FabSwingers.com forum: What is kinky?

By *z429 OP Man
over a year ago

Suffolk

The word "Kinky" is used a lot around here but what does it actually mean to people? Assuming everyone has different ideas of "Kinky"... What does it mean to you?

Would love to hear from people and of course, try some new kinky ideas xxx

By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Something that is not straight and narrow?

It's all subjective.

I've been to greedy girl parties that were fun but felt vanilla to me, as it was men just having sex with women.

Great fun, but didn't seem kinky to me, where others might think that it is.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The word "Kinky" is used a lot around here but what does it actually mean to people? Assuming everyone has different ideas of "Kinky"... What does it mean to you?

Would love to hear from people and of course, try some new kinky ideas xxx"

There you go....off wiki

In human sexuality, kinkiness is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. The term kink has been claimed by some who practice sexual fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to sexual objectification and certain paraphilias.

Kink sexual practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between kink and fetishism, defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the latter as replacing it.[1] Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.