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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on from how many woman there are on here compared to men. And how woman are supposed to hold all the cards ..I was wondering if any woman had been turned down by a man...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep."

Your fecking joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have. I know I'm not every mans cup of tea and it's quite refreshing to be turned down. It's good to know that not every man will shag anything.

I always respect them too for being honest with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep."

Mabad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

Mabad "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm turning them down left right & centre...sometimes just delete my inbox randomly then post a status update like: deleted my messages hahaha xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a fancy a fuck message on the back of a forum experiment. He was very polite in saying he didn't.

I chose someone I knew wasn't desperate and well liked on the forums, to prove that some men do turn women down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm turning them down left right & centre...sometimes just delete my inbox randomly then post a status update like: deleted my messages hahaha xxx

"

Do you eat Marmite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been turned down with a message giving a reason, but I have been ignored, deleted and blocked and even stood up several times on arranged social meets.

So I guess all of the above are ways of being turned down!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, I have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I have. I know I'm not every mans cup of tea and it's quite refreshing to be turned down. It's good to know that not every man will shag anything.

I always respect them too for being honest with me."

That outfit is fucking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say ive turned down a couple of women. Im not interested in having sex with someone im not attracted to. But ill happily have a social with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep."
what an idiot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep."

His loss! Your body is unbelievably hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say no and the abuse ! Wow.

Call me skinny, say I'm not all that, I'm up my self and they didn't want me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many men have been turned down by men ......

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Yep.

His loss! Your body is unbelievably hot"

To a lot of people it is, But he might not of been looking for her particular body type or personality, It could of been a number of reasons why he didn't want to take it further, Not exactly his loss is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm turning them down left right & centre...sometimes just delete my inbox randomly then post a status update like: deleted my messages hahaha xxx

Do you eat Marmite?"

Depends where it's spread?

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. It's never anybody's loss if they reject you, they are not interested simples. It's a common saying which is a load if shit. God this thread is white knight bait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure everyone will get turned down by folk.we won't all be everyones cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. "

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea of course. You can't be everyone's cup of tea and not all men will fuck just anything.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected.

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one. "

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By *erminxWoman
over a year ago

Quinton

We all get turned down on occasion

If we all had the same likes the world would be a very boring place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been turned down but have been stood up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been turned down outrightly but it took me a while to take the hint though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably turned down more than I've actually gone with. Fussy bugger ain't I

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

If you class being stood up as rejection then yes lots of times, N was even stood up once on her own on a meet between her and a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. It's never anybody's loss if they reject you, they are not interested simples. It's a common saying which is a load if shit. God this thread is white knight bait!"

By that criteria, I am messaged by hundreds of men, punching above their weight.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"I've probably turned down more than I've actually gone with. Fussy bugger ain't I "

The same for me

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected.

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one. "
I guess you not seen many women's profiles on here then it is laughable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected.

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one. I guess you not seen many women's profiles on here then it is laughable."

You do realise that other people have different tastes to you.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected.

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one. I guess you not seen many women's profiles on here then it is laughable.

You do realise that other people have different tastes to you. "
yes of course I do, I realise a lot if guys dramatically drop their standards for NSA sex as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected.

That's a ridiculous statement if ever I saw one. I guess you not seen many women's profiles on here then it is laughable."

I partially agree some of the chicks profiles on this read like a shopping list for their ideal husband fs, i want this, not that, dae this, not that, must have x,y and z. But to be fair tae them they get so much attention and sausage thrown at them l,r & c they develop a sixth sense for filtering what they want and what they don't want. Put it this way I'd hate to be a chick fs constant houndings by all sorts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have. Nobody can appeal to everyone.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Don't really message guys with the intention of a meet. However the only one I did message and I wanted to meet said yes!! Omg he's divine can't wait for more of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. It's never anybody's loss if they reject you, they are not interested simples. It's a common saying which is a load if shit. God this thread is white knight bait!"

I don't think their egos are 'self inflated' it's more the hundreds of messages a day they get telling them they are this and that, how sexy they are, even tho they don't have pictures and blah blah . It's rare to even see a forum post where some guys not trying to creep on to them. I consider myself to be very grounded with zero ego but maybe just maybe if I got hundreds of messages a day telling me I was something special, even I might start to believe them !

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. It's never anybody's loss if they reject you, they are not interested simples. It's a common saying which is a load if shit. God this thread is white knight bait!

I don't think their egos are 'self inflated' it's more the hundreds of messages a day they get telling them they are this and that, how sexy they are, even tho they don't have pictures and blah blah . It's rare to even see a forum post where some guys not trying to creep on to them. I consider myself to be very grounded with zero ego but maybe just maybe if I got hundreds of messages a day telling me I was something special, even I might start to believe them ! "
I know I don't blame the women, I blame the men they just think with their dicks and have a lot to answer for. The consequences they create distorts the whole site I think.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Turned down, stood up, messed around... It's slightly disheartening but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it is the women with the self inflated egos who try to punch above their weight that get rejected. It's never anybody's loss if they reject you, they are not interested simples. It's a common saying which is a load if shit. God this thread is white knight bait!

I don't think their egos are 'self inflated' it's more the hundreds of messages a day they get telling them they are this and that, how sexy they are, even tho they don't have pictures and blah blah . It's rare to even see a forum post where some guys not trying to creep on to them. I consider myself to be very grounded with zero ego but maybe just maybe if I got hundreds of messages a day telling me I was something special, even I might start to believe them ! I know I don't blame the women, I blame the men they just think with their dicks and have a lot to answer for. The consequences they create distorts the whole site I think."

Way of the world

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I've had more than my fair share of being stood up, also had someone forget they were meeting me and advertise for a meet

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yep.

His loss! Your body is unbelievably hot"

Neither of us lost; he didn't have sex with me for whatever reason and I didn't get stood up by someone who didn't want to meet me but lied and said they did. That's definitely not a loss for him and my ego survived whatever loss there was my end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had more than my fair share of being stood up, also had someone forget they were meeting me and advertise for a meet "

Are they all mental......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And i've had messages read and deleted without a reply.

I also had a "i don't need your pity thanks" after i sent a nice message to someone from a forum thing.

I now no longer make first contact with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned quite a few ladies down, I'm hardly gods gift but I like what I like which isn't going to change. I don't see it as a big deal either way. Just because us single men have a hard time on here doesn't mean we should accept every offer we get. As long as you do it in a polite and respectful way it shouldn't be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to turn someone down than lead them on, turn up, an no be able to get it up cause they don't do it for ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had to turn anyone down ,not had to accept an offer either

But I wouldn't say yes to a fuck just for the sake of it or for a veri either ,I have had a meet on here and that's as far as it's gone ..two meets same lady ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, and I'm sure I was punching above my weight. But hey, what's good for the men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single woman and I'm not sure this was aimed at couples as well, but we've been turned down by single guys (along with messages not answered). I came on fab knowing people have different tastes, so it's no worries here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better to turn someone down than lead them on, turn up, an no be able to get it up cause they don't do it for ya. "

This is class. Also very true

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Paul says no to me far too much for my liking....or doesn't that count?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I haven't been turned down directly but that's because I'm terribly cowardly and don't usually make the first move on someone. I have had a number of 'promising' conversations fizzle away to nothing though which pretty much amounts to the same thing, presumably because the other party wasn't feeling it but that's fine, we can't be everything to everyone and nor would I want to be.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I had the temerity to turn quite an attractive woman down, once. The shit really hit the fan after that, she wasn't impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess so far, I'd consider myself lucky in that I haven't had to turn a lady down based on looks alone. I have met a lady for a social and despite us finding each other attractive on the pictures and in the flesh, there wasn't a sexual connection so we both agreed to leave it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not really on here,but then I don't tend to message. I've been ignored on a dating site though when I've messaged there,I then send an abusive message to ask why I'm being ignored and to say I didn't like them anyway . Ps I don't really.

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