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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question to all the beautiful mums, when your child turned 18 did you have an emotional meltdown?

Just wondering if my random bursts of tears are normal? Or do I just need to men the f up

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes I did. I feel emotional about them growing up with every passing year. I miss each phase. Having said that, it brings a new phase and new experiences and that is just as wonderful. Be brave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I did. I feel emotional about them growing up with every passing year. I miss each phase. Having said that, it brings a new phase and new experiences and that is just as wonderful. Be brave "

Thank you, nice to know I'm not alone xx

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i didn't, what's making you cry?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i didn't, what's making you cry? "

Nothing really I just look at him, then think of when he was little and the flood gates open

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

caistor

As a dad my 15year old is a pain in the arse, wish he would grow up. LOL

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i didn't, what's making you cry?

Nothing really I just look at him, then think of when he was little and the flood gates open "

oh, i was wondering if something was wrong with me for not getting upset. i did that with my oldest when he was younger than 18, missed him being a baby but i've accepted it now he's older, and with his brothers and sisters.

i did cry when getting rid of all the baby clothes too, when they went to school, or if they were sad or struggling with anything, but now i feel kinda proud he's doing ok for himself. my 2nd oldest is a year off 18 but just starting to make his own life for himself too and again i feel glad he's doing alright.

i feel a little sad that none of my kids are dependent on me any more but i don't cry about it or think about it too much, it's just what kids do. plus one day -grandkids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a dad my 15year old is a pain in the arse, wish he would grow up. LOL"

I have a 15 year old as well he resembles Satan at the moment, I'm wishing his hormones would settle already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry every time I have another birthday. It's the same thing I guess. Normal.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i think it's normal to grieve our kids as they change into someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think it's normal to grieve our kids as they change into someone else."

I don't feel like I've had him as a child for long enough, it's passed too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think it's normal to grieve our kids as they change into someone else.

I don't feel like I've had him as a child for long enough, it's passed too quickly "

Awww mine are only young but I cry when they start nursery, start school, go up each year at school, generally get older... so yes, I think it's very normal!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all,i feel a little relieved now xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I breathed a sigh of relief

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Thank you all,i feel a little relieved now xx"

no feelings are wrong really if you think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i feel a little sad that none of my kids are dependent on me any more but i don't cry about it or think about it too much, it's just what kids do. plus one day -grandkids. "

^^^ this

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I didn't cry as they grew up. I sort of expected them to grow up.

Children are never ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think it's normal to grieve our kids as they change into someone else.

I don't feel like I've had him as a child for long enough, it's passed too quickly "

I know that feeling.

I was looking at photos of when he was younger & it made me well up a little, he was so different back then, real mummies boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a proud dad of a son and daughter I enjoyed seeing them grow into adulthood. My son like myself joined the army at aged 18 and now at 24 he is a section commander in a infantry regiment. Married to a lovely lass and has a beautiful daughter.

My daughter is a midwife and loves her job. Every new born baby she helps deliver gives her joy. If anyone is suited to a profession it is her.

Proud of them both.

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