FabSwingers.com forum: forum posts idiots

By *eggysally OP TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

People need to realise nobody is perfect even though some people think they are.

You can have muscles & a big dick , be beautiful with an amazing figure & be a model but all the time in the gym wont sort your personality out or attitude.

Isn't it about time people let others like what they like without judging & leave them to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought this was a roll call for a second then

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating.

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By *eggysally OP TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

"They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating. "

To true i agree x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are negative, some are positive. Some people post negative and other post positive.

I mean the majority is alright! Fab can't be perfect after all, or can it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i thought this was a roll call for a second then

Me too!

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By *eggysally OP TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

"They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating. "

You are lovely by the way x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking posts

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a forum though. And when a post it thread is out there, it's for everyone to comment on. Unless you go Pm as someone said.

Even this Op is going to get views you might not like.

I usually go the d' head comment road. It's sometimes pointless repeating what others have already said, but I try to keep things light hearted.

Keep posting. Keep ignoring those you don't like. Life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

People need to realise nobody is perfect even though some people think they are.

You can have muscles & a big dick , be beautiful with an amazing figure & be a model but all the time in the gym wont sort your personality out or attitude.

Isn't it about time people let others like what they like without judging & leave them to it

Also when the idiots don't like questions/comments you make then send messages to other forum users to say that you are trolling them, a case of wishful thinking really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

idiots in all walks of life - not kust the fab forums

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

It seems the Internet will bring the worst out in some people, the anonymity it affords empowers them to behave in ways they maybe wouldn't in real life....

Then of course you get those that are just rude and obnoxious in real life and are no different on here, those that will not think twice about posting cutting remarks because they don't care what people think of them or if they hurt others feelings needlessly...

But on a whole, the great people far outweigh the not so nice, so take their comments with a pinch of salt and never take to heart any negative comments people may post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I've posted you've got a dickhead on this thread too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lighten up, there's worse things happening in the world right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human nature ..to knock something we don't like to make us feel superior...sad but true

People need to realise to make the world go round it takes something different from us all

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The O.P. acknowledges that all people are different, have different needs and opinions yet calls others idiotic and dickheads.

I'll agree with the last line though and hope that even the O.P. follows their own advice.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Personally I think some of the posts are ridiculous and idiotic .... so what you are saying is everyone has to agree? I thought it was a discussion forum .... some people cannot take it if another person has a different point of view?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Lighten up, there's worse things happening in the world right now. "

but some people just like to have a good old moan from time to time,I've seen a fair bit of it on here lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking posts"
That is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Your dickhead comment might be their pithy bon mot.

We can't control how a post on a forum goes, so the best thing is to do is ignore the ones you dislike and engage the ones you like.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking postsThat is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol."

Here I am ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking postsThat is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol.

Here I am ...."

Has he blocked you though? He hasn't blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

People need to realise nobody is perfect even though some people think they are.

You can have muscles & a big dick , be beautiful with an amazing figure & be a model but all the time in the gym wont sort your personality out or attitude.

Isn't it about time people let others like what they like without judging & leave them to it

Beautiful post x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking postsThat is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol.

Here I am ....

Has he blocked you though? He hasn't blocked me.

Not yet!

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

"Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

People need to realise nobody is perfect even though some people think they are.

You can have muscles & a big dick , be beautiful with an amazing figure & be a model but all the time in the gym wont sort your personality out or attitude.

Isn't it about time people let others like what they like without judging & leave them to it

Beautiful post x"

The world needs more of this attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one thread I was made out to be an aggressive, closet homosexual and homophobic.

I said nothing aggressive or offensive. Just expressed some things I find negative about fab.

I was rounded on very quickly and only a small minority defended me.

I'm glad it panned out that way as my thread was intended to spark a reaction and show people for who they really are, the instant negativity proved my original point..

Theres little to no respect on here, clubs, dogging etc. On the whole it's people chasing what THEY want, quite aggressively in some cases.

People use this site however they see fit. But the whole process opens most of us up into a very vulnerable position.

A little honesty and respect go a long way I find, in every walk of life, especially when it comes to getting your kit off in front of a near stranger.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I haven't seen that thread, so hopefully I am okay to comment. If you were glad that was how it panned out and indeed what you intended, could it not be argued that your thread was deliberately provocative and you started the 'trolling' by posting it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without idiots and penis heads the forums would be a pretty dull place, lighten up and laugh a little fs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't seen that thread, so hopefully I am okay to comment. If you were glad that was how it panned out and indeed what you intended, could it not be argued that your thread was deliberately provocative and you started the 'trolling' by posting it?"

I can see why you'd think that. I wasn't trolling, I was proving a point in a way I'd hoped people may see themselves acting and behaving in a way, that they hadn't done before.

It failed. But hopefully someone came away thinking about their actions and reactions.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes indeed it was! The way we say things can have a very negative reaction and the way that thread kicked of was continued in the manner it started. If someone less confrontational had said it it would have gone a completely different way. He's now coming across all butt hurt and offended.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I can see why you'd think that. I wasn't trolling, I was proving a point in a way I'd hoped people may see themselves acting and behaving in a way, that they hadn't done before.

It failed. But hopefully someone came away thinking about their actions and reactions. "

People use the phrase 'proving a point', or 'social experiment' to backpedal when a post did not go the way they were expecting. Maybe you learned something about the forum denizens that day too.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I can see why you'd think that. I wasn't trolling, I was proving a point in a way I'd hoped people may see themselves acting and behaving in a way, that they hadn't done before.

It failed. But hopefully someone came away thinking about their actions and reactions. "

I need to have a gander at that thread now. So you were basically using the thread to out idioms ... and prove to everyone what you already knew. Isn't it a discussion forum though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all entitled to your opinions, I'm not getting into it again.

I know myself and know you know nothing about me other than the tiny parts I choose to share on here. I'm confident I'm a good person.

Isn't debating confrontational by its very nature?

I'm not back peddling, I'm not scared of defending my views, I'm not sure another posters thread is the best place to bring this up though, so OP, I apologise for mentioning it.

If anyone wants to carry on the debate in private, I'm willing to do so. It's hard to debate with multiple people at once and respond equally to everyone's point.

I still feel I raised many valid points, but rather than focusing on those. Many sought to discredit me personally, probably because they saw a little of themselves in what I said... And reacted in shock, horror and outrage in self defense.

My main point was just, live and let live. Respect and honesty go a long way when dealing with people.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Lighten up, there's worse things happening in the world right now. "

That could be the reply on any post that highlights concern about something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diversity makes the world an interesting place.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"You're all entitled to your opinions, I'm not getting into it again.

I know myself and know you know nothing about me other than the tiny parts I choose to share on here. I'm confident I'm a good person.

Isn't debating confrontational by its very nature?

I'm not back peddling, I'm not scared of defending my views, I'm not sure another posters thread is the best place to bring this up though, so OP, I apologise for mentioning it.

If anyone wants to carry on the debate in private, I'm willing to do so. It's hard to debate with multiple people at once and respond equally to everyone's point.

My main point was just, live and let live. Respect and honesty go a long way when dealing with people. "

Realistically I don't think too many people take any of the threads on here too personally or even remember what was said on them by whom .... I don't think have to worry

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

"Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different.

There's your answer above.

Everybody on here is different. That includes the piss takers and anxstey people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think some of the posts are ridiculous and idiotic .... so what you are saying is everyone has to agree? I thought it was a discussion forum .... some people cannot take it if another person has a different point of view?"
its not a case of someone having a different point of view. Its people who post bitchy responses. Also there are guys who just hang out the arse of women they like, so you get pounced on if you have a different view to those women

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

Your words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There in the C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Our own experiences colour how we read things. Typed words can't display tone and body language intended by the author - we imbue them with that.

Some subjects and posters will get certain reactions but you have agency to decide to or not to react back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Our own experiences colour how we read things. Typed words can't display tone and body language intended by the author - we imbue them with that.

Some subjects and posters will get certain reactions but you have agency to decide to or not to react back. "

I agree with this. Many things can be taken out of context by people who are too sensitive. Some presume to know the tone in which something is written, but certainly don't .....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant"

Well, you can but you'd have to take the consequences. You choose not to tell them.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Don't forget the clique

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say.

Did you reply and laugh to your own post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say.

Did you reply and laugh to your own post?"

I did indeed, thought it was an appropriate time for a reminder & a little chuckle or three...did you scroll through the whole thread to highlight that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant"

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say.

Did you reply and laugh to your own post?

I did indeed, thought it was an appropriate time for a reminder & a little chuckle or three...did you scroll through the whole thread to highlight that?

I was looking at what you thought was ironic and noticed. It's good you can keep yourself happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy"

Its my crown, although I have been busy with life for the last few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy"

Well in that case I must try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy

Well in that case I must try harder

Yep,your slacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy

Its my crown, although I have been busy with life for the last few weeks "

Im sorry i dont remember you

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Ask a silly question ....

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy

Its my crown, although I have been busy with life for the last few weeks

Im sorry i dont remember you"

Obviously you haven't been looking at the right threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one who see's the irony in this post?

Live & let live i say.

Did you reply and laugh to your own post?

I did indeed, thought it was an appropriate time for a reminder & a little chuckle or three...did you scroll through the whole thread to highlight that?

What's your favourite thing to eat?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Whether you're in work out with your mates or when you was in school, You will always find a "clique" or people who get on with each other more then they do with others/have a common interest, And you always have that person or people who make stupid comments or act the fool, I don't know why people are surprised that it happens on open forums

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Awwww look a thread just for me how sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant

Haha not you soxy

Well in that case I must try harder

Yep,your slacking

I'm suffering post fatigue caused by over exposure to all the recent love in threads not to mention all those random Am I the only one threads ......

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Whether you're in work out with your mates or when you was in school, You will always find a "clique" or people who get on with each other more then they do with others/have a common interest, And you always have that person or people who make stupid comments or act the fool, I don't know why people are surprised that it happens on open forums"

Honestly I don't think the majority here are in a secret club or clique. I post what I think .... not for anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating. "

Without us forum post idiots ther would be no threads, we are the glue that keep the forums alive, we are the dog you serious kints need tae kick to boost your own egos. Nothing clever or skilful about it, just all good banter, I'm serious enough in my day to day life without having to be the same on a Internet open relationships forum Fs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They've nothing to contribute to the thread but still want to be involved. Then there's those who'll derail a thread so they can flirt with someone instead of 'getting a room'.

They just want to appear scintillating.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Without idiots and penis heads the forums would be a pretty dull place, lighten up and laugh a little fs. "

Ha ! x so true.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Why is it with nearly every forum post on this site do idiotic people feel the urge to post a snide comment or take the piss. This isn't in relation to me btw.

Virtually every post has 1 dickhead on it.

Everybody on here is different as are peoples likes or what they are into or what they prefer. So why don't people respect other people's opinions.

People need to realise nobody is perfect even though some people think they are.

You can have muscles & a big dick , be beautiful with an amazing figure & be a model but all the time in the gym wont sort your personality out or attitude.

Isn't it about time people let others like what they like without judging & leave them to it

In some cases, it's because it's part of their little Fab persona to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are 1 or 2 that love to jump from thread to thread and blurt out stupid and silly comments,i really want to tell them to fuck off but alas i cant"

You can if you want to

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking postsThat is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol."

I like Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a little nugget if idiocy pops into my head, and I'm compelled to post it.

For that, I apologise wholeheartedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature of the beast. Pleased to see things haven't changed much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is exactly why i think they should include an ignore facility to this forum. there are people i have blocked because they come across as an arse on here. yet i still have to read their pathetic attention seaking postsThat is right. I have blocked loads too, they all show up when you posts something about trump or political correctness lol.

I like Trump

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sometimes a little nugget if idiocy pops into my head, and I'm compelled to post it.

For that, I apologise wholeheartedly. "

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes a little nugget if idiocy pops into my head, and I'm compelled to post it.

For that, I apologise wholeheartedly.

I don't.

It was just for effect; I don't really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a discussion or different opinions is different to someone being deliberately rude or taking the piss. You see the same people on most post taking the piss out of the opening thread or being nasty to the person who started the thread and turning the thread into something it wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in.

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