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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It must happen alot on a site like this 1. Just saw a status about the above on my local (update).

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

this is what the site is designed for isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it does happen a lot, but that's the choice of the person who's cheating.

I try not to judge because I don't know anything about people's lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And?

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"this is what the site is designed for isn't it? "

Er, no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, it does. The topic is often raised. Some are for, some are against.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As long as they leave me alone I couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are we to judge. You never know what's happening in other people's relationships.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"Who are we to judge. You never know what's happening in other people's relationships. "

We r all here for sex n majority of us says we r after no strings attached sex,i dont see why ppl should judge others.Some ppl are attracted to married or attached ppl.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

The concept of faithfulness is basically dead, people aren't wired to be monogamous it's just part of religious doctrine.

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By *onnor999Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

hear hear. too many people on here judge when they don't know the first thing about people's situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it does happen a lot, but that's the choice of the person who's cheating.

I try not to judge because I don't know anything about people's lives."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Who are we to judge. You never know what's happening in other people's relationships.

We r all here for sex n majority of us says we r after no strings attached sex,i dont see why ppl should judge others.Some ppl are attracted to married or attached ppl."

But people do judge each other its normal human behaviour. We need to make judgments to keep us safe or we would all be going down dark alleys with dodgy looking characters .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"The concept of faithfulness is basically dead, people aren't wired to be monogamous it's just part of religious doctrine. "

Well, you have a different understanding of what faithful means and what swinging is to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The concept of faithfulness is basically dead, people aren't wired to be monogamous it's just part of religious doctrine.

Well, you have a different understanding of what faithful means and what swinging is to us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done Op you win a coconut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today "

You mischievous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I have a great marriage we do all the normal day to day stuff family birthdays Christmas etc have a great sex life the only difference is that I openly swing and she goes her own way with her lovers. It's definitely something to talk about over the evening meal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done Op you win a coconut "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

You mischievous "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"The concept of faithfulness is basically dead, people aren't wired to be monogamous it's just part of religious doctrine. "

I don't agree. Some people are happily and naturally monogamous, I think there's room for everyone as long as people are open about it with each other

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"hear hear. too many people on here judge when they don't know the first thing about people's situations. "

That's what people do they judge they have an opinion. No perhaps I shouldn't judge,but if someone is cheating and their partner doesn't know that's not good in my head. People can justify their actions all they like,it's still wrong either way. What they do however is off no concern to me,I will not be involved in your lies though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ment tae be cheating with consent, open relationships, so not really cheating!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today "

Some people leave such complicated lives don't they I don't know how they cope. I like things simple in my world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is what the site is designed for isn't it? "

Common thought from single married men

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"hear hear. too many people on here judge when they don't know the first thing about people's situations.

That's what people do they judge they have an opinion. No perhaps I shouldn't judge,but if someone is cheating and their partner doesn't know that's not good in my head. People can justify their actions all they like,it's still wrong either way. What they do however is off no concern to me,I will not be involved in your lies though. "

Aptly named I see, cloud cuckoo land!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

Some people leave such complicated lives don't they I don't know how they cope. I like things simple in my world..."

You said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today "

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here."

Even topper tip believe jack shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here.

Even topper tip believe jack shit "

topper topper tip ~ don't shit stir...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here.

Even topper tip believe jack shit

topper topper tip ~ don't shit stir..."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here.

Even topper tip believe jack shit

topper topper tip ~ don't shit stir..."

Who me never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it even possible for those who lead an open relationship lifestyle aka swingers tae cheat?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"hear hear. too many people on here judge when they don't know the first thing about people's situations.

That's what people do they judge they have an opinion. No perhaps I shouldn't judge,but if someone is cheating and their partner doesn't know that's not good in my head. People can justify their actions all they like,it's still wrong either way. What they do however is off no concern to me,I will not be involved in your lies though.

Aptly named I see, cloud cuckoo land!!"

Thanks Chick . It's the weekend isn't it ,shouldn't you be with...hubby

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim


"Is it even possible for those who lead an open relationship lifestyle aka swingers tae cheat? "

Yes, if the ground rules of the open relationship aren't respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whos stirring shit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here."

Firstly amazing tits chick, well done and secondly you mean to tell me kints spout shit on ere

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"It must happen alot on a site like this 1. Just saw a status about the above on my local (update)."

I'm one, in truth. We've all got our own stories and reasons, and I posted a few weeks ago, got a load of abuse, but also got some really good feedback from some really good people. I don't judge others, but it's down to others to either judge me or work with me, they have control of their own choices xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does happen, some people are happy to meet cheaters, some aren't. People can choose whether they would feel happy meeting a cheater or they wouldn't. It's the individuals choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go ask thingy how he's feeling today

He's absolutely fine

Top tip don't believe all the shit you read on here.

Firstly amazing tits chick, well done and secondly you mean to tell me kints spout shit on ere "

Errr thanks, I grew them myself

What's a kint?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"It must happen alot on a site like this 1. Just saw a status about the above on my local (update).

I'm one, in truth. We've all got our own stories and reasons, and I posted a few weeks ago, got a load of abuse, but also got some really good feedback from some really good people. I don't judge others, but it's down to others to either judge me or work with me, they have control of their own choices xx"

I'm working with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you are cheating on your spouse why are you still with them? Don't you think you'd be better off being single so that you don't have sneak around lying all the time.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol."

Non of us will from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here "

Yes, if you are single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never judge a person until you have walked in their shoes.id prefer to know if someone was married and I don't want to be lied to. Other than that it's their guilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are cheating on your spouse why are you still with them? Don't you think you'd be better off being single so that you don't have sneak around lying all the time."

Or in an open relationship

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Never judge a person until you have walked in their shoes.id prefer to know if someone was married and I don't want to be lied to. Other than that it's their guilt "

Very true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here "

Speak for yourselves lol the last time I checked sex is no a sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single "

It's still sex outside of marriage

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here

Speak for yourselves lol the last time I checked sex is no a sin."

It is if you do anything other than missionary

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone!!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"The concept of faithfulness is basically dead, people aren't wired to be monogamous it's just part of religious doctrine. "

This is a swingers myth. Not everyone who is faithful is religious

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"If you are cheating on your spouse why are you still with them? Don't you think you'd be better off being single so that you don't have sneak around lying all the time."

For most people that do it its not as simple as walking away from their partner, Children, Financial reasons or living arrangements play a big part in it, Some just don't get what they want sexually from their partner but still want to be with them, The rest probably just get a kick out of sleeping with other people

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Who are we to judge. You never know what's happening in other people's relationships.

We r all here for sex n majority of us says we r after no strings attached sex,i dont see why ppl should judge others.Some ppl are attracted to married or attached ppl.

But people do judge each other its normal human behaviour. We need to make judgments to keep us safe or we would all be going down dark alleys with dodgy looking characters ."

Some of my best times were spent down dark alleys with dodgy looking characters!

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley

The site is designed for like minded people to play and enjoy each other's company......I suppose everyone has baggage and you have to decide if you want to accept it or not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here

Speak for yourselves lol the last time I checked sex is no a sin.

It is if you do anything other than missionary "

Anchoooooooo, scuse me, but am allergic tae bs, besides bitches love my doggy style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are cheating on your spouse why are you still with them? Don't you think you'd be better off being single so that you don't have sneak around lying all the time.

For most people that do it its not as simple as walking away from their partner, Children, Financial reasons or living arrangements play a big part in it, Some just don't get what they want sexually from their partner but still want to be with them, The rest probably just get a kick out of sleeping with other people "

Fair play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never judge a person until you have walked in their shoes.id prefer to know if someone was married and I don't want to be lied to. Other than that it's their guilt "

Not sure their partner would see it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single

It's still sex outside of marriage "

Yes for those who are married, they are doing the adultery lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol."

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell "

Guess I'm already there xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell "

Room for 1 more

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single

It's still sex outside of marriage Yes for those who are married, they are doing the adultery lol."

Yeah,but sex isn't allowed outside of marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell

Guess I'm already there xx"

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single

It's still sex outside of marriage Yes for those who are married, they are doing the adultery lol.

Yeah,but sex isn't allowed outside of marriage "

Yep, the sin of fornication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell

Room for 1 more "

Most definitely, jump aboard and we can all ride there together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single

It's still sex outside of marriage Yes for those who are married, they are doing the adultery lol.

Yeah,but sex isn't allowed outside of marriage "

Who's says?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Non of us will from here Yes, if you are single

It's still sex outside of marriage Yes for those who are married, they are doing the adultery lol.

Yeah,but sex isn't allowed outside of marriage

Yep, the sin of fornication. "

May the Lord strike me down

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell

Room for 1 more

Most definitely, jump aboard and we can all ride there together "

Ohhh I like you

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"They wont get a free pass to heaven lol.

Heaven will be boring, I'm off to hell

Guess I'm already there xx

Excellent "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ask but if you freely tell me you are cheating then I can't judge. Might never meet you again tho lol. All depends on the weather

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