don't have the discussion with him, just move in and bring them with you

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...

Don't have the discussion with him, just move in and bring them with you "

I guess so, since we are buying the house together .....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm on his side. Get a dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?"

They are by me and the kids, but he wont admit he cares (just feeds them treats on the sly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?"

Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?

They are by me and the kids, but he wont admit he cares (just feeds them treats on the sly)"

That does seem like quite a man thing. I caught myself letting my evil cat lick my nose the other day

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?

Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?"

I've 1 or 2 ideas mwhahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok just tell him he don't get no pussy until he's ready to welcome the pussy.

Problem solved...NEXT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try to convince him. Slip into the conversation that the cats will love their new home and they will need acclimatising to their new surroundings.

He should realise it's not up for discussion and they come with you.

He should know that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?

Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?

I've 1 or 2 ideas mwhahahaha "

I can find out where you live and make you regret uttering those words you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?"

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy just tell him you come as a package, it's all of you or noone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."

Build them a Granny Annex. You can call it the Pussy Palace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."

Tell him what the cats mean to you!they are your family,or the full package or nothing! cook a nice meal,nice underwear and plan in action!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just call them step kids and hope he doesn't notice theyre a bit more hairy than the others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too"

Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hold on...how are your cats not already considered as fully fledged family members?

Exactly they're not new cats, what does he expect you to do with them?

I've 1 or 2 ideas mwhahahaha

I can find out where you live and make you regret uttering those words you know "

Hmmmm sounds like fun. Bring it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have them come either.I'm with the hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just smuggle them in

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldnt have them come either.I'm with the hubby "

Yay I'm not alone

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too

Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?"

Very cruel mutilations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have them come either.I'm with the hubby

Yay I'm not alone "

You would be if you were my partner

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ..."

So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter!

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...

So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "

No I wouldn't ..... of course. How ridiculous to even assume such a thing, I just wouldn't move in

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too

Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?

Very cruel mutilations "

. That's awful.

Can they be house cats for safety?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...

So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "

Where the hell did that come from?

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too

Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?

Very cruel mutilations

. That's awful.

Can they be house cats for safety?

Nita"

Ours stay in at night now as there he cruelty has moved closer to home. Not sure what the authorities are doing about it ... if not for the cats sake, because animal cruelty such as this is often a precursor of human cruelty. I think it has been happening for a while so I have been reluctant to move.

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"I need to persuade the OH to let the cats move in with us when we buy our first house? currently we go between my rental and his part owner, but when we buy his outright, no need to rent ...

So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter!

Where the hell did that come from? "

I know, when we moved to the UK I brought the three cats with me ... cost a lot and they had to have a cavity search in customs. You should have seen their faces when they came out of that .....

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP you obviously don't know the rules. Cats decide what their humans must do.

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"OP you obviously don't know the rules. Cats decide what their humans must do. "

When our house was being remodelled for six months, they stayed in it and we visited to feed twice a day because a cattery would have upset them, they like their territory, so any move will be a bit of a wrench ... they certainly rule this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you obviously don't know the rules. Cats decide what their humans must do. "

This lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

The cats may not like your new home.

One of mine walked back to our old neighbourhood over 30 miles away.

Picked him up off our old neighbours. Took him weeks to settle.

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By *awandOrder OP   Couple
over a year ago

SW London


"The cats may not like your new home.

One of mine walked back to our old neighbourhood over 30 miles away.

Picked him up off our old neighbours. Took him weeks to settle. "

It took us a lot of time when we moved from one country to another ....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hasn't he taken it as a given, they will be coming along?

You know what he is like .... I was reluctant to move with them first due to what happens to cats in Croydon, but now it is happening in this area too

Oooooooooo, what's happening to cats?

Very cruel mutilations

. That's awful.

Can they be house cats for safety?

Nita

Ours stay in at night now as there he cruelty has moved closer to home. Not sure what the authorities are doing about it ... if not for the cats sake, because animal cruelty such as this is often a precursor of human cruelty. I think it has been happening for a while so I have been reluctant to move. "

If they're not happy to stay in, that will hopefully do the trick.

I agree with you that this behaviour can be a sign of future violence towards people. Hope the police ar taking it seriously.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the dog lovers!

Ruby

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"So you and him would consider dumping the responsibility of caring for the cats who look to you for everything on overcrowded and overworked shelter! "

Well, That escalated quickly!

By the way, cats are pretty much self sufficient, they decide if you're their human or not. They wonder off when they get bored of you and find some old dear who'll feel them more! Selfish little shits they are

And yes, before you boot off, we have three!

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