FabSwingers.com forum: Just seems like I'm getting no where

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

I'm quite new to this sn I'm looking for some help an advice

I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I'm just this just doesn't seem to be working

If I do send a msg, it's always polite and not vulgar, I try to be easy going and honest in every way, an they just get ignored

Is it my profile?

Thanks in advance

Phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is key.

Getting meets on here takes a lot of work. Women get masses of messages every day and working through them all must be a right flap ache.

Keep plugging away. Your profile is a little negative sounding and your pics are not showing you off well but you are ahead of the game by showing your face.

Perseverance and having a nose at some other profiles with a number of veris should help

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'd maybe take that bit out about not a stalker or creep etc,also get rid of your status.People dont have to reply op ,take that as a no thanks.

Lastly more pics of you ,maybe take the hat one off.

Good luck

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just got to relax about it mate, stay true to yourself and be polite. I agree with poster above get rid of the stalker bit and just take a few pictures.

There will be times where nothing happens and then times when it all happen.

There are a lot of threads with advice in the forums. Check them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is key.Lol

Getting meets on here takes a lot of work. Women get masses of messages every day and working through them all must be a right flap ache.

Keep plugging away. Your profile is a little negative sounding and your pics are not showing you off well but you are ahead of the game by showing your face.

Perseverance and having a nose at some other profiles with a number of veris should help"

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By *lueBelle030Woman
over a year ago

Newport

"I'd maybe take that bit out about not a stalker or creep etc,also get rid of your status.People dont have to reply op ,take that as a no thanks.

Lastly more pics of you ,maybe take the hat one off.

Good luck

Miss"

Absolutely agree with this.

If I read your status I wouldn't reply to you.

I currently have 870 unread messages.

I can't reply 'no thanks' to all those people. A no reply is a 'not interested'.

Accept that women get a hell of a lot of messages here, so unless you're bringing something different to the plate, you're unlikely to get noticed.

The bit about not being a creep etc just makes me suspicious. It's like the 'nice guy' thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd maybe take that bit out about not a stalker or creep etc,also get rid of your status.People dont have to reply op ,take that as a no thanks.

Lastly more pics of you ,maybe take the hat one off.

Good luck

Miss

Absolutely agree with this.

If I read your status I wouldn't reply to you.

I currently have 870 unread messages.

I can't reply 'no thanks' to all those people. A no reply is a 'not interested'.

Accept that women get a hell of a lot of messages here, so unless you're bringing something different to the plate, you're unlikely to get noticed.

The bit about not being a creep etc just makes me suspicious. It's like the 'nice guy' thing. "

Lord above! Why have I not seen you around before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'in the shadow of idiots' comment comes across as quite condescending imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all

All I've tried to do is be honest but it's how it's worded that counts - points taken!

I only wrote the "idiots" comment because within 3hrs of opening my account, I got bombarded by the same 3 ppl non stop

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

early days yet OP. Take the advice you read on profiles in the forums and you'll be a way ahead of a lot of guys.

And not everyone has negative views on service / ex service people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"early days yet OP. Take the advice you read on profiles in the forums and you'll be a way ahead of a lot of guys.

And not everyone has negative views on service / ex service people

Ahhh that pissed me right off haha

Thanks anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not the only one lot of the men get knock back by other members

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Your not the only one lot of the men get knock back by other members"

Lots of members get knocked back by other members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top-tip from the Sox guide for single guy

If all else fails ..... shave your legs and buy a frock .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No patience about it. Plenty of women meet. You just have to find them

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It looks like you've updated your Profile as it reads well, plus adding face pictures is also a plus, (personally I don't like cock pictures so it's a plus for me when I don't see any).

Try and get out to meet others Townhouse is near to you and is a very good venue.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Great advice here. People look at profiles when getting messages, so improve it as best you can.

I'd like to see more of a guy's body, to determine how attracted I am to him. If you include photos of you dressed, aim for them to show you at your best, perhaps similarly to how you'll meet someone. Get friends to take face pics of you relaxed and smiling too.

Good luck!

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