FabSwingers.com forum: Single men's profiles

By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"

Probably not, I'm in that situation but other half knows nothing about it, so I would doubt if other partners would accommodate. I have my reasons but I'll be honest with anyone on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"

Just ask them to get the wife/gf to verify it over the phone or skype. Easy beans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"

I wouldn't believe anything anyone tells you on the internet - unless you've heard it direct from the horse's mouth.

I had a guy write a fake WhatsApp message from his work number, using a pic of his missus, once, pretending it was her. Lies of course.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"
110 % just ask them for their wife's number or profile to confirm

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By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Lol! This is a good idea! I hate cheater or guys that flirt behind the backs of their partner

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Just ask them to get the wife/gf to verify it over the phone or skype. Easy beans.

Good idea actually..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Just ask them to get the wife/gf to verify it over the phone or skype. Easy beans.

Good idea actually.."

There's a rumour going round that I occasionally have a useful idea, instead of my usual inane babble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"

Ask to have a quick chat with their other half, that'll sort out the liars rather sharpish x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am completkeyl single

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By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Just ask them to get the wife/gf to verify it over the phone or skype. Easy beans.

Good idea actually..

There's a rumour going round that I occasionally have a useful idea, instead of my usual inane babble

I'm laughing my ass off here, I like inane babble..

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Ask to have a quick chat with their other half, that'll sort out the liars rather sharpish x"

I'm up for a chat with a few wives and girlfriends

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?"

Yup, I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?"

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same as profiles from women with the same statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back."

Fuck me seriously?...

My most recent Ex was an outrageous flirt, she flirted with pretty much everyone.

My mates used to always ask me if I was bothered.

I wasn't. That was just how she was.

She probably flirted with loads when I wasn't around as well and it wasn't something I was ever bothered about.

I wouldn't call it cheating at all.

We've split up now, but that wasn't a factor.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back."

Now flirting with your partner etc on here is hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back.

Fuck me seriously?...

My most recent Ex was an outrageous flirt, she flirted with pretty much everyone.

My mates used to always ask me if I was bothered.

I wasn't. That was just how she was.

She probably flirted with loads when I wasn't around as well and it wasn't something I was ever bothered about.

I wouldn't call it cheating at all.

We've split up now, but that wasn't a factor."

We're all entitled to our opinions arn't we. My point was that if your other half is on a swingers site behind your back then that's naughty if you ask me but then I'm a traditional kind of guy and value trust. Others may have different ideas which is fine, each to their own and all that.

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back.

Now flirting with your partner etc on here is hot!! "

I would guess that would depend on the depth of flirting whilst others participate to make it more intense?

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By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I have been in situation like that before I broke my 2 year relationship, my man was constantly on this site and I found out only a year ago when he offered me to join swingers site. We tryed going to party ? I said no as it didn't feel right as I had feelings for my man and couldn't share him. He agreed with me we deleted kik and had some peace for a while. Then I noticed that he has kik download and that raised my concern and I asked him if he's still on site or what he does on kik. He said nothing and deleted kik again in few days I got to see kik on his phone again but this time he started self defence and start saying that I'm crazy went for few seconds away to the kitchen as if to get a drink and deleted kik came back and showed me that he doesn't have this app downloaded. A day after that I found out that he is on fabswingers to check on party he said. I asked him to show his provide and he got angry. Next day we created a profile with my female friend he doesn't know and he started texting her , I have seen all the compliments he would give to those woman and the only compliment I would get from him only if I asked him why he wouldn't tell me compliments would be "if you weren't good looking I wouldn't be with you" ! But when I confront him and said I knew that he is texting girls and give them compliments. He just said I'm crazy and totally ignored me for a day. Now I don't want any other woman/man to be in the same position I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you're better off without him love, he sounds like a ratbag, you'd have never had a minutes peace. Onwards and upwards eh, plenty of decent guys out there.

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By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Sounds like you're better off without him love, he sounds like a ratbag, you'd have never had a minutes peace. Onwards and upwards eh, plenty of decent guys out there.

Thanks for support ,

It's been a while since I have been "out there" maybe I just forgot how it is

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Ask to have a quick chat with their other half, that'll sort out the liars rather sharpish x"

That could just be a friend from here though couldn't it.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

hahaha awww bless, I'm glad you're naïve enough to believe what you read on this site. I just want to hug you to protect you from it all hahaha but there are loads and loads and loads of people that prefer to fuck the cheaters then meet the singles so it's horses for courses.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?

Yes I'd say so, maybe not actually cheating but it's still inappropriate if it's being done behind the partners back.

Now flirting with your partner etc on here is hot!!

I would guess that would depend on the depth of flirting whilst others participate to make it more intense?"

You can have it as deep as you want, the deeper the better in my opinion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a flirt on this site could be considered as cheating?"

Yes.

Next question...

Could innocently meeting for coffee on this site be considered as cheating?

Yes.

Next question....

Could an innocent kiss.....

Yes.

NEXT!

He's on a sex site so yes he's cheating in his head mind and thoughts before action.

OP.... May I suggest for your peace of mind that you just overlook any profile that says that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?"

Are you up for 'anything'? Really?

We have to trust what people put, if not. Move on and find someone who you trust. Another stranger you don't know maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

I'm up for no cheating morale , however I came across many male profiles where they'd say they not single but their gf/wife is ok wiv that. How trustworthy is that statement?

Ask to have a quick chat with their other half, that'll sort out the liars rather sharpish x

That could just be a friend from here though couldn't it."

easily done.... an amenable verified fab friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single also have couples profiles too but a chat with the other half is always a good option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point was that if your other half is on a swingers site behind your back then that's naughty if you ask me but then I'm a traditional kind of guy and value trust."

I took the post at face value as it was asked: "is flirting cheating" on or off this site.

I don't consider it to be.

And if someone is on this site without their other half knowing that's way outside of my ballpark to judge.

But yeah, sorry I misinterpreted your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My point was that if your other half is on a swingers site behind your back then that's naughty if you ask me but then I'm a traditional kind of guy and value trust.

I took the post at face value as it was asked: "is flirting cheating" on or off this site.

I don't consider it to be.

And if someone is on this site without their other half knowing that's way outside of my ballpark to judge.

But yeah, sorry I misinterpreted your post.

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By *ogogirls OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Some single also have couples profiles too but a chat with the other half is always a good option.

Will use that

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