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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Whilst on my travels recently, I met a spiritual guru type. While I don't believe in that drivel, he said I didn't belong where I currently live. He's right.

Nothing ties me to London and I've had some wonderful times but it makes me miserable.

Thing is, where do I go? If money were no object, it'd be somewhere far flung and warm. But it is. So I'm stuck on these Isles for now.

I like the sea, I like sex, I like kink, I like alternative. Where's good?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Land's End? John O'Groats?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm by the sea now but I'm not sure it would give you what you seek. I still love London.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Salisbury!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Liverpool we'll look after you up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im from london originally really depends on where abouts you go to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brighton?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


" Salisbury! "

She'd eat you alive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever want a tour guide im free haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to el campello on friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brighton.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Salisbury!

She'd eat you alive! "

That's what I'm hoping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you'd like Edinburgh it's a mini London but more manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved to Hertfordshire when I realised my love of London was waning. London is 20 minutes away. I have solitude in countryside when I need it.

Personally I realised that another city would just replicate all London's issues while bring a poor imitation of the place

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Lincolnshire. Cheaper by a mile and only an hour and ten back to the smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinkiest place for you by the sea is whitby....all them goths into pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit that Brighton has alway appealed to us after visiting a couple of times

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I'm by the sea now but I'm not sure it would give you what you seek. I still love London.

"

That's the rub. I love London for all it has but it's starting to grind me down living here. I need the sea!

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


" Salisbury!

She'd eat you alive!

That's what I'm hoping."

Ha! Careful what you wish for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morecambe might get you one of the four, when the tides in anyway.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks for the advice guys. I'm gonna have to do some serious evaluation

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" Salisbury!

She'd eat you alive!

That's what I'm hoping.

Ha! Careful what you wish for "

...make me..

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Think you'd like Edinburgh it's a mini London but more manageable. "

But there's the Scots...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The isles are good for us, but not too warm here, but crazy weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leicester xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm by the sea now but I'm not sure it would give you what you seek. I still love London.

That's the rub. I love London for all it has but it's starting to grind me down living here. I need the sea! "

Brighton?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I love Blackpool and it's charms I reckon Brighton would be more suited to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm by the sea now but I'm not sure it would give you what you seek. I still love London.

That's the rub. I love London for all it has but it's starting to grind me down living here. I need the sea!

Brighton?"

Oops, sorry, not sure how I missed the 3 or 4 posters who already mentioned Brighton

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

"

Wow London has it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yorkshire.....

Where else?

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


" Salisbury!

She'd eat you alive!

That's what I'm hoping.

Ha! Careful what you wish for

...make me.. "

That a challenge? As I tend to ignore brats

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

Wow London has it all!"

It does but for all it's charms. It's a bloody lonely place

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

Wow London has it all!

It does but for all it's charms. It's a bloody lonely place "

Every northerner will confirm it is crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

Wow London has it all!

It does but for all it's charms. It's a bloody lonely place "

I jest of course...

If you know what your into then finding people who enjoy the same things really isn't that difficult anywhere, let alone one of the most populated places in the country...join a likeminded group get out there so to speak, you'll find plenty who like similar things

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Cardiff "

I like Bristol.

I agree that smaller cities have the same problems, but what I've always loved about a place like Cardiff is there's good "city stuff" like world class opera, but I can have my boots on and be walking up a mountain in the Beacons or a lovely beach in an hour.

Smaller cities are very "get-outtable".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essex cos it's the driest county in the country, still love going back in the summer, but avoid the new towns...

For the swinging lifestyle though it's the West Midlands, easily accessible to any part of the country and lots of rural tranquillity extremely close to a major city that has all the London opportunity without the price tag...

xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Yorkshire.....

Where else? "

Gods own country!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy visiting london, but i wouldnt want to live there again. I like Glasgow, always find the weegies friendly, Its got good theatres/west end shows, seems to be a good contemporary arts scene, gets major bands etc. The sea is close by, Helensborough, Loch Lomond are nice, must be plenty of fellow erm "enthusiasts" knocking aboot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bognor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though in all honesty my favourite UK city outside of London is Bristol

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Whilst on my travels recently, I met a spiritual guru type. While I don't believe in that drivel, he said I didn't belong where I currently live. He's right.

Nothing ties me to London and I've had some wonderful times but it makes me miserable.

Thing is, where do I go? If money were no object, it'd be somewhere far flung and warm. But it is. So I'm stuck on these Isles for now.

I like the sea, I like sex, I like kink, I like alternative. Where's good?

"
London is stressful Scotland is lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

East Durham coast,rye harbour East Sussex,Luce bay,Galloway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bognor"

Oh no, no, no, Bognor is grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"East Durham coast,rye harbour East Sussex,Luce bay,Galloway "

Rye is gorgeous!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Brighton.(or around there)...coast and scene.

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

God's own county; Yorkshire.

East coast is so beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent 3 days in Brighton in November a few years back and loved it.

Rye is lovely and not far from Hastings.

Of course, I don't know how friendly people are there, but if you lived in a smallish village you would probably get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spent 3 days in Brighton in November a few years back and loved it.

Rye is lovely and not far from Hastings.

Of course, I don't know how friendly people are there, but if you lived in a smallish village you would probably get to know people. "

Well Brighton is only about an hour from London on the train. Also, there are plenty of smaller communities within the town itself with plenty of ofther within 10 miles. It's a pretty cosmopolitan place. There's a drag scene too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

"

Can get that in Glasgow too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

Can get that in Glasgow too "
And battered Mars bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spent 3 days in Brighton in November a few years back and loved it.

Rye is lovely and not far from Hastings.

Of course, I don't know how friendly people are there, but if you lived in a smallish village you would probably get to know people.

Well Brighton is only about an hour from London on the train. Also, there are plenty of smaller communities within the town itself with plenty of ofther within 10 miles. It's a pretty cosmopolitan place. There's a drag scene too."

I tried to get my husband into a gay bar, but he was having none of it. It was alive with music and laughter.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

London is great.... for a couple of days. Then I wanna go home!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love visiting London but wouldn't live there. I'm originally from Suffolk and my god I really miss the sea!! Love going back but I couldn't live there either. Too many oldies.

How exciting for you

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Essex..

For all its faults and bad reputation, it's got some really nice areas, it also has the longest coastline of any county in the UK.

And what's even better, your an hour away from London in most places..

What's concerning me is how you can be tired of London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Essex..

For all its faults and bad reputation, it's got some really nice areas, it also has the longest coastline of any county in the UK.

And what's even better, your an hour away from London in most places..

What's concerning me is how you can be tired of London? "

It's a tiring place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London is without doubt one of the world's greatest cities and I don't subscribe with any view to the contrary despite it being almost a national pastime to knock ourselves.

But I'm a country boy from a rural background so I could never live there again despite loving to visit.

Wherever you end up I hope you find happiness OP, life's too short to not be properly content so follow your dreams as much as you are reasonably able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brighton?"

brighton surprisingly lacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goa

X

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

You find no man, at all intellectual, who is willing to leave London. No, Sir, when a man is tired of London, he is tired of life; for there is in London all that life can afford. ~ Samuel Johnson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brighton?"

Definitely Brighton!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

East Midlands is also good, can get anywhere in the country easily and London is an hour on the train from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brighton?

Definitely Brighton! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lived in Lewisham area most of my life, shit hole, last 7 years in Suffolk in the sticks, love it, different way of life.

Like the odd night back out in the West End and to see family n friends but otherwise would never go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God babes we all think anywhere is better, til we live there?

I'm listening to Pappa was a rolling stone ironically!

Wish I had a magic wand! How about a big boobie hug xx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Bonnie Scotland of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brighton?

brighton surprisingly lacking "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brighton?

brighton surprisingly lacking

xx"

Lacking what? Sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst on my travels recently, I met a spiritual guru type. While I don't believe in that drivel, he said I didn't belong where I currently live. He's right.

Nothing ties me to London and I've had some wonderful times but it makes me miserable.

Thing is, where do I go? If money were no object, it'd be somewhere far flung and warm. But it is. So I'm stuck on these Isles for now.

I like the sea, I like sex, I like kink, I like alternative. Where's good?

"

Go to Asia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

further north, that's my best advice purely because i'm biased you understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whitstable, beautiful seaside and harbour, lots of little shops a and pubs, plus 3 clubs within an hour's drive. Good train links to London. Good luck with your decision x

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Whilst on my travels recently, I met a spiritual guru type. While I don't believe in that drivel, he said I didn't belong where I currently live. He's right.

Nothing ties me to London and I've had some wonderful times but it makes me miserable.

Thing is, where do I go? If money were no object, it'd be somewhere far flung and warm. But it is. So I'm stuck on these Isles for now.

I like the sea, I like sex, I like kink, I like alternative. Where's good?

Go to Asia."

Just got back from there! Would be ideal but not possible.

Maybe I need a slave who lives by the sea with a spare room I can pop to as and when I felt like it. Now that'd be perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morecambe might get you one of the four, when the tides in anyway. "

Horrendous place

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I did it gradually, From Brixton to the sub's then London/Essex border a couple more moves & we have ended up in nowheresville between the Rivers Crouch & Blackwater and 10mins from the deserted coastline.

Only thing I miss is being able to hop on the tube and be up town in 10 mins, now its an event requiring a hotel if drinking late.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chepstow...pretty yet close enough to the kink of Bristol

Bournemouth over Brighton

Anywhere up the Northumberland coast

Isle of Man/White

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Goa

X"

Good call, I'd live there in a heartbeat.

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great time living on both Ibiza and Zanzibar FYI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in the Cayman Islands...

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Think you'd like Edinburgh it's a mini London but more manageable.

But there's the Scots... "

And

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I love London...

You can get fish & chips, fried chicken, kebab & pizza from the same shop!

"

As you can in glasgow lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Enjoy visiting london, but i wouldnt want to live there again. I like Glasgow, always find the weegies friendly, Its got good theatres/west end shows, seems to be a good contemporary arts scene, gets major bands etc. The sea is close by, Helensborough, Loch Lomond are nice, must be plenty of fellow erm "enthusiasts" knocking aboot! "

Glasgow is the place to be

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I'd back all those saying Brighton, very cool, quirky town.

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By *obyn67Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland

I adore Brighton !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My initial thoughts were also Brighton. Good scene down there

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