FabSwingers.com forum: The Introspection thread...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Following the brutal honesty thread, but instead of having someone telling what they think of you, I thought it would be interesting to see how and what people think of themselves.

So I'll start by myself.

Stucked between what I am and what I'd like to be, stucked between addictions and aspirations I am certainly struggling.

Between what I say and what I do, most of the time there is something paradoxical.

Partly see myself as a joke, using humour as a defense mechanism. Sometimes over sensitive, as many on here I am somehow body insecured, yet I do love myself and my beard too much, hence my username.

Last but not least I have an obsessive addiction to kinder bueno, hate marmite and can't stand people who drives a ford ka.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me ....

Not sure why I came back into the world of fab

Finding life in general stressful but managing

Enjoy reading the forums and having a perv

Been told I'm quite a shy person but it's just a front

Loves marmite and guys with tattoos and facial hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For reasons I'm not explaining on here, I'm currently on a quest to be a better me, physically and mentally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm grumpy

I hate people I don't know (until I get to know them)

I'm a cunt but I'll make you laugh or smile

I have 0 self confidence unless I'm done up

I have puppies though, so I'm a real winner in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi x This is me peach, currently trying to put on weight but only gaining muscle! Happy and confident in my naked skin, I'm at that 'dont give a shit what others think' stage lol! Somedays tho I just cba to deal with people and that's what I want to change, to be more positive and proactive...if I can be bothered lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stressed out loner.

Use Fab as a distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Navel gazing? Not sure I want to go down that route, I might not get out again.

But as you've shared, I'll have a think and put something up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A stressed out loner.

Use Fab as a distraction."

Or maybe I'll just use this and save time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy, full of life and getting naughtier by the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love swimming.....that is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm awesome

Of course you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm awesome

Of course you are

I'm being introspective. I've learned a lot about myself from this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very shy and have spent my life making myself jump straight in. Be the first to speak. To just step up.

I've finally started to find myself and that makes me very happy.

I think that shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am a million different people from one day to the next, I can't change...oh no, no.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I put on my profile Im hung witty intelligent good looking and modest

One of them I was bullshiting about

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I spend a lot of time on my own and always thought I enjoyed my own company. Lately I've realised that being with people brings out the best in me....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm not telling the world my flaw's it'll be like group bloody therapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi x This is me peach, currently trying to put on weight but only gaining muscle! Happy and confident in my naked skin, I'm at that 'dont give a shit what others think' stage lol! Somedays tho I just cba to deal with people and that's what I want to change, to be more positive and proactive...if I can be bothered lol!

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You look well fit dont worry about weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love swimming.....that is all"

I love swimming too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love myself, I love people.

I make the most of anything I can be bothered to.

I'm often ridiculously tired; both mentally and physically, so I watch rather than participate-on here and in my life.

I like being here and the sex it has given me, being here.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm pretty much a loner & have always chosen hobbies & jobs that were possible to do on my own so motorcycling, walking, one man banding. Work from home now.

Socially if we ever just make our excuses & leave it'll usually be because of me just not getting into it, whatever "it" was supposed to be at the time.

I over think & under think a lot & coming up to my 55th I still struggle with getting it somewhere in the middle where everyone is happy.

But saying all that on my better days I can be a right grumpy cunt too, so its not all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love swimming.....that is all

I love swimming too. "

Just done a mile and now im about to have a curry im starving!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look well fit dont worry about weight

x ta very much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not telling the world my flaw's it'll be like group bloody therapy

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Ohhh were meant to be talking flaws my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love swimming.....that is all

I love swimming too.

Just done a mile and now im about to have a curry im starving!!"

Do you love curry too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look well fit dont worry about weight

x ta very much x"
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Nice pics as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love swimming.....that is all

I love swimming too.

Just done a mile and now im about to have a curry im starving!!

Do you love curry too?

Im sat in an indian cafe in manchester stuffing my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've asked for help with my profile & then I tried to get someone to write a PM ice breaker for me.

Can I please ask if anyone would like to write mine here.

3rd time lucky? Come on?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Very much live life from one day to the next, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and all that. Prone to putting my mouth in gear before my brain. Wear my heart on my sleeve and not good at thinking on my feet. Like to think of myself as thoughtful and considerate, and generally try and put others before myself. Very much open up once I get to know people, which doesn't usually take long.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I'm so content where I am I have very little inclination to improve the areas that could do with improvement.

I offer help knowing I have no time to follow through and get fed-up with people demanding I do things I've said I will do.

I feel each day that everyone around me has received a script that morning but mine was lost in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I think about myself?!

Thats good question..

I think Im positive and beautiful person inside out.

I smile and laugh alot!

Im small thing girl.. I mean small every day things makes me happy, so I have lots stuff/details around me whats make me smile!

I love be around people, but I also enjoying being all by myself..

I love ice cream,can eat it looots.

I cant swim or sing.

I wish do more travelling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me by Me

I am a fully paid up introvert so, out there amongst the crazies, I am 'shy' and 'quiet' but really my brain is saying 'don't draw attention to yourself, don't fuck anything up, we'll go home soon'. I also get nervous to point of shaking when meeting people that I have invested time in which must be such a turn on

Behind a keyboard without having to sit in front of anyone I can flow without those worries. Having said that, I can flow too much sometimes and the filter that says 'enough' doesn't work. I apologise for that now. It's bitten me hard on the arse before now.

Physically I am more confident now than I have been for a long time. Whether this is a false confidence due to comments from strangers I don't really care. However these comments still make me shake my head as until I came on to the forums I could count on one hand the number of times someone had been positive about my appearance.

I like my sense of humour but have to control the sarcasm sometimes, I think I am reasonable intelligent and open minded.

I'm not a total write off and recognise that I will forever be WIP but then everyone should be.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Urrgghh ... if I had to write about myself in detail, it'd be very long, very boring, rather peculiar and no-one would ever want to meet me

Suffice to say I'm not the person I thought I'd be when I 'grew up'. I'm not sure I can do very much to change that - I've got a lot of deep rooted internal demons and find them hard to deal with. I've never really felt I fitted in anywhere, and find it hard to fathom out a lot of other people. I spend a lot of time suppressing my gut reaction to things, and conforming to society's expectations, which is exhausting so often I just can't be arsed and withdraw instead.

On the plus side, I do always try very hard to be kind, honest and loyal towards the few people I let in, and I won't turn the other cheek to injustice I see. I know I'm often seen as weird by others which doesn't always matter as I like my individuality but can hit home if you're feeling low

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually straight.

My wife gets off on dressing me up and makes me have sex with men.

My tattoos aren't real. They are actually just transfers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Right let's try again.

I only truly care what those I love think of me so I don't expect anyone else to care what I think of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

I'm flawed and I know it.

I have ridiculously low self esteem and confidence issues. Many people have tried to change this, the most important person being Adam. However, I can only listen to my inner demons unfortunately.

I give good advice, I'm horrendous at taking my own advice.

I like to know I'm safe and loved, ridiculously needy within a relationship.

I am a very social person and I love to chat to people. It makes me happy. Sometimes this can mean that I talk nonsense but I kind of need it.

I have my own set of moral codes and can often be very narrow minded to those who have a different set to myself. I try to work on this when possible.

I love to make other people laugh and smile. I genuinely like being nice to people. There's not enough happiness in the world for my liking and I don't want to add to the negativity.

I love fiercely but I don't love myself. Blah.

I love to learn new things and take on extra workload, I hate paperwork though!

I love doughnuts and dominos, I also love to lift heavy weights and help others to do so too.

Eve. X

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Fab is somewhere I frequent to kill some boredom or zone out of reality a little.

I'm a hopeless romantic, a dreamer, an over thinker and I stay in situations I shouldn't. I'm lonely and insecure.

I'm a terrible swinger but there's (I hope) much more to me than meets the eye.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm an introverted extrovert. A walking talking contradiction.

Short fuse for ignorance, bigotry, stupidity and fluffy girly shit. Though I'm a hopeless romantic. Tend to trust very few people, bit of a loner yet am at my best in company.

Overweight but content enough to not care. Pass the cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love swimming.....that is all

I love swimming too.

Just done a mile and now im about to have a curry im starving!!"

I love curry too

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I'm an empath and pick up on the emotions of others. I currently help mentor a group with learning difficulties.

I also have a slight nutella addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me - I like marmite. (op you come from a country that eats escargot, and you don't like marmite?)

My confidence is my strength, as I know I'm a good, honest person. Too honest for sometimes.

And my fragile emotional sensitivity is my weakness.

Now. Who wants to hug me? I feel like I need to cry....into the shoulder of a sexy woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gosh, I'm my own worst critic. I am always the one to offer words of praise and build up other people's self confidence yet don't accept compliments about myself. I battle my inner demons and they win mostly.

I am a good person and am always the first to offer help to someone in need often to my own detriment.

I love deep and hard, willing to give second chances but won't forgive some actions against me or my children.

I try to put on a happy front but am very insecure and scared to ask what people think of me.

I'm intensely loyal and a friend for life to those I let get close. I do put up walls and don't let many people see the vulnerable side of me. I've also discussed I'm a strong person and although I come across flirty it's hiding a scared and damaged interior.

But I'm also fun when I'm with people I'm comfortable with and very opinionated on subjects close to my heart. I also waffle on

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Hmmm.....

I am a likeable chap, always seen as 'fun' person...but inside I am actually quite shy and it takes a while for me to pluck up courage to do something. I sometimes feel alone while in large groups.

I joined fab to while away some hours but was slowly drawn in and really enjoy having fun and meeting people now.

I over analyse, worry about what people's perception of me is occasionally - but have recently learned not to give a fuck

Never thought I was particularly good looking/handsome but I'm now growing into my skin and know I'm appreciated by a few people

There are other flaws/defects/anomalies to me but have learned to live and cope with them

Can sing a bit, dancing-nah!,can cook meals when can be bothered/remember....but I can bake...boy can I bake

Only a few previous long term owners but loads of original features and plenty more miles on the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to take some thought, although I can relate to one of two posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nice guy who has stopped caring about nice guys finishing last. I'm a father, so I've already won in life.

I'm quick to trust, quick to friendship. Make a joke out of either and you'll lose both from me forever.

I'm a lover, not a problem fighter. Have a heart big enough to care for anyone who cares about me.

I've had my big heart broken many times and sometimes I've done the breaking.

I'm a thinker, a dreamer, mechanical and physical.. But rarely all at once..

I'm a man after all..

That's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I don't like doing these

I'm quite a shy private person really where it counts. I'm quite ditsy and I often am the first to make fun of myself before someone else can. I'm talkative but giggly kind of person but struggles when given compliments I blush something awful. Ive learnt not to care if others dont like me, thats ok. I know i'm not everyones cup of tea. I'm submissive with my Sir and Daddy yet I switch too and I've a sissy....ok are we done now

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